Ego - Shield for lots of empty spaces!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Annoyed?
Happy?
Supporting Sonakshi?
On Dev's side..?
Irritated?
The more I am seeing the episodes, the more I am becoming neutral😃

I am intrigued by so many different opinions about the last few episodes, specially yesterday when both Dev and Sonakshi did not leave any stone unturned to wash their linen in public. To insult each other openly...

For some, Sonakshi's attitude is too much. For some, Dev remains spineless.
For some, Sonakshi is commiting a crime by hiding about Soha, for some..dev doesn't deserve to know about his daughter.
For some, Dev is not worthy of Sonakshi and for some, it is the opposite..

But it is all about viewpoints.
If you look at the situation from their perspective only, you may understand why they are deviating (which they are actually not) from the expected response.

It is not that Dev and Sonakshi hate each other, no they don't. They are only too affected by each other. Trying to prove their point to each other.

"Big egos are big shields for lots of empty spaces"

Sonakshi and Dev both are using their egos to hide the emptiness of their lives.
Sonakshi was never egoist but suddenly she has started talking about her success. Looks like bragging?
It isn't.. because All Sonakshi's psyche is making her do is seek Dev's acknowledgement that yes, she achieved what he never thought she would.
And Dev, was he ever a flirt? A rude, obnoxious businessman troubling others?No na! All he is doing is to provehimself and Sonakshi that he is a happy man without her.

Dev is best in his profession, so he chose it to insult Sonakshi. And Sonakshi had to no other reply to his senseless insults so she chose to senselessly go personal as well.

Right now, both Dev and Sonakshi are full of pride. Pride that they are right and better off without each other. But this display of being 'best' is stating just the opposite.

Plus, I think after the leap, more or less, Sonakshi and Dev have come on an equal level. Dev never took a stand for her..and all those mistakes I won't recall...and now Sonakshi has done this act of not letting him know about the child.
She will definitely regret it later. It is a huge thing to rob a father and child from each other's love for 7 years. For now, Both Dev and Sonakshi are on an equal level.

And I am so so glad that these two have finally started venting out. šŸ˜†šŸ‘ When they fight, I become happy.. because only by pouring out all the bitterness from their heart like this, they will be able to make room for some love.

Unless they are vocal about what they don't liked, they would never be able to love each other again.
Afterall, dono pagal hai.
Just the same.

P.S The precap is super interesting😲😳
Dev cannot stop staring at Sona. For god sake Dev, stop labelling it as 'dushmani'šŸ¤” It is just amazement that She is doing so well and the hurt that, she is doing well even without you. While you are crumbling every second without her.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hello Doctor..hope you had great time with your exams HEHE

Straight coming to yesterday's episode..I didnt think much as sadist in me enjoyed every bit of it but thinking l seriously about it .. I just concluded it in one line ..They were hitting each other right where it hurts the most..completely below the belt and extremely nasty..They didnt leave even a single chance to attack each other in worst possible way..by god nishana bada tagda hai dono ka ..maanna padega Olympics mein bhejo bhi inko..Gold medal le aayngey dono

Well Dev got to know about the wall thing and thats why he called municipality people and lawyer and police ..he thought to use this situation and get back to Sonakshi..fair enough okay he utilized this chance but then he went way ahead in this whole situation by insulting her and degrading her about business skills and work ethics..which I thought could have been avoided ..he could have smartly pointed out on her blunders and walked out with cool swag..oh but how they get triggered to their extreme when they are in front of each other and as soon as she was their everything went out of control for him..he probably planned to irritate hurt Sonakshi a bit but it turned out to be a full war out in open sighh and he crossed limits huh

Sona too didnt leave her chance to show him her confidence her maturity by not reacting much in the beginning but by the end everything went for a toss and she was in this game and punched him with full power and repeatedly stabbed him by calling SPINELESS thrice..sighh..where as Dev attacked her on professional front she went a step ahead by commenting on his character ..oh and humiliated him to the maximum

They know each other;s weaknesses way too well..oh forget it ..they know each other extremely well in every possible way LOL..Like so Dev always hits her with business taunts and Sonakshi with character ones..oh lord..and mission accomplished they get what they require REACTION for the other HAHA kya item paal rakhe hain humne by god LOL

Though all this is mere war of words for me..they are so blinded with negativity ATM for any sanity-ness..their is no point in making them understand anything because they dont want to..time waste hai..oh rabba syapaah

Oh here you go again..I have been shouting on top of my lungs about what you said ..this

And I am so so glad that these two have finally started venting out. šŸ˜†šŸ‘ When they fight, I become happy.. because only by pouring out all the bitterness from their heart like this, they will be able to make room for some love.

Unless they are vocal about what they don't liked, they would never be able to love each other again.


Precisely..these fights are must and necessary for them ..they need to be out in open..sitting and solving problem is not their forte LOL..and now toh not at all..as they had very bitter breakup if they had mutually parted way then things wouldnt have been this ugly and bad but if you have fresh wounds for 7 years to heal them you need best medicine and their best treatment is this ..letting other down by hook or by crook feeling like boss with bloated ego..they are feeling like Oscar winners after every fight or argument LOL do bhai inko trophy do tab shayad tassali ho jaye thodi..

They might look childish coz talking and solving problem is more of adult thing..but this is more appropriate way for them it looks scary dangerous ..co it also gives feeling of them being too away from each other and it makes fans give up on their love..but it actually make me more sure of their feelings for each other ..they go way too deep then one can imagine..where their is love their is hate anger frustration and hidden expectations LOL and they have ALL..YAASS


"Big egos are big shields for lots of empty spaces"


Talliyaan..Lady you concluded everything in these GOLDEN words..good job

This game in very much ON..scores are now leveled on 2-2..get your pom poms to cheer them up HAHA..WOHOO GO DEV GO SONAKSHI..


Edited by sjain - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beautiful Post Somu. Loved it. Now go and studyšŸ˜†šŸ¤“
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Totally agreed! After watching today's episode i felt ots gud they are pouring out the venom.

Their seperation was incomplete, they never spoke about real issues and that non communication over 7 years has turned into poison. Till they will not empty their hearts, they wont talk logical, they wont talk sense and wont realise what they lost in last 7 years.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gmgi

Beautiful Post Somu. Loved it. Now go and studyšŸ˜†šŸ¤“

Thank you Geena😳
Written exams over😃 Isliye toh I am so relaxedšŸ˜†
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: saumiee

<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">Annoyed?</font>

<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">Happy?</font>
<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">Supporting Sonakshi?</font>
<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">On Dev's side..?</font>
<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">Irritated?</font>
<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">The more I am seeing the episodes, the more I am becoming neutral😃</font>

<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">I am intrigued by so many different opinions about the last few episodes, specially yesterday when both Dev and Sonakshi did not leave any stone unturned to wash their linen in public. To insult each other openly...</font>

<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">For some, Sonakshi's attitude is too much. For some, Dev remains spineless.</font>
<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">For some, Sonakshi is commiting a crime by hiding about Soha, for some..dev doesn't deserve to know about his daughter.</font>
<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">For some, Dev is not worthy of Sonakshi and for some, it is the opposite..</font>

<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">But it is all about viewpoints.</font>
<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">If you look at the situation from their perspective only, you may understand why they are deviating (which they are actually not) from the expected response.</font>

<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">It is not that Dev and Sonakshi hate each other, no they don't. They are only too affected by each other. Trying to prove their point to each other.</font>

<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">"Big egos are big shields for lots of empty spaces"</font>

<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">Sonakshi and Dev both are using their egos to hide the emptiness of their lives.</font>
<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">Sonakshi was never egoist but suddenly she has started talking about her success. Looks like bragging?</font>
<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">It isn't.. because All Sonakshi's psyche is making her do is seek Dev's acknowledgement that yes, she achieved what he never thought she would.</font>
<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">And Dev, was he ever a flirt? A rude, obnoxious businessman troubling others?No na! All he is doing is to provehimself and Sonakshi that he is a happy man without her.</font>

<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">Dev is best in his profession, so he chose it to insult Sonakshi. And Sonakshi had to no other reply to his senseless insults so she chose to senselessly go personal as well.</font>

<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">Right now, both Dev and Sonakshi are full of pride. Pride that they are right and better off without each other. But this display of being 'best' is stating just the opposite.</font>

<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">Plus, I think after the leap, more or less, Sonakshi and Dev have come on an equal level. Dev never took a stand for her..and all those mistakes I won't recall...and now Sonakshi has done this act of not letting him know about the child.</font>
<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">She will definitely regret it later. It is a huge thing to rob a father and child from each other's love for 7 years. For now, Both Dev and Sonakshi are on an equal level.</font>

<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">And I am so so glad that these two have finally started venting out.šŸ˜†šŸ‘When they fight, I become happy.. because only by pouring out all the bitterness from their heart like this, they will be able to make room for some love.</font>

<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">Unless they are vocal about what they don't liked, they would never be able to love each other again.</font>
<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">Afterall, dono pagal hai.</font>
<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">Just the same.</font>

<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">P.S The precap is super interesting😲😳</font>
<font color="#9966cc" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">Dev cannot stop staring at Sona. For god sake Dev, stop labelling it as 'dushmani'šŸ¤”It is just amazement that She is doing so well and the hurt that, she is doing well even without you. While you are crumbling every second without her.</font>



I m actually liking this ego hassale between them. Dev is on a weak footg here. For a complete day he is in office which has not happend in last 7 yes. I sum how think asha is gog to play a role in there union
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Posted: 8 years ago
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awesum post saumiee
agree wid u
hope ur xams r going well
all d best
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Absolutely amazing post Di!šŸ‘šŸ‘
Thanku 4 giving ur 2 cents on it...and yess ur neutral approch has really helped me understand the Episode better!😳
Devakshi's scores are equal...now let's see who takes the first step towards reunion!šŸ˜‰
And yeah!!
Their venting out rant will surely pave way 4 love...and Soha will prove the catalyst in this process!😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Saumiee...
Loved this line...

"Big egos are big shields for lots of empty spaces"

Where do you get such one liners from... Kudos!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Saumiee, its so good to see your post. Hope your exams went well. 😊

Dev and Sona both are blinded by their egos. Only Soha can open their eyes and hit some realisation into their thick heads.
I am loving their fights and feel that its very important to spit out the venom that is bottled up inside from last 7 years. They need to fight, scream and vent out their 7 years long frustration to behave normally with each other.
And with this free public entertainment going on, i would like to stick to my plan. Please someone lock them up in a room and didn't open until they are done with their screaming, blaming, taunting, kicking or whatever they wanna do. Bcz this washing dirty linen in pubic is too much.😔
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