I have been reading a lot of analysis on the forum and I would like to provide an alternative perspective about Bijoy. Along with some more facts and people we should be talking about.
I disagree with the fact that Bijoy is at fault. He was slapped by Dev is you remember and Vicky made him believe that Dev took his house away. His daughter was shattered after the divorce and changed from a person who was waiting for her "prince" to someone who doesn't want to engage in any kind of relationship. Instead was harassed by her in-laws. Sonakshi was always accused of anything that went wrong. Sonakshi was given divorce papers when she wasn't at fault (the fake pregnancy). After all this, I think it is justified for how he is behaving now. My father would behave the same way.
Also, I am beginning to hate Ishwari now. She gets off with her actions by showing a sorry face and talking about the past. She hasn't accepted that Dev is a grown man now. She makes him believe he is always right. And that is a big issue. Does Dev know of all the things that happened to Sonakshi in that house? No. Because an altered version was told to him especially by Mamiji.
These people blame Sonakshi for being strong enough to leave the house and call Elena the perfect Bahu. They need to give a second thought. Why should the woman who sacrifice be perfect and the one who was fearless enough to face society not.
I really hope the writers dwell on this question a little bit more. Ishwari needs to realise her wrong doing and it is high time.
Dev, under no circumstances can manhandling be justified. He covered her mouth, took her outside, gave her left-right-center. And he truly doesn't get to talk about feminism. I am sorry. He still belongs to the generation where the wife has to sacrifice her independence, her thought, her life, her problems, her identity and should have not walked out of the marriage. This is classic male argument and he doesn't get to comment about feminism. Period.
I think Jatin is the sane string in Sonakshi's life, and I am happy he is there. He should be. He must be.
After all this, it will be futile if Sonakshi goes back to Dev, it will be extremely problematic. She is better off without him and He is better off without her.
In all of this, there is a major fallacy on the side of the creatives. When Jatin had been introduced, it was decided that he is going to be living with Bose family instead of a hotel. How does he have a house of his own now? He is from Kolkata right?
Thoughts?
Edited by agreatperhaps - 8 years ago