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Posted: 8 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: deepsel


Thank you 😊

Yes Suhana is perfect reflex of Dev but we can't ignore the fact that Sona had a supporting strong family behind which Ishwari didn't . I think CVs will try to show Ishwari's side by highlighting this factor in future. If Sona can take pride in Suhana's upbringing even with her family around , why can't Ishwari who had nothing but darkness and uncertainty ?!😳 I hope makers don't sway away from the grip they got now😆


I have always mentioned that... Dev was brought up by a single parent who has a dark past .. and Dev took the responsibility of his family along with his mother at his tender age..

Coming to Sona she too have a past but she took the responsibility of parents n her family at her right age and she do have a supporting family..

So upbringing depends on how the person lead a life..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Execlent post dear.
Even I fell dev has given up on ishu that's, I fell and ishu has mission and mission to check the wiliness to bring the soha to dixit mention after her forced visit to Bose house and effert of her previous mistakes. Some how I can't believe that the, buttering and emotional speech is without any selfishness motive because the moment he assurence that he will bring soha to meet her she started her dreams and wishes to welcome soha. So she is back to me , myself. This is completely my openion.
Edited by timbarucha83 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Heyyyaa Deeps... Enjoyed whatever you wrote here... 😳👏🤗
Especially this one
"Leaving aside the age factor and the morality of asking perfection by a 6 yr old, I loved how makers showed young children tend to believe what they see in face value. Suhana for the past 6 years has seen only one father figure and that was Bijoy and for her he is the father value for perfection, hence its not a surprise that she wanted to know whether her "Papa" is at same level or not. This very statement showed how much she missed a father figure indirectly in that tight knit Bose family. Why else a child wishes for a father to be perfect only when he drops in school, asks about dinner , loves at every step, etc etc ..? Somewhere down the line Suhana missed that love Bijoy showers on Sona😳
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Yes... And Sona very much knows this and she wants Soha to have her pappa and that bond for her to cherish for her life... And time and situations have really brought Sona to come in terms with the reality to really move on and not hold on to her grudges, mistakes and blames on each other thus affecting their little girl in the process...
And yes Soha wouldn't have led a sad life with a beautiful family running around to meet her needs but sure she would have had the dream of "how it would have been if my pappa has been around me just like Baaba has been around for my mamma" and without meeting her father that dream would have been incomplete... So I'm happy that gets a chance to get her dream into reality.. Only wish is that this little girl's dream coming true in real sense unlike the other little girl (Sona will always be a little girl of mine and you know that 😉)😳

And I'm confident that Dev-Sona will work towards their common goal, if they collaborate instead of confront 😆 And learn very much from their past to not allow any interference into this new relationship of theirs... 😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Excellent post Deepa
I liked Soha bijoy scene aur that scene reminded me of my father ,kyon ki woh bhi Meri daughter ko uske music school drop karne aur pick karne jate the.And my daughter's music sir is also Bengali.
I also liked Ishwari Dev scene .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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nice post deepa😊

I ll repeat..

Boses r suffering "i m perfect syndrome "..which is d issue...suha also has same traits she says to golu main zyada smart hu this attitude is bothering me...which is easily neglected on this forum...


what is perfect 4 1 may not b for other
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Posted: 8 years ago
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wow di...fantastic analysis 👏👏

just loved it 😳

actually, i was waiting for ur analysis after this brilliant epi, finally got it.😃

after a week torture of ishwari drama and confusion episodes, fridays episode was really surprised one. it gaves so many hopes for upcoming track... hope cvs wont disappoint us..fingers crossed.

Edited by krystle123 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hello deepa [>:D<]
today i literally checked ur profile to check if u made post or not [LOL]
amazing post ...
dev's journey from mr.dixit to papa has started ...n dis journey will teach everyone their due lessons ...
n d first one being soha is replica of sonakshi ...dis girl is emotionally dev ..n has his eating habits too ...how come no one noticed till now
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Loved your post
Got to agree even I was surprised to know Dev never tried to know about Sona after she left. It is so much against the core characterization of Dev. There has to be a reason if he did it...a strong reason.

But yes, the look on Dev's face when Soha asked him the qs clearly shows he was taken aback by the simple qs. I doubt he tried to call her. Had he, then by now he would have revealed it...particularly to gain Soha's trust, he defo wud have. There is some other reason.

No one is perfect. Sonakshi isnot either. She has her flaws. She introspects and accepts most of them. And I would like to see Dev growing as a character, learning from his own personal experiences. I am simply frustrated bcoz he has not yet tried to learn or accept his mistakes. I understand him forgiving Ishwari but not forgetting her mistakes. But I dont understand his constant rude behavior to Sonakshi even after knowing the truth. May be its his love or his so called haq. But its difficult to digest a father always accusing his own child's mother for everything.


Ahh...patience is the need of the hour. So, lets wait and watch.😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey as always amazing post.But I still don't understand Dev's anger towards Sonakshi what does he actually expect.My favorite dialogue was when Dev said ki woh hamari beti hai and Sona corrected him saying there is nothing between us to call her hamari beti and u can see from his face he was hurt that she doesn't want to be part of the hum.Also more than lift I loved the way he delicately turned her and picked up for his own comfort.Dont know whether it was Dev or Shaheer 😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepsel

Friday's episode is nothing short of a miracle for me. I was bowled by the sudden layers makers have inflicted in that single episode and wanted to pen my thoughts as soon as I saw the episode. What a perfect ending to the not so perfect start of the week 👏 Post might be long, read at own risk😆



Dev never had to slog for any perfect relationship as he was always given when demanded/asked including Sonakshi who ran to his arms the day he confessed. But today his own blood asked him to prove his perfection to be a father and that shook "The Dev Dixit" for the first time. Had Sonakshi raised this doubt 7 years back, both won't be standing here today heartbroken by their very own tiny Kargosh !

Leaving aside the age factor and the morality of asking perfection by a 6 yr old, I loved how makers showed young children tend to believe what they see in face value. Suhana for the past 6 years has seen only one father figure and that was Bijoy and for her he is the father value for perfection, hence its not a surprise that she wanted to know whether her "Papa" is at same level or not. This very statement showed how much she missed a father figure indirectly in that tight knit Bose family. Why else a child wishes for a father to be perfect only when he drops in school, asks about dinner , loves at every step, etc etc ..? Somewhere down the line Suhana missed that love Bijoy showers on Sona😳


Another mind-blowing confession which I don't know how many of you thought like me is Dev's explanation for Suhana's question " Why couldn't you call momma and figured out I was there ?". Well we all know that he doesn't know her existence but that doesn't justify him for not approaching his estranged loved wife and that hit Dev as well. See his reply " Miss Bose ( I felt he addressed both Sona and Suhana here 😉) I know you are very angry on me, I even don't know what should I do to reduce your anger..but now please give me a chance, I will try to my fullest ability to prove you am not a bad person". Is he hinting Sonakshi that he is ready to woo her back and asking for a second chance for taking her granted the first time? Also when he said " I know you think that I didn't take care of your mother, hence couldn't take care of you", are makers hinting he did approach Sona behind her back to help but everyone thinks otherwise?

He bares his sadness impulsively to Sona how he is left alone for the second time after his momentary return of happiness only to be snapped back to reality that he was sharing this to the same person who was the cause of his loneliness the first time😆 And Sona gives back which even Dev accepts till she mentions how "her baaba was affected when his maa visited" and that triggers his anger how one father's sentiment is hailed and other's brushed aside a moments ago!!

Just like Ishwari who takes pride in her upbringing, when he heard Sona oozing prideness in Suhana's upbringing he snaps why a father role is sidelined because he knows how much flawed he is by his mother's so called perfect upbringing and so is Sona now and he needs to prove that to her, hence the challenge.

Trip and lift is another beautiful symbolism here showing how he will be there by her side to save her from falling and added bonus to show how Bijoy is not a perfect father as everyone portraying here because he couldn't save his daughter from pain all the time and Dev's proud face to Boses when he said " Take care of your daughter" said it all which in turn impressed Suhana as well. So Dev's entry to Suhana's heart can be achieved only via Sona's 😉

The same event showed Bijoy how flawed he is as a father and hence the insecurity peeking around Suhana because he knows how Dev can charm his way back into his daughter's life and he will be left wondering !

Now the same Dev who snarled at Ishwari for barging Boses house to see Suhana suddenly mellows after his talk with Golu and invites his mother himself why? Because how can he will become a good father himself as Suhana wants when he can't understand the feeling of his own mother? He never says whether he forgave her or not but simply brushes the issue aside because he is trying to understand a mother's heart - Sona's here to be precise😳. He can forgive Ishwari but can never forget her mistakes which was very glaringly shown in that scene.

Sona's illusion of being perfect is the result of that "Dev's right to be Suhana's life" speech to Bijoy but when the day that right indeed comes to force am sure makers will show her flaws too 😳.

To become a good father, Dev needs to show Suhana his roots which is "Ishwari" like Bijoy and Asha are roots on Boses side whom she adores. His action may be stupid but it proved how willing Suhana was to see her father's side of family when she immediately joins him momentarily. But glad she remembers her values in an instant to teach Dev the right way! Also CVs are touching "My mom knows best and I live for her" nerve of Dev and introspect himself through Suhana which Sona failed to show him or he even failed to realize himself !!

A man who never sways away from his ways , bows toward the right direction for the first time seeking permission from the mother of his child straight through the front door !!👏

Suhana is the binding force of Dev , Sona , Boses and Ishwari, who is going to show how each one is flawed inspite of them taking pride in their perfection ...and friday's episode is the starting point of this realization !! Well done CVs 👏 !!



Hi Deeps...You have very well presented your thoughts from a totally different point of view, especially the bolded ones. I haven't yet finished reading the analysis thread by Sam;so not sure whether anyone else has thought in this way. However, thanks for helping to see the first scene of Dev-Soha interaction in such a positive manner. Otw, i was really distressed to see how Dev alone was being questioned for something the most important ladies in his life were equally responsible too...😭

Underlined part - I also felt that dialogue included Ishwari too and it was some sort of his frustration to show how in the name of motherhood these two have made / are making his life a hell.

Green part - I feel, Golu too will have a part in teaching Ishwari on how to share your most loved ones with others & to Sona what does it mean to understand your partner & be with him thru thick & thin.

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