Originally posted by: tia.o
<font size="3" color="#663399">John, in my opinion, Sona always loved Dev more than he loved her. Her love was always protective, always respectful, always sensitive. She fought with her family, his family and even her own good sense to be with Dev despite getting her heart broken by him once. She took risk for her love because for her it was worth it. She tried her best to blend in his family because whom he loved, she loved too. Despite insults she kept on trying because she didn't want to put him in a position where he has to pick between his family and her.</font>
<font size="3" color="#663399">Did Dev do any of the above for Sona? In private his love was romantic. In public, in front of his family, it couldn't stand even one minute. Dev never had to sacrifice anything for Sona, never had to take a stand for her. He married Sona knowing she could not be a mother. Yet when it came to even stand up for his one unselfish decision, he could not. He had time to get over the sad news. But Sona's pain was recent and even more devastating because not only her husband lied to her but also, the dream she was nurturing got broken. The very next day Dev conveniently forgot that he told Sona that she is enough for him and put pressure on Sona to agree to go through fertility treatment just because his mother threw a tantrum just like everytime he forgot Sona's feelings when his mother cracked her emotional whip.</font>
<font size="3" color="#663399">So how do I even compare these two loves? How can you compare between a love which always put you first vs. one that takes you for granted? How can you compare between a love which sacrificed quietly vs. the one who sacrificed and then turned around and demanded payback for it? How can you compare between a love which was always there when the other fell weak vs. the one who left your side when you were at your lowest?</font>
<font size="3" color="#663399">For me, there's absolutely no comparison between Sona's love and Dev's love. Her love still feels Dev's pain and willing to bear her share of the blame while Dev's so-called love inflicts pain and points finger. She can be respectful of Dev's position as Soha's dad, he can't even bother being respectful of her position as Soha's mom. You tell me, can we compare the two?</font>
True I agree 'Tia, you are right he never loved her, it was just obsession. I am just saying this because
Some people support dev just because he is handsome. They call him so called heartbroken or hurt.
And I agree with each and every word of you. Cvs never show any good side of dev s love, for sacrifice, his love is also selfish just like himself. And now I am fed up cvs, what kind of message they are giving?
Dev repeats the word feminist, as a gali. Which I really hate.
And sona just listening, I would have slapped him long back. Anyways what can we do, it's ishwari show,