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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 8 years ago

Dev is doing injustice to Golu. He just used Golu for timepass and now his daughter is there, he is neglecting him. Is it necessary to keep a long face throughout her sickness and do really all parents do this? They also take care of their other children while tending to the sick child.

Dev is somewwhat selfish.

I like Dev but I cant overlook this.

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Posted: 8 years ago

This is problem of elena n vicky's bad parenting. In the end dev is his big cha not father n obviously real child will always preferred over nephew or niece... Also dev always has such problems.. He always failed to balance out things... He goes for one thing n make it a mess but never really balances it out

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: deepakloveskat
This is problem of elena n vicky's bad parenting. In the end dev is his big cha not father n obviously real child will always preferred over nephew or niece... Also dev always has such problems.. He always failed to balance out things... He goes for one thing n make it a mess but never really balances it out

Dev is like this. Golu gave his 100 percent and he even was ready to share Dev with Soha with a smile but what Golu got in return? An indifferent Big cha making excuses.

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Dev is like this. Golu gave his 100 percent and he even was ready to share Dev with Soha with a smile but what Golu got in return? An indifferent Big cha making excuses.

Dixits parenting is like this. Like ish never gave her daughters same love n we see how neha turned out to be. N so much excess love is also not gud. See how dev turned out to be. Dixits household is not good for raising kids😆

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Lavanya

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Dev is doing injustice to Golu. He just used Golu for timepass and now his daughter is there, he is neglecting him. Is it necessary to keep a long face throughout her sickness and do really all parents do this? They also take care of their other children while tending to the sick child.

Dev is somewwhat selfish.

I like Dev but I cant overlook this.

Hmmm...you raise a good point.But I don't think we have reached the stage of Dev neglecting Golu yet.I guess you're being a bit too harsh by saying that he used Golu for timepass.

Remember after the "Bijoy landing in hospital fiasco" Dev took time out to come back to Golu to ensure that he was fine and happy.

As far as his indifference in that episode I will wait a bit.I mean all guardians sometimes say NO to kids if they are in bad mood or a bit tensed.I don't think one incident is sufficient to reach a conclusion.The good thing is that he did come back and comforted Golu in yesterday's episode.

Let's wait and watch :)

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shailu

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Posted: 8 years ago

i feel dev loves golu genuinely but when it comes to his blood related ppl like ishwari /soha he is over protective,poseesive and selfish .

same had happened with sona he loved her genuinely but the love for his mom made him neglect his love sona the thing is he puts his family first in his priority he doesn't know balancing thats a big drawback or rather i call weakness in him .

he might use ppl like elena but with golu he truly loves him

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Rithu0203

@Rithu0203

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Posted: 8 years ago

Yes, Dev is selfish, he used Golu to deviate from his own sorrows and pain. He is one of the reason to create distance between Golu and his parents, Dev inspite of knowing this didn't care to fix this problem. He enjoyed his company, but now after his daughter's arrival he finds it difficult to balance.

Everytime Dev can't get away by his habit of not able to balance between relations. How many times does he needs this excuse?? He knows his mom's extra and partial love towards him and to his sister's but didn't do anything about it, he knows the issues with his mom and Sona's relation, but didn't do anything about it, now he is doing the samething with Golu and Soha.. When he will learn from his mistakes?? atleast by this time can't he realize 1% where and what went wrong due to his lack in balancing among relations?? No. He is busy in blaming others for sorrow in his life. Fed up with his attitude. *sigh*

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Nadia

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Rithu0203
Yes, Dev is selfish, he used Golu to deviate from his own sorrows and pain. He is one of the reason to create distance between Golu and his parents, Dev inspite of knowing this didn't care to fix this problem. He enjoyed his company, but now after his daughter's arrival he finds it difficult to balance.

Everytime Dev can't get away by his habit of not able to balance between relations. How many times does he needs this excuse?? He knows his mom's extra and partial love towards him and to his sister's but didn't do anything about it, he knows the issues with his mom and Sona's relation, but didn't do anything about it, now he is doing the samething with Golu and Soha.. When he will learn from his mistakes?? atleast by this time can't he realize 1% where and what went wrong due to his lack in balancing among relations?? No. He is busy in blaming others for sorrow in his life. Fed up with his attitude. *sigh*

i completely disagree with ur lines..dev used gpoolu? this i the most Illogical and out of box comment about dev and golu's Relationship..Dev genuinely loves Golu.and he doesn't Need to give any Proof for that.what parents r talikng about..E? elena and vikky?.they should be greatful to Dev forever To Love their son and took care of him For lifeTime.The distnce ur talking about is Not created By dev it's By Vikky and elena themselves which Brought Golu more closer to Dev.

Like u i am also fed up with all this unnecessary Blame and accusation on dev Every time where He Is Even not wrong.I understand u don't like the Character But it doesn't mean this character has no Good Shade..It has Many..and Big cha 's Love for golu Is One Of them

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 8 years ago

There is some truth in what everyone thinks but the whole truth is something else. Dev should invest time and heart in his relationships and not leave them adrift. It is not enough to love but to love with commitment which Dev lacks at present. Not to take relationships for granted.