Dev's behaviour towards sona

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Adiba Bano

@.kashishbano.

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: yyy

Infertility was never a problem for him ..if it was a problem he would not have married her in first place .He didn't have to spend 3 months with her to realize about her infertility...

The seperation happened because of Ishwari's possessiveness,Bijoy's ego and false pride ,Sonakshi's mistrust on her husband's love and Dev's inability to indentify the real issue .No one is innocent here but Sonakshi is responsible for keeping Soha away from Dev .I don't buy that she tired once and decided not to introduce Soha to Dev because Ishwari did not It allow her .If this is the reason then ahe is the one who gave importance to Ishwari than Dev ..it's her insecurity which stopped her .In this scenario Sonakshi is the one making a mistake so its justified for Dev to feel angry and hurt .If I was Dev I would never forget what Sonakshi did for my entire life and it would not be easy to forgive someone because of whom 6yrs of soha's life was missed by her father .Misunderstandings about prenup will clear but can Sona give back those moments to Dev ..never

Mr coward has guts to question his mom ,his ex wife but is Miss perfect ready to confront her father for his role in breakup ? For scaring her daughter? The day she gets guts to question her father for spying on her then she would have rights to use words like mama's boy ,spineless

@yyy...Very well said👏

Cent percent agree

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srikala ganesh

@srikalaganesh

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Dev was angry with sona only bcoz she was hidden his daughter for seven years. That's y he was v harsh wot h her ..., But once he comes no abt real story of his mother dint allow sona to meet Dev when she came with soha when she was six months baby he will change himself...

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Sowmya

@sowmyap03

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: yyy

Infertility was never a problem for him ..if it was a problem he would not have married her in first place .He didn't have to spend 3 months with her to realize about her infertility...

The seperation happened because of Ishwari's possessiveness,Bijoy's ego and false pride ,Sonakshi's mistrust on her husband's love and Dev's inability to indentify the real issue .No one is innocent here but Sonakshi is responsible for keeping Soha away from Dev .I don't buy that she tired once and decided not to introduce Soha to Dev because Ishwari did not It allow her .If this is the reason then ahe is the one who gave importance to Ishwari than Dev ..it's her insecurity which stopped her .In this scenario Sonakshi is the one making a mistake so its justified for Dev to feel angry and hurt .If I was Dev I would never forget what Sonakshi did for my entire life and it would not be easy to forgive someone because of whom 6yrs of soha's life was missed by her father .Misunderstandings about prenup will clear but can Sona give back those moments to Dev ..never

Mr coward has guts to question his mom ,his ex wife but is Miss perfect ready to confront her father for his role in breakup ? For scaring her daughter? The day she gets guts to question her father for spying on her then she would have rights to use words like mama's boy ,spineless

thats what Im saying... infertility was never issue... Dev would break up with Sona for his mom giving other reasons as well... so why shld Sona get back to him or Soha... tmrw there is no guarantee that he will not ask her to go out of his life again when his maata asks him to do so...

will Dev be able to give back what Sona has lost all these years... and why shld Sona trust Dev.. all his love was only behind closed doors... never in front of his mother... today he comes and claims his rights on his daughter... so easily... why shld Sona go again to Ishwari nivas to get insulted...'she did it once... she can easily think dev would never want her back in his life... yes agreed its was only Soha who lost her father's love ...

Edited by sowmyap03 - 8 years ago

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@404_NotFound

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: sowmyap03

thats what Im saying... infertility was never issue... Dev would break up with Sona for his mom giving other reasons as well... so why shld Sona get back to him or Soha... tmrw there is no guarantee that he will not ask her to go out of his life again when his maata asks him to do so...

will Dev be able to give back what Sona has lost all these years... and why shld Sona trust Dev.. all his love was only behind closed doors... never in front of his mother... today he comes and claims his rights on his daughter... so easily... why shld Sona go again to Ishwari nivas to get insulted...'she did it once... she can easily think dev would never want her back in his life... yes agreed its was only Soha who lost her father's love ...

If Sona has lost 7 years of togetherness with her husband then Dev has equally suffered.They both paid a huge price for their mistake but when it comes to Soha Dev did not have an opportunity to be part of her life so Sona cannot question how he turned up after 7yrs to claim rights on her daughter.Its not like Dev abandoned Soha 7yrs back ...

I never asked Sona to go back to Dixit mansion but they were other means to contact the child's father ...but she cannot stop Soha either from going to her father's home ...

They are may instances where he supported her outside her bedroom ..let me list few

1.Openly supported her during pag phera
2.Supported when Neha blamed her infront of all
3.Aupported airing Ayan's issue ..many more

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Sharica

@Sharica

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: .kashishbano.

Exactly

Agree with both of you...but I have one doubt..

Will Dev declare a war against Ishwari now after knowing that she asked Sona to go away from Dev when she came back with Suhana??

My concern is that he will still be talking to her and she will never learn anything...How conveniently Ish said ki mujhe pata hota ki Sona Suhana ke saath aayi hain to main aisa kabhi nahi karti...I so want Dev to say..ki agar vo akele bhi aayi thi then be who gave you right to ask her to go...I doubt he will say that..

After this dialogue Dev was shown ok in the segment..

I will still wait for the actual episode to air...

I know Dev cannot throw her mom out but when 7yrs of hatred has not worked for Ishwari and she still had that guts to say that Sona ne kabhi mudke nahi dekha...I mean there is something more that Dev needs to do now...for Suhana...

Else Ish will never realise anything and will keep in doing what she is expert in...

I want Dev to think abt all things that Ish told him or did...may be then he will realise what was the amin cause of his broken marriage...

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dhank

@dhank

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: yyy

Infertility was never a problem for him ..if it was a problem he would not have married her in first place .He didn't have to spend 3 months with her to realize about her infertility...

The seperation happened because of Ishwari's possessiveness,Bijoy's ego and false pride ,Sonakshi's mistrust on her husband's love and Dev's inability to indentify the real issue .No one is innocent here but Sonakshi is responsible for keeping Soha away from Dev .I don't buy that she tired once and decided not to introduce Soha to Dev because Ishwari did not It allow her .If this is the reason then ahe is the one who gave importance to Ishwari than Dev ..it's her insecurity which stopped her .In this scenario Sonakshi is the one making a mistake so its justified for Dev to feel angry and hurt .If I was Dev I would never forget what Sonakshi did for my entire life and it would not be easy to forgive someone because of whom 6yrs of soha's life was missed by her father .Misunderstandings about prenup will clear but can Sona give back those moments to Dev ..never

Mr coward has guts to question his mom ,his ex wife but is Miss perfect ready to confront her father for his role in breakup ? For scaring her daughter? The day she gets guts to question her father for spying on her then she would have rights to use words like mama's boy ,spineless

@yyy

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she becomes equally silent in front of bijoy...

Edited by dhank - 8 years ago

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Sowmya

@sowmyap03

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: yyy

If Sona has lost 7 years of togetherness with her husband then Dev has equally suffered.They both paid a huge price for their mistake but when it comes to Soha Dev did not have an opportunity to be part of her life so Sona cannot question how he turned up after 7yrs to claim rights on her daughter.Its not like Dev abandoned Soha 7yrs back ...

I never asked Sona to go back to Dixit mansion but they were other means to contact the child's father ...but she cannot stop Soha either from going to her father's home ...

They are may instances where he supported her outside her bedroom ..let me list few

1.Openly supported her during pag phera
2.Supported when Neha blamed her infront of all
3.Aupported airing Ayan's issue ..many more

she never did... infact she is ready for the fact that even though today Soha said no to meet her father (agree that asking soha to decide is foolishness), one day she will surely meet him... but her fear is justified as she knows Ishu will manipulate Soha and Dev will let her do it... because she knows Dev will take Soha to Ishu and that means she have to lose Soha forever probably... she fears if Soha hates her too like Dev did... she fears that if Dev can leave her once for his mom he can do it again and again... she expected Dev to support her always... but everytime he supported her it was only when outsiders blamed Sona not his mother...

i dont support Sona... her biggest mistake was marrying him even after knowing his weakness for his mother... but after being rejected twice and Dev never went back to her to clear the misunderstandings... he knew she had mistaken about the prenup... he cld have got it cleared the next day... he has not done any of these...

majority of the mistakes were done by Dev... now because he was not told about Soha doesnt give him rights to hurt Sona... he shld have had bit sense (wch we can never expect from him) to think why she did this... if he had really loved her more than she did...

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@NBT-BV

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Dev2. is just a selfish man who is in love with himself. His world is my happinesss, my hurt my mother my daughter and my feelings. Hell with others. He was a gone case pre- leap but has turned worst post leap. If any lady goes back to him - can only be a fool and I'm sure the CVs will make a fool of Sona.

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Shaun

@Jade0001

Inactive

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: cancerian87
Why dev behaviour towards sona is so harsh ..ok she hide from him. But still she is mother of his daughter..
He will be thankful how sona brought up soha ..how she manage all alone..

Dev can forgive ishwari , can give hug to ishwari...why he can't forgive sona ?

Where is that love gone ?

Dev has found out he is a father , he cannot believe the woman he truly loves had kept such a secret away from him he may have been horrible as a husband or as a son in law but he was never a father so he has the right to be angry that does not mean that his love faded no it just means he was kept in the dark and now wants answers

giving a hug to Ishwari that was out of pure happiness learning he is a father