LOVE and HOPE

Wondering why the subject line says "LOVE and HOPE". For past one week I was reading thru the posts in the forum. ONLY reading and not commenting...I found some of us hating Dev ...some of us hating Sonakshi ...some of us not liking the story line...majority of us not liking the costume given to our actors...We hate it when ppl say our serial is going to close soon...we hate it when they say that one of the weekdays it will not be aired because some other serial has a maha episode...and weekends...hmmm...lets not even get there...

there is so much of character bashing that happens...even after knowing that the characters in the story are someone else's imaginative creation...not real...

...but in spite of all these dislikes we all eagerly wait for our serial to aired at 9:30 PM IST . ...even when there is too much negativity we might skip few episodes but would read the updates to know the current status of the story...So..when there are too much flaws/negativity ..and making us loose our peace of mind.. , how come we are not letting it go?? why dont we stop watching it ...Why do we read updates to know the status??

You know why ?? BECAUSE WE GENUIENLY LOVE THIS SERIAL !!

We love this serial to such an extant that we love the journey in spite of the flaws this serial has...we love this serial even when we know some episodes didnt meet our expectations...And we read the updates even when we skip watching an episode is because we hope we will get to see what we loved in season 1...

When we love something/someone we are willing to let go of the negativities ..we just want to be with them..even during difficult /painful times WE HOPE that LOVE will BLOSSOM again...I dont know if there is a scientific reason behind it but this is the truth.

Now having said this ...can we blame two individuals , Dev and Sonakshi for not seeing each others flaws?? Can we blame Dev and Sonakshi for being angry with each other ? Can we blame Dev and Sonakshi getting jealous?? Love is not easy to define..if love is friendship for some , then love is responsibility for some...What we need to see is that , even after these two got separated for nearly 7 years they have not given up on their love.

Like us viewers who are not able to let go this serial ..in spite of episodes not meeting our expectations..Dev and Sonakshi are not able to let go their love for each other . They genuinely want to enjoy their life with each other and somewhere deep down in their heart there is this HOPE THAT ONE DAY THEIR LOVE WILL BE BACK WITH THEM !!

I cant blame them ...because love always brings in hope of joy , peace and happiness...and during difficult time it is this hope that helps the love to grow again..

Ashu di.. Mujhe rula diya.. Yeh sahi nhi hai... Why r u so good in analysis... Why.. Maine kya galti ki ki mujhe nhi aata aise posts banana..

Originally posted by: AnanyaGhosh

Ashu di.. Mujhe rula diya.. Yeh sahi nhi hai... Why r u so good in analysis... Why.. Maine kya galti ki ki mujhe nhi aata aise posts banana..

This is such a genuine post by a loyal fan... Sach... So beautiful... I m also waiting for dev sona ka reunion.. Thr love aspiring high on again..

Thank you Ananya!! I am glad you liked my post. All these years its her love for Dev thru Soha that made Sonakshi rise in her life...because for her , her love for Dev and the love she got from Soha was her strength ..She saw Dev in Soha...

For Dev , if Sonakshi's love for him was his strength ...then his love for her was his weakness...in fact she is his weakness...and hence he was not able to rise in love...because his strength left him or in other words he let go of his strength...but he survived thru Golu's love for him...

Now after 7 yrs when they meet...they remembered the happy peaceful days which they have spend together...and slowly hope of love started growing in them...but they don't know how to show this affection to eachother...end result ...fight , jealousy , misunderstanding, irritation etc...

Because we love this serial we hope to see a happy reunion...same Our Dev and Sonakshi also have hope of seeing themselves as a couple again...

Let us stay calm and enjoy this beautiful journey and see how CVs will get Dev and Sonakshi to the point of confession !! 😉

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Thank you Ananya!! I am glad you liked my post. All these years its her love for Dev thru Soha that made Sonakshi rise in her life...because for her , her love for Dev and the love she got from Soha was her strength ..She saw Dev in Soha...

For Dev , if Sonakshi's love for him was his strength ...then his love for her was his weakness...in fact she is his weakness...and hence he was not able to rise in love...because his strength left him or in other words he let go of his strength...but he survived thru Golu's love for him...

Now after 7 yrs when they meet...they remembered the happy peaceful days which they have spend together...and slowly hope of love started growing in them...but they don't know how to show this affection to eachother...end result ...fight , jealousy , misunderstanding, irritation etc...

Because we love this serial we hope to see a happy reunion...same Our Dev and Sonakshi also have hope of seeing themselves as a couple again...

Let us stay calm and enjoy this beautiful journey and see how CVs will get Dev and Sonakshi to the point of confession !! 😉

Beautiful post...

Originally posted by: Sharica

Beautiful post...

Very true..the way you compared Devakshi's love with the fandom so well justifies our and Devakshi's undying hope..

We also hope to get our beloved show on track and same with Devakshi..they also wish to get back but like us they are also confused to whether let it go or deal with their feelings and reunite for their love...

Thanks for making this post..I actually was missing your posts..

Love and Hope have a symbiotic relationship. These two help each other and bring in balance that is required for a relationship to survive and last long ...

Beautiful post. I have no words to express how i feel after reading this post. It was like i was talking to myself. Yes we love this show more than anything.

Originally posted by: rahul74

Beautiful post. I have no words to express how i feel after reading this post. It was like i was talking to myself.Yes we love this show more than anything.

A big hug from me for writing this awesome post.

Thank you !!

We can never judge a couple abt their affection for each other ...only they can comment on it...and this holds good in any relationship...Ishwari and Bijoy thinks their respective kids never got any happiness out of this union...just like the way some don't seem to understand the love that we have for this serial...Only we know how much we love this serial and how much we want to see it meet our expectations...Like wise Dev and Sonakshi knows how happy they are to be with each other in spite of their flaws...

Originally posted by: Agrata23

excellent post aswathy👏

Thank you !!

I wrote this post because I felt there was a need for people to understand that not every time we can justify actions by people in love. From an outsiders perspective we might not understand their love for each other ...because the way people express their love cannot be compared.

If you ask me among Vicky and Dev who is a better husband , I would still say Dev...because I can never understand how a woman can love a person like Vicky who is cheat...who is cruel to destroy another relationship for his own benefit...who uses his son to get money from his cousin...but Elina is able to do that ...she could marry this man knowing the fact that he had dirty eyes for her cousin...
so you see people have different approach and need when it comes to love...is Elina wrong in loving Vicky ?? NO...she is able to tolerate and let go his flaws...now will their relationship stand a storm like Dev and Sonakshi...I doubt...I would say it will collapse faster ...and these two will move on in their life unlike Dev and Sonakshi...reason...Vicky and Elina are selfish. They love themselves more than they love the other...so once there is a problem such people will be able to let go of things that bring in pain ...

For me , Dev and Sonakshi's love for each other is pure...and its this purity that makes them frustrated when they are not able to be with each other and ends up hurting each other even more...in these 7 yrs I would say their need for each other has increased and now that they are seeing each other every day...it doesn't make their life easy...

Being selfish in love is common...how many can say very easily that they are comfortable to see their spouse with his/her close friend ( opposite gender ) ...the way Jatin is with Sonakshi...no one will like ...now you might argue that Dev has gone out with his girl friends...and Sonakshi doesn't seem to be bothered...yes because he is not with ONE girl...if there was a steady friend for him like the way Jatin is for her...I am sure you would have seen Sonakshi going green...( Remember Natasha track )...

Dev feels bad thinking Jatin is imp for Sonakshi and she loves Jatin ...and has moved on ...

Sonakshi will feel even worse thinking that her love for Dev has never been understood by Dev ...its very painful when your spouse questions your love for him...and points figures at ur character...


So possessiveness and jealousy are a part of love...rather the grey side of love...because it kind of blinds you from seeing the truth ...

Just wondering ...what will be the reason for their breakdown ...collapse of their masks...what will make them see their love for each other...

eagerly waiting for their union ... 😳

I hope and pray that CVs will do full justice to this scene ...just the way they did for confession, breakup , marriage , consummation etc... 😉

Awesome post
Seriously never thought that way...