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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

You guys had such a interesting discussion over here.I read everything.

Now I just have a small question.Imagine a scenario and two people.Forget Dev and Sona's faces.Now if someone tells you that an ex husband is stalking his ex wife and his child.He sneaks into that child's room secretly,what would you think of it??Soha is old enough to understand in this matter and that's why she asked him to get permission.But had she been younger like 3-4 years,she would not have understood anything and Dev wouldn't have asked her permission in the first place.He would have just taken her to meet his Matashree.

Just imagine when her own mother would discover that her child is missing from her room at night,how would she feel?? She would be terrified beyond her imagination.Knowing DevIsh,they wouldn't even bother to call her and inform her.

This is for all those who are defending Dev's actions by calling it an outburst of fatherly affection.Dev is not the first man on the planet to be divorced from his wife and he is not the first father either.He could have handled things differently.What would a normal man do in his place?? First of all he would have made Ishwari understand that it's too late and he would bring Soha tomorrow.Then he would have called Sonakshi and discussed the matter with her.They would have fixed a particular time and he would have taken Soha.It's as simple as that.

Instead Dev chose to sneak into Soha's room in order to prove that he is Shravan Kumar's reincarnation.
He was the one to compelled Sona to take such a step.Because she can't afford to jeopardise her daughter's well being.




How are you now Ashi ? Hope well. ๐Ÿ˜Š


To answer that, I dont need to take any hypothetical route here to understand what Dev did was criminal offence. It's trespassing, and I cannot imagine why on earth people can justify Dev's non-apologetic nature for this. For every crime, he is non-apologetic and there is ONE or the other excuse justifying why he shouldn't. ๐Ÿ˜• For each of those crime, even by Indian Penal Code, he is chargeable, forget about most of the countries in the world.


Sona was right in calling him out on kidnapping, if this is not kidnapping then what is ? Dev is legally nobody of Soha, his name was not even in the birth certificate. Reminds me of the Highway movie, where despite Alia wanting to stay with the kidnapper, ultimately the kidnapper had to pay for his crime. It was indeed a kidnapping, and in Dev's case, it would be indeed a case of kidnapping too, period.


But I am glad it happened, it prompted Sona to come up with the guarantor document which she even made him read before signing, such a contrast to Ishwari's deceits and frauds. Funny that for this Maa-Beta, legal ways are the only ways to get things into their thickhead skulls. Irony is that once Ishwari made a similar document and her reason was to protect her children from the possible evil. That caused the biggest pain for Dev. Today Sona had made Dev to sign a document to protect her child from the guaranteed evil. And this is gonna cause the biggest pain for Ishwari. Oh sweet Lord, Karma is indeed a bitch ๐Ÿ˜†. Dev has nothing to lose here since he already decided not to separate Soha from her mother. So the target audience for this document is precisely Ishwari Devi whose @$$ is gonna be bitten by Karma oh-so-sweetly. ๐Ÿ˜†


I am happy about Sona's adding the first clause to the document. Knowing Ishwari, she could have easily cried out on the point that Sona never informed them about Suhana (how long does it take for her to lie and change the events anyways). With that one sentence, Sona has made Dev i.e. Dixits responsible for the action and excluded herself from the responsibility (rightfully enough). Acc. to Sona, Dev is still the same Mamma's boy. Hence had Sona put the name of Ishwari as the 'responsible' person behind Soha's existence being hidden from Dixits, Dev would have refused to sign the document and cry a bit more that 'How could you do this to my Maa Sonakshi' blah blah ๐Ÿ˜† Sona hit the right place which also proves that she still sees DevIsh as one unit ๐Ÿ˜‰. Hope her wisdom prevails in much needed situations going to occur in near future ๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜†
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Wonderful post PK! ๐Ÿ‘

your like #1 - Yes.. Dev knows to react to remote keys... First mother, then to some extent Sona but mother's key code worked stronger than Sona's... ๐Ÿ˜† Now Soha's keys are in... Hope the hi-tech key has enough power to keep Dev hooked to it forever... ๐Ÿ˜‰

your like #2 - ๐Ÿ‘ everything... And I take pride in my girl when she does something applaud worthy... ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

your dislike #1 - Seriously.. I couldn't even get myself to even try and understand what Dev is even trying to justify.. him and his ways... Oh yeah.. his 'haq' and 'haq' only... ๐Ÿ˜† Ok It's all about rights, right.. Then claim the same rights from your daughter too... ๐Ÿ˜‰ She'll give you right on top of your head... ๐Ÿ˜†

your dislike #2 - Baaba is going hyper and Asha sure is going softer... And Sona is trying to manage amidst these two... ๐Ÿ˜‰ This goes to say upbringing talks for few things but after a while it is all about oneself how much they use their own mind & heart to define their character and shape themselves up... If one thinks that they want to go back to their past and change everything, then they are only making excuses for whatever they lost but not owning up to the growth they gained through it... If only they focused on learning in every phase of life instead of waiting for magic to happen and a readymade lesson falls on their feet... ๐Ÿ˜†



PP Bose girls are slaying in style ๐Ÿ˜† Season 1 had been such torture to see this amazing supergirl's power, patience, efforts being crushed in every episode. I remember I had to make the topic of 'Slow Poisoning' on Sonakshi Bose the day she got some happy tears when Ishwari asked for her preference of food on Dev's birthday. ๐Ÿ˜• She was at the lowest bottom ๐Ÿ˜ฒ and I couldn't feel more depressed looking at the plight of that girl.


Season 2, in comparison has been so much better. ๐Ÿ‘ She has stopped living in a Fool's Paradise. Her occasional visits to that place is fine with me (like today when she said this Dev is not the same Dev she married ๐Ÿคฃ) but as long as she gets hold of her emotions and think objectively I am fine. The dream-girl made a mistake for which she had to pay a heavy price as she mentioned to Asha today, but the mother in her cannot afford to pay that price. ๐Ÿ˜Š


Cannot wait for the pre-cap episode and Ishwari's dukhra on Soha's independence ๐Ÿ˜†. It is to see if she would be successful in her sange-mar-mar clay journey or this time Dev and Sona would be able to stop this aurat from manipulating the world. ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜†
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Posted: 8 years ago
Tia's threads. Ashi's threads. Basically, you lot. ALL OF YOU. *Khushi ke aansun* ๐Ÿ˜ญ I feel like a proud parent of sorts (even though half the people here are elder to me ๐Ÿ˜†) and I'm always mentally going, 'Wah! Meri Sherniyon!' โค๏ธ reading all the discussions. ๐Ÿ˜†
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Posted: 8 years ago
They show a lot of shit on this show but I have always believed Dev listens to that person in his family who throws the most tantrums ๐Ÿ˜† Sona became too subservient and was hell bent on pleasing Ishwari post marriage. I always felt Dev would have paid more heed to her issues if she threw enough tantrums. Like the time she refused to listen to him after Bijoy threw them out of the house. I think Dev has been conditioned that way. Neha throws tantrums- fulfill all her demands. Ishwari throws tantrums-fulfil all her demands. Now he wants Soha and Sonakshi is being stubborn- agree to everything she asks for. I have no idea how he became a successful businessman cos he has no idea when to give in and when to put his foot down. Its good Sona never took advantage of this cos if she was another Ishwari, Dev would be spending all his life alternating between pacifying his mom and wife ๐Ÿ˜†
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun



How are you now Ashi ? Hope well. ๐Ÿ˜Š


To answer that, I dont need to take any hypothetical route here to understand what Dev did was criminal offence. It's trespassing, and I cannot imagine why on earth people can justify Dev's non-apologetic nature for this. For every crime, he is non-apologetic and there is ONE or the other excuse justifying why he shouldn't. ๐Ÿ˜• For each of those crime, even by Indian Penal Code, he is chargeable, forget about most of the countries in the world.


Sona was right in calling him out on kidnapping, if this is not kidnapping then what is ? Dev is legally nobody of Soha, his name was not even in the birth certificate. Reminds me of the Highway movie, where despite Alia wanting to stay with the kidnapper, ultimately the kidnapper had to pay for his crime. It was indeed a kidnapping, and in Dev's case, it would be indeed a case of kidnapping too, period.


But I am glad it happened, it prompted Sona to come up with the guarantor document which she even made him read before signing, such a contrast to Ishwari's deceits and frauds. Funny that for this Maa-Beta, legal ways are the only ways to get things into their thickhead skulls. Irony is that once Ishwari made a similar document and her reason was to protect her children from the possible evil. That caused the biggest pain for Dev. Today Sona had made Dev to sign a document to protect her child from the guaranteed evil. And this is gonna cause the biggest pain for Ishwari. Oh sweet Lord, Karma is indeed a bitch ๐Ÿ˜†. Dev has nothing to lose here since he already decided not to separate Soha from her mother. So the target audience for this document is precisely Ishwari Devi whose @$$ is gonna be bitten by Karma oh-so-sweetly. ๐Ÿ˜†


I am happy about Sona's adding the first clause to the document. Knowing Ishwari, she could have easily cried out on the point that Sona never informed them about Suhana (how long does it take for her to lie and change the events anyways). With that one sentence, Sona has made Dev i.e. Dixits responsible for the action and excluded herself from the responsibility (rightfully enough). Acc. to Sona, Dev is still the same Mamma's boy. Hence had Sona put the name of Ishwari as the 'responsible' person behind Soha's existence being hidden from Dixits, Dev would have refused to sign the document and cry a bit more that 'How could you do this to my Maa Sonakshi' blah blah ๐Ÿ˜† Sona hit the right place which also proves that she still sees DevIsh as one unit ๐Ÿ˜‰. Hope her wisdom prevails in much needed situations going to occur in near future ๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜†

I am feeling much better now Guddi Di.Medicine and sleep has helped a lot๐Ÿ˜ƒ
Yes whatever Dev has done till now condone to criminal activities and he can be punished for it too.
And he doesn't even think that he has committed a crime.
He calls it his 'way' of doing things.Can you believe this?? Does he know that his 'ways' are called crimes??

But Dev and his supporters would justify his actions by saying that he was a father and he couldn't bear to be away from his child.๐Ÿคช
Regarding Highway,I admit that I liked Alia and Randeep's bond in that movie but at the end of the day he had to be punished for he had committed a crime.Otherwise this would have made people feel that anyone can get away with kidnapping if the victim develops Stockholm Syndrome.

I can't wait Karma to bite Halwa Aunty on her ass.She will definitely do something reckless like filing a custody case on Dev's behalf without informing him.And BOOM!! The Bomb drops on her head.

Sona has indeed closed all the doors for the Dixits with this one move of hers.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Today when Soha looked at Sonakshi for approval when Dev told Soha that he took permission from her mom to go with him I got reminded of Dev looking in a similar way towards Ishwari for her approval/ permission when he called his MIL as maa instead of Aunty because he realized he hurt Sonakshi and her mom. Dev ke saath ithna bada haathsa huva aaj aur me yeh choti choti baathomein lage hun. Sorry Dev.๐Ÿ˜‰ What to do Dev koh 6 saal ki bacchi se compare karna pad raha hai.Sorry state of affairs.
Edited by fandw - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Sonakshi.. She stood up again in my eyes.. She's not the same girl.. Not wanting to be the good one in Dev's eyes trying to be understanding and not hurting him.. In fact she's the one hurting herself by doing all this.. But she has to.. For Soha's sake.. Dev's emotional weakness is no secret to anyone.. But why should Soha know that? Again being caught between his Maa and daughter, he will only make himself helpless looking for someone to blame.. ๐Ÿ˜†

Sona didn't think about her own.. Whether Dev understands her or not doesn't matter to her anymore.. It's not new for her to fall low in his eyes and be the one to have hurt him.. Because he never understood and never will.. So nothing to lose there.. Now all it matters is Soha.. Agree she's too small to understand her father's emotional weakness and his father's family influence on him.. ๐Ÿ˜‰
Sonakshi had to fall low (not in the right eyes) to keep her daughter as priority.. No manipulation, no niceties, no games.. Just plain truth.. Take it or leave it.. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

If only Ishu had this will to be honest with Dev.. Not worrying about falling low in his eyes.. No she wanted it all.. Manipulation, emotional blackmail, guilt trip anything and everything to keep it all ๐Ÿ˜†

It will take ages for Dev to understand this girl.. ๐Ÿฅฑ


well said ๐Ÿ‘
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Dev will sign paper after paper reducing his love for his daughter and increasing his dedication for his mother.. Remove it from Soha's kitty and add it to Maa's handbag.. ๐Ÿ˜†


๐Ÿคฃ
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Posted: 8 years ago
First thing, the Boses should install window grills in Suhana's bedroom. Baaki sab contract vontract baad mein. That was heights. How easily he jumps in and out of a room. Gives me the creeps to think that this is happening in Delhi, where vaise bhi people don't need a reason to commit a crime and Sonakshi's house is not in some up-market, gated community that she need not fear.
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Posted: 8 years ago
After seeing so much anti sona and anti Dev post
I want to say something from my real life
As I have said I have two daughter one 6 year and another 12 year one I have adopted and other given birth
But you know what no-one in my society is able to accept the fact that I love both my daughter equally
Like when I give something to my elder daughter if she stubbornly force me which is somewhat but for her happiness I give her then my neighbour will say that she is not your own daughter so you not care for her much and if the same thing I will do with my younger daughter they will say you love her alot that what she demand you give her
If my both daughter demand something I will fulfill of one and one I will not able to fulfill due to age factor or many different reason then if I will fulfill wish of my younger daughter and not my elder daughter they will say she is not your daughter so you are searching only excuses but when I will fulfill my elder daughter but not my younger daughter they will say you are trying to show off that you love both
Tell me what I should do so that they believe or will accept I love both or trio my two daughter and my son equally I have no bias for both of them I think nothing nothing means nothing
They don't want to believe that I am happy alone or I am treating and loving my children equally or my parent and sibling are standing by me with their own will
Simple is they don't want to believe or see that
Same is the case with ishwari and Dev
And now anti Dev or anti sona fans they all say that they are not gender biased but they become unknowingly
Like yesterday here even everyone said that Dev lifter sona for showing off soha but I don't think so he did this by his own concern and that is the reason he got positive response
Only difference in anti Dev and anti sona fan is inactive is correct her perspective and her actions are correct so our arguments look right but anti Dev fans have nothing right there in him so they find baseless reason to support him or if he does one right then they make it a big issue and they find only a way to satisfy themselves and justify him as simple is the fact
It's like the murdered family support the murderer are wrong as he has done wrong but the victimised family support victimised are right as the person victimised is wrong
It take a lot of guts to accept the truth when it is not in your favour

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