Isn't it getting a little too much?

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Niki...

@Niki...

Beginner

Posted: 8 years ago

Since the time he's got to know about Suhana, Dev has been caring for only her. I mean, he's behind Suhana like a very good father. Ya, I understand... he loves his daughter.

But, don't you think it's getting too much? Since he's got to know about Soha, he's completely stopped caring for Sonakshi. Ok Dev, love Suhana, she's your own daughter. But, give a little thought to the mother who gave birth to her, and raised her single-handedly, fighting against all odds.

Everytime, Dev's with Suhana... and I think his love for Golu also is going down a bit, since he's got to know about Suhana.

Please Dev, I understand that you adore your daughter, obviously you've found her after 6 years. But, ya, change a bit... Think of who has nurtured your daughter for these 6 years, who has loved her more than her own life, and that's Sonakshi. After divorce, Sonakshi could have prevented Suhana from meeting you, but no she didn't. She didn't let your and her differences destroy Suhana's childhood.

Sona has been a great mother, so please drift your thoughts from Suhana for a minute, and think about others!

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surenkal

@surenkal

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

Dev's character is really going down the drain. The CVs need to rethink and make us see some changes in the man which go beyond torn jeans and a scuffy look

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mily_mathew

@mily_mathew

Sparkler

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Niki...
Since the time he's got to know about Suhana, Dev has been caring for only her. I mean, he's behind Suhana like a very good father. Ya, I understand... he loves his daughter.
But, don't you think it's getting too much? Since he's got to know about Soha, he's completely stopped caring for Sonakshi. Ok Dev, love Suhana, she's your own daughter. But, give a little thought to the mother who gave birth to her, and raised her single-handedly, fighting against all odds.

Everytime, Dev's with Suhana... and I think his love for Golu also is going down a bit, since he's got to know about Suhana.

Please Dev, I understand that you adore your daughter, obviously you've found her after 6 years. But, ya, change a bit... Think of who has nurtured your daughter for these 6 years, who has loved her more than her own life, and that's Sonakshi. After divorce, Sonakshi could have prevented Suhana from meeting you, but no she didn't. She didn't let your and her differences destroy Suhana's childhood.

Sona has been a great mother, so please drift your thoughts from Suhana for a minute, and think about others!

When it comes to love,Dev is one dimensional,he needs that one person who has to be his bhagwaan.

Earlier it was Ish,now its soha.Its not love,a blind obsession based on factors that Dev only understands.

Whereas Sonakshi is the one person that he always loved,earlier also he did things as per Ish's wish but could never stay away from Sonakshi.He became a total loser whenever she left him.

It is this control that Sona has over Dev that makes Ish more insecure than she already is.

In case of Soha,He has finally found a ray of hope,a means to live in his dark and dismal life,someone to call his own since all his previous relationships has someway or the other cheated him(according to him).

That is the reason he said to Soha,"Main usse itna pyaar kartu jitna kisise pehle kia hi nahi.

He sees soha as the balm to his broken soul.It is this need that drives him now.

Whereas sona is his soulmate,the other half of his soul.

And When has Dev meant what he said.

Just see when sees Jatin with Sona,sab pata chal jaega.

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Mahadevi

@Morana

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 8 years ago

What more can you expect from such a sadhak chhap gali ke gundey type character. He reeks of arrogance attitude is a big male chauvinist and completely blind and biased towards "apna khoon ".

Worst male lead ever in Indian tv !

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Kaustuv

@Kaustuv

Navigator

Posted: 8 years ago

No Look at Sonakshi flaring those lovey Dovey glances and flirting with him. Y should Dev respect someone who commands zero respect n has zero self respect. After all what Dev he is still giving her shit disrespecting her father spoiling her family function and what she does just endures like it's puppy fight. If her n her family respect values so less in her eyes then y should Dev or any Dixit respect her.

Dev despite all his faults is still best son to have n Sonakshi the worst daughter to get. It's daughters like her who makes one despise daughter. Sonakshi totally deserve all Dev throws at her poor Bijoy n Bose family r the victim. Imagine shitty SIL staying at ur place in ur sons wedding n explaining this to ur friends ,family n new family in Indian Society. It's not that easy as shown in serial .

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Pehchaan.Kaun

@Pehchaan.Kaun

Sparkler

Posted: 8 years ago

It's all about Bloodline for people who live in Ishwari Niwas. They know nothing beyond their own blood-relatives and that's why they dont have any guests coming over to them anymore, no friends and no alliance. Soha is Dev's blood, so all love for her. Sona is not related to him cuz she aint his family/relative by blood. She is an outsider. When Soha leaves Dev (going to Kolkata), Dev still goes behind her to make her come back, the logic that 'people who are family dont leave' etc doesnt apply to Soha because she is his bloodline. However when Sona left, she remains a witch because she aint family, so what that Dev never tried to take her back !!

Good question you've asked. By this time and period of the show, there is no doubt anymore that Dev is a hypocrite whose actions vary with respect to Sona than his actions when it comes to his family.

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

Dev can only focus on one person at a time. He can't balance multiple relationships.

He gets obsessed with someone and starts to ignore his previous commitments. Until the previous commitments yanks his chain. Then he again forgets the new obsession and runs after older commitment. But can't let go of the new obsession until the obsession smartens up.

Both Ishwari and Sona and Golu and Soha fit the above scenario. The only difference is that Golu hasn't yanked his chain yet. We will see how he balances Golu and Soha if Golu changes his mind.

Edited by Tia.0 - 8 years ago

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Tacker_Holic

@Tacker_Holic

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

^ Tia you took the words out of my mouth! I was just about to write this and you beat me to it! 😆 Dev gets carried away with one relationship and then when something new comes about he drops it. He struggles to stay committed to one person. Lets hope he gives more importance to Sona and doesnt hurt Soha through his obsessive nature.

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Srijanee

@luvflicksgirl

Dazzler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

I agree Dev's character is going hayware😕

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

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Tacker, expecting Dev to put Sonakshi in anywhere in his priority list is a pipe dream which may never come true. I mean he could not put Sonakshi in priority list when she was his wife with whom he was supposedly crazy in love with. Now that he is divorced and claims to hate her, I doubt Sonakshi will even feature in the same breath as priority list.

What I have fear here is Golu might get short changed here. We all know that when Dev is obsessed with someone, he becomes exclusively devoted to that person. Right now, he is obsessed with Suhana.

Now recall when Dev proposed to Sonakshi and she said yes. He wanted to spend every second with her to the point that he started forgetting his regular pre-established routines with Ishwari. He tried to bring Sonakshi in every single thing without preparing Ishwari for it.

Now Dev used to play cricket with Golu and spend male bonding time with him. When he is at Bose house, he won't be able to do that. When he is in Dixit house, due to Suhana's presence, will he be able to tell Suhana that this is his time with Golu when he could not even tell his adult mother that he would like to spend time with his adult wife.

How would Golu feel having Suhana invade every single alone time with his BigCha?

May be not much different than how Ishwari felt or how Sonakshi felt.

We all know that Radha and Vicky would use this oppurtunity to turn Golu against Suhana. Then whom would Dev choose and who should compromise?

Last time, he made his wife compromise because mother is important and wife is worth nothing. This time Golu is the longer relationship despite not being his blood and Suhana is new relationship despite being blood relations.

I blamed Dev then. I am blaming Dev now. Because in both of this situation, Dev is the common factor and he should learn how to balance relationships.

Originally posted by: Tacker_Holic
^ Tia you took the words out of my mouth! I was just about to write this and you beat me to it! 😆 Dev gets carried away with one relationship and then when something new comes about he drops it. He struggles to stay committed to one person. Lets hope he gives more importance to Sona and doesnt hurt Soha through his obsessive nature.

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