Sona is being unfair to soha and dev

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tee

@Spillthetea

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

Hi guys!tee here😊

I dont usually post here but i just couldn't stop myself.

Watching yesterday's episode made me sad...that little kid soha craves for her dad.

She wonders how he is...she wants to know everything about him...i felt so bad for her when she kissed that sketch . ..she already loves her dad and even sona realizes this...yet she asks soha to decide what she wants...a 6 year old can never take such a big decision but sona being so close to bijoy knows the importance of having a father...yet she is making no efforts to make a daughter meet her father.

Also,sona is aware that dev always wanted a kid...he wasnt the best husband...but he was a great son and an amazing brother...he was more like a father to his sisters.

Losing his dad early,he knew the importance of having a father hence he would've made an amazing father.

Yet sona kept soha hidden from him,whatever happened between them wasnt right,i agree.

Sona left him,i respect her choice...but her keeping a father and a daughter away is something ill never ever support.

And the precap made me wonder...wasnt ishwari also insecure that her lifeline (dev) would be snatched from her by sona?here sona thinks dev will snatch away soha...the last thing i wanted was sona to even think 1% like ishwari.😕

All that being said,i strongly believe sona is being unjust to dev and most importantly to her own baby girl soha

Edited by Multifandom_Tee - 8 years ago

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1234bar12

@1234bar12

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Posted: 8 years ago

True! Even I think it was very unfair to Dev and Soha that they have missed 6 year of each other's life. Sona is still not ready to reveal Soha to Dev.

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sweeti1104

@sweeti1104

Beginner

Posted: 8 years ago

I would have agreed to you if it was a decent divorced but it was very bitter for Sona especially words from Dev including about her infertility and doing marriage for money, apart from that Dev also never tried to find about Sona, if he tried he would have known about her so why only Sona's fault.

No comparison between Ishwari and Sona.

Dev has to prove himself, just because he is Soha's biological father, he does not deserve Soha.

If Soha wants to meet her father, Sona will allow her anytime.

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Dipali

@dipali13

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

In this world which mother want her child go & stay in Dixit Nivas? Right now soha love his father but can you imagine the way Dev behaving it's good for soha to know about his father's & father's family's behavior? Dev never respect sona before or after the leap in this situation any mother do something.

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shailu

@rs-shailu29

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

Dixits are not saints were sona will reveal that to them as dev' s daughter .

Ish and dev are capable of snatching the kid given a chance and sona can't take chances but she let soha decide and soha chose her .

Dixits were not fair either why sona is being questioned I don't know why ppl are against sona .

Sona was thrown and prenup signed devorced etc this doesn't make her criminal dixits have no rights .

Even if she revealed back then ish and gkb would have called gold digger and using soha to be with dev and ishwari is so smart she knows chess so well she would have checkmated sona and would have kept soha throwing sona out showing dev that sona is bad influence to soha

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Jiyaaa.....

@Jiyaaa.....

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: sweeti1104
I would have agreed to you if it was a decent divorced but it was very bitter for Sona especially words from Dev including about her infertility and doing marriage for money, apart from that Dev also never tried to find about Sona, if he tried he would have known about her so why only Sona's fault.
No comparison between Ishwari and Sona.
Dev has to prove himself, just because he is Soha's biological father, he does not deserve Soha.
If Soha wants to meet her father, Sona will allow her anytime.

I hope, you don't mind replying your comments.

Dev said all those hurtful words to Sona. If Sona is hiding Soha because of those hurtful words, then I will ask, what was Soha's mistake in this? Is it because Soha's father said those words, so it is okay to not inform him? Isn't that Sona is keeping the grudges on that?

Who is suffering here? Soha. She is missing her dad's love.

Sona is so close to her dad. She should have understand how for a kid a father is so important. Usually girls are more close to dad compared to mom. It is unfair to Soha too. Didn't Bijou always talks about how Sona used to when she was a small kid? Dev would never say those things. He missed those important years from his daughter's life.

If Dev had said hurtful words to Sona, Sona was no lesser. She also called him a looser, Kokala in anger. All couples fight and say hurtful words when they are in anger.

Dev always wanted a daughter. He might not be good husband for Sona, but he was a good son and also good brother, and most importantly a good human being.

I will not compare Ishwari and Sona. But usually moms are little possessive when it comes to kids.

What I did not understand if Sona was so insecure, how she gave an option to Soha if she wanted to stay with her dad. It doesn't make any sense to me.

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lavanya

@dlavanya

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Posted: 8 years ago

Sona doesnt owe anything to dev or dixits... dev missing out on spending time with soha is not her concern.. if she told when soha was born there is a very good chance that dev and ishwari would have taken soha away and soha would have been raise in dixit mansion with out a mother.. i would most certainly prefer the current situation where sona is strong enough to take cate of soha and
The only thing she should worry about is soha.. if soha wants to meet her father ..then i am sure she would make it possible and also let dev spend as much time as soha wants to ..

Ps: i don't understand why everyone wants sona to be so nice and considerate of dev s past when dev and dixits were sonruthless to her and her family... why should she worry that dev really wanted a kid ... surely he disnt want sonakshi and threw her out of his life.. if he really likes kids, he can surely marry again and have kids.. who is stopping him

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sameera

@Sameera776

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

Wow Sona is being compared to hypocrite Ishu bcoz she feared that her 6 years old child will be snatched by dixits.Can someone plz tell which single mother havn't this fear that her Ex in laws will snatch her child.If thinking like this is make insecure like Ishu than mother is like ishu.U know wht even I wants Sona to tell Dev just see the famous dev dixits isn't right at all.I am able to give birth a child.Nd u r his father but Alas u don't have right on her bcoz she is only my responsibility & throw those prenup papers.If u really wants to meet her than u have to plead to me nd my family only than I will think about it

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preethik

@preethik

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

I agree that sona should now tell dev about soha. I understand why she didn't do so all these years but now she's financially & emotionally strong enough to deal with the dixits.

I don't think it's fair to compare ish & sona. Sona is insecure about a 6 yr old kid whereas ish is insecure about dev even at 36 .

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1109162

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: dlavanya
Sona doesnt owe anything to dev or dixits... dev missing out on spending time with soha is not her concern.. if she told when soha was born there is a very good chance that dev and ishwari would have taken soha away and soha would have been raise in dixit mansion with out a mother.. i would most certainly prefer the current situation where sona is strong enough to take cate of soha and
The only thing she should worry about is soha.. if soha wants to meet her father ..then i am sure she would make it possible and also let dev spend as much time as soha wants to ..

Ps: i don't understand why everyone wants sona to be so nice and considerate of dev s past when dev and dixits were sonruthless to her and her family... why should she worry that dev really wanted a kid ... surely he disnt want sonakshi and threw her out of his life.. if he really likes kids, he can surely marry again and have kids.. who is stopping him

👍🏼. Completely agree. The only thing Sonakshi has to think is of Soha and if Soha wants to see her father, she will do it. Ishwari wanted kid for Dixit's from Sonakshi at any cost and Dev instead of respecting and supporting his wife's feelings and emotions when she got to know that she cannot become mom all he wanted to do was to fulfill his mom's wish and bring his mom back. They never cared and respected her feelings. Hippocratic Dixits. Why always this expectation that Sonakshi should be understanding of Dev no matter what.

Edited by fandw - 8 years ago

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