Cooking food doesn't make a perfect father !!! - Page 4

@deepak: I disagree with you on all points. Unable to QUOTE as writing from phone.
Making a child independent is ok. I am sayng Sona is visibly cold with Soha. Even Jatin speaks in a more affectionate way than Sona does. Making a child independent does not mean you turn them into adults!! It takes away their innocence. All this while Soha was way too mature for a child until Dev came in. I would say he introduced a little fun element into Soha which is why she instantly loved him.
The boses dont treat Soha as a child and thats wrong. What parenting are we talking off?
Elders, read BIJOY, shouting and screaming all time in front of kids is presenting good morals? ? Sorry i disagree. Manipulating a childs wish to suit your wish or shall i say agreeing to it instantly coz itvserves your purpose is WRONG. And Bijoy does that.
And what makes you think making a child independent is the only good way to raise a child. So the mothers who pamper their kids are not good mothers... .??? What is the harm in doing little chores for your kids!!! And in no way working women treat their children less. Also not doing any chores for your child and making him independent also does not certify you are a good parent.
I wil agree to your point only if i see sona being a mom to her daughter, i feel she is just a guardian.

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

Are u married then u should know balancing between wife and mom giving both there rights if in that dev has failed we can't help we can't be blind enough to ignore what he did with sona

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

Dev should be confident enough to win soha at least
His insecurity proves his weakness
Father can't be weak they need to be pillar of strength and jatin is proving that .
When u love something u set them free suffocating or insecurity will bring u down

Regarding insecurity of Dev towards jatin is that Soha knows jatin from 6years and Soha knows Dev from a month or two ... They are just taking baby steps in their relation while in case of jatins they are masters in their relationship.

So Dev has a fear of Soha choosing jatin over Dev as she knows him more.. keeping jatin around makes Soha speak to jatin more as she has a habit of jatin n side line the Dev.. this is the fear of Dev..His fear is genuine.. u see thatd why every relation will have a jealousy factor in it which rises because of fear of loosing someone or choosing over someone.. but if the jealousy exceeds the limit it's insecurity for ex ish Mata..

Let's give the for Dev to understand the bond between Soha n jatin.. or let's give some time for Dev to understand jatin which he may not ...

Originally posted by: maharathikarna

I hope you are married. If yes and if you are practising what you say. Then i bow my head to you. Else if you are bachelor, I would say good luck in following in the said advise especially if you are staying in a joint family😊

Dev is exactly like ishwari..Maine khana banaya soha ke liye to use wohi khana chahiye nothing else ..How can she be happy with other person then her papa..He cooked food for her (non veg..Hmm big deal)nice but the problem is soha apne papa ke sath hi happy rehmi chahiye ..Papa ne khana banaya to work burger khake kyun aayi??

Originally posted by: maharathikarna

Balancing between wife and mother is were most men fail. Dev is not an exception. Most would maintain dignified silence not taking any side.😊

At least ppl learn from mistakes but dev never grew up he is turning worse day by day .

He blaming sona is it right
Leave that better stop bothering her try to win soha instead and what's with his insecurity with jatin can't he see soha is comfortable with him as she is with her dad he needs to be confident enough to trust soha

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

Hiding a child wah as dev speaks
As if ish allowed sona to meet dev after soha was born

As if dev searched for sona whereabouts
As if dev was busy having fun time with random girls when sona was struggling
Now putting a stunt to win soha doesn't prove him to be a father it's should come naturally treating soha mom as shit makes him a better father a joke

😆

At least she came with the kid
Seems u ppl skip sona's bit only watch dev because he is good looking

Who gave dev the authority to meet soha knowing dev still sona giving him benefit of doubt but this creeped keeps saying I will snatch soha
He thinks soha is an object but sona genuinely wants a father figure near soha

U just joked about sona using dev what use is dev for sona u ppl really crack me
Conspiracy good lord what a joke
Conspiracy theory only used by dev and ish and sona is such a dumb she puts herself in a place were she will lose soha one day

Conspiracy lol joke of the day


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Originally posted by: SAKIVIAM

You are speaking as if sona kept tab on what is happening in Dec's life

And don't call that attempt of sona at all. Ishwari defenetly stopped sona.

It more looked like sona was counting on it.

She never wanted to let Dev and soha together, she is a selfish and was a selfish.

Now also she is not interested in soha getting her father. She want soha to avoid Dev and is purpusfully using all opertunites. Bijoy and Jatin are helping her in it.

At least Dev didn't conspire against sona. He didn't stand by her and she is getting back at him by conspiring against him.

😆 😆

Originally posted by: deepakloveskat

i m 22 n not married but i have seen my dad balancing both my mom n daadi.. n both of them were happy with my dad until my daadi's death. so yeah i know i m good at balancing n my mom doesnt interfere in my every decision😆

Sona is genuine it must be a joke now.