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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev has to blame himself for giving too much importance to Soha. Now he feels that she is not reciprocating. Children are somewhat unreliable and they hurt parents unknowingly. Well, Dev shoiuld take it easy and make himself wanted by Soha than other way around. He can take a trip alone to an unknown place to introspect and that will make Soha not to take her papa for granted and make her parents dance to all her wishes. Soha also takes Sona for granted and insists her mother to compulsorily live with Dev.
One should be like that drop of water on a big leaf. Attached but ready to drop out.
The bond should have been between husband and wife and not through some third party even if it is their kid.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Completely agree with your point...dev should make himself wanted rather than forcing ..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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To be fair, Dev is new to parenthood. His daughter insisted that she live with both her parents. I don't think its unreasonable for him to think that Soha wants time to bond with him.
There are a lot of people going off on Dev for being upset... but in my view he didn't do anything wrong. He didn't insist that Soha eat the food he made or insist that she be on his team. He felt bad but didn't emotionally blackmail Soha like Ishwari does. Jatin has spent a lot of time with Soha already. So I really don't think its unreasonable for him to question the necessity of Jatin presence.

Honestly I blame Jatin here... he knows Dev and Soha have a new bond...and he really should step out of the way to let them develop it. He took Soha to dance class and they had a burger... so he had already had some quality time with Soha that day. Personally I like Jatin as a character... I think he is pretty sensible. So I am surprised by his lack of sensitivity.

Personally I really don't want Dev to play games with Soha. I think he should just be honest and tell her that he is available to her when she wants to spend time with him.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: malikakas

To be fair, Dev is new to parenthood. His daughter insisted that she live with both her parents. I don't think its unreasonable for him to think that Soha wants time to bond with him.

There are a lot of people going off on Dev for being upset... but in my view he didn't do anything wrong. He didn't insist that Soha eat the food he made or insist that she be on his team. He felt bad but didn't emotionally blackmail Soha like Ishwari does. Jatin has spent a lot of time with Soha already. So I really don't think its unreasonable for him to question the necessity of Jatin presence.

Honestly I blame Jatin here... he knows Dev and Soha have a new bond...and he really should step out of the way to let them develop it. He took Soha to dance class and they had a burger... so he had already had some quality time with Soha that day. Personally I like Jatin as a character... I think he is pretty sensible. So I am surprised by his lack of sensitivity.

Personally I really don't want Dev to play games with Soha. I think he should just be honest and tell her that he is available to her when she wants to spend time with him.



I totally understand why Dev felt the way he did. Most people are calling it karma amongst them me!

I disagree about jatin here. Dev is hanging out at the Bose houseclaiming he only wants to spend time with Soha. Why didn't he got drop or pick her up? Nobody would have stopped him.

In fact jatin realized he'd made a blunder & apologized for it. In fact he was not wanting to dance but since Soha insisted he gave in.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I feel bejoy and Dev are spending more quality time with each other! Bejoy wants to catch brooding Dev alone and needle him to death.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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And Bejoy's weapon is Jatin.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Though Sona and Soha are mother daughter Respec.But mujhe in dono ke beech koi chemistry dikhi nahi.u ndono se zyada achhe toh dev Golu late hain.
Make himself wanted?? wanted means jab child ko koi cheez ki zaroorat ho toh Papa chahiye.
No,bachha Sirf apne parents ka thoda time aur attention chahta hai.Honesty se hi bachhon ke dil mein jagah banayee jaa sakti hai.
Cv's dev Bijoy scenes Kam kar de ,dev Sona ko brain de de toh Kam ban jayega.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: coolmeet

Though Sona and Soha are mother daughter Respec.But mujhe in dono ke beech koi chemistry dikhi nahi.u ndono se zyada achhe toh dev Golu late hain.

Make himself wanted?? wanted means jab child ko koi cheez ki zaroorat ho toh Papa chahiye.
No,bachha Sirf apne parents ka thoda time aur attention chahta hai.Honesty se hi bachhon ke dil mein jagah banayee jaa sakti hai.
Cv's dev Bijoy scenes Kam kar de ,dev Sona ko brain de de toh Kam ban jayega.


Make himself wanted means, he should not be so easily available that soha can take him for granted. They say that familiarity breeds contempt.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I'm talking about karma as in Soha not eating food prepared by Dev. Not about the time.

As it is a serial we can assume a lot of things. I can always assume that instead of sitting around the house Dev could have gone to pick up Soha & when has Sona stopped him from spending time with Soha? I will not blame jatin as Soha insisted on him staying back plus this has probably been routine between them.

I don't find Dev obsessive at all but he is possessive esp about both Sona & Soha. I will not equate him to ish. He has to realize that new relationships are not formed at the expense of old strong ones. His jealousy stems from the fact that both Soha & Sona are very comfortable with jatin & jatin is doing a lot of things which he should have been doing.

I think the people are calling Dev as obsessive is because today he didn't want to be with golu but only with suhana. These are shades of ish. But I don't think Dev is like that. Once he is secure of his place in his daughters life he will be less possessive but for that he has to work for it. He has to work with all the people who are important for suhana & that is the bitter pill for him to swallow.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Why cant Dev and Sona go to office to attend work like normal parents and spend quality time with soha after returning? That will make soha long for her parents.

Why they are all the time at home leading to quarrels and misunderstandings?

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