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Posted: 8 years ago
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Just writing my Pov . I saw in the forum , lot of opinions criticizing Dev touching Ishwaris feet and bashing him. I mean come on , we want our show to be practical. I guess how much a mother interferes in a child's life , how much wrong decision she takes , whatever she does to her sons life , she still remains his mother. Dev knows his mother's fault , but what will he do. Will he throw the old lady out of home , will he keep insulting her. What is expected of the Son. Dev situation is precarious. He knows his mother insecurities has led to his misery , but he cant cut relationship with his mother. I think no son in this world can do that to a mother no matter how much problem the mother may have created. So Dev keeps burning with his sorrow ,yet cant leave his mother.
Jus my opinion. Please feel free to share yours.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I totally agree with your point. We have to put ourselves in Dev's shoes understand his situation. A woman who lost her husband, brought up four children in poverty, sacrifices, love, care etc etc. No matter how wrong Ishwari is and Dev is well aware of it, he cannot forget the goodness, love, sacrifices made by Ishwari and reason of his existence in this world - his mother.
He cannot kick his mother out from his life. Not every human being is strong enough to stand up against wrong doings of one's family members and especially if it is done bu their own mother. He did try bits and parts to make the relationship work but in the end he gave up and so did Sonakshi.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Rahul, no one expects Dev to throw out Ishwari on the street. She is his responsibility. But the way he was treating Sonakshi until recently, in spite of knowing that every single thing he was accusing Sonakshi for was done by Ishwari, is where people have problem with.

Dev blamed his mother for 7 years. But the moment Sonakshi came back all her crimes got absolved? Ishwari didn't change. She is still interfering, lying, going behind his back and manipulating. Then why is he so okay with Ishwari, yet was so disrespectful to Sonakshi?

Ishwari might have raised Dev single handedly in poverty. But so did Sonakshi. She raised Soha also in a tough financial situation single handedly. Why his mother deserves respect, but not another mother? Why his mother gets forgiveness but he kept on harassing Sonakshi? Why Ishwari gets to continue on with her evil deeds without consequences yet, he continued to blame Sonakshi for things she never did like telling Soha to call him Mr. Dixit?

Would he forgive anyone treating his mother the way he had treated Sonakshi? Would Soha forgive him if she knew how he was treating her mother behind her back?

That's why people have problem with Dev. He can't blame any one else for his broken life except his mother and himself. His mother for manipulating him in the name of motherhood and him, for constantly letting her continue with her manipulation by forgiving her evil deeds every single time.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rahul74

Just writing my Pov . I saw in the forum , lot of opinions criticizing Dev touching Ishwaris feet and bashing him. I mean come on , we want our show to be practical. I guess how much a mother interferes in a child's life , how much wrong decision she takes , whatever she does to her sons life , she still remains his mother. Dev knows his mother's fault , but what will he do. Will he throw the old lady out of home , will he keep insulting her. What is expected of the Son. Dev situation is precarious. He knows his mother insecurities has led to his misery , but he cant cut relationship with his mother. I think no son in this world can do that to a mother no matter how much problem the mother may have created. So Dev keeps burning with his sorrow ,yet cant leave his mother.

Jus my opinion. Please feel free to share yours.


@Bold... Dev is not burning in sorrow.. he was womanizing for past 7 years, drowning in alcohol, and now last few episodes.. taunting, blaming, physically abusing Sonakshi for his state in life! No, he shouldn't leave his mother, but he has to make her realize that she is the cause of him being away from Soha. Instead, he takes the wrath on Sonakshi!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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i fully agree with rahul. to a very gr8 extent with tia. but one thing, both dev n sona never got the oppurtunity or out of their ego they both never wanted to reconcile and as a result had to suffer for years.whatever it is in the whole thing i find only one fault of dev which is unpardonable. except for that fault, i hold dev and sona equally responsible for all the clashes and seperation, the big sin dev commited is telling sona to get out wen his mother fell down.sonakshi is such a angel like being in devs life and dev did blunder. he cud have reconciled but by that time vicy made him dunked. here also i find fault with dev that drinking was resorted to by dev only and vicky was just a medium.
after getting drunk vicky created rubbish with sonakshi family.
but dev has recived pusnishment for 7years isolation frm daughter

a request frnds pls confine my lines to this show only and not beyond that to real life.
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