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Posted: 8 years ago
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I know today a lot of you will say Sona was too much or Dev was too much ...but I feel both are making a fool of themselves and also giving public enough to munch. They need to understand they are public figures and what ever indifference they have ...they should fight it out in private

Dev : If he knew that false partition was against the building rules , he could have told it. But how did he find out that it was against the rule...he didn't like the name plate there ...seeing her name with out his was hurting him...and so he had to find a way to get that out of there...and that's when he figured this out...

But what did he say...he insulted her in front of her staff , acted as if he was a better boss caring for employee safety where as she had no clue abt these basics of running an office...belittled her saying that just by winning an award for running a small business ...no one becomes a business women...taunted her of being a nutritionist ...and asked her to take that board from there as it didn't fit there...

Note : While he made fun of her as a nutritionist...I was thinking , was it the same Dev who did everything possible including the fact that he got her kicked out of the hospital so that she works as his mom's nutritionist ?? Was it the same Dev who was so proud of Sona before and after marriage??

Sona : She kept her calm...when she was told that she was wrong , she apologized to her employees in front of all ...and she agreed to pay penalty if she was proved guilty in court . Dev didn't expect this ...And finally when he asked her to take the name plate home...Sona was smart enough to understand what made him so angry...she knew where to hit him hard that...so that it will hurt him the most ...and yes it worked ...because he was guilty ...no court order was required to prove that ...his own conscience was pricking him hard...and he couldn't deny the fact that he did behave in a spineless manner many times .

Note : Dev, your ex wife is Bijoy's and Asha's daughter not Ishwari's ...cant blame you ...you have only seen , mami, ur mom and ur sisters... If she has the calmness of Asha then on the other hand she is equally dangerous when cornered. When sona taunted him , I was thinking is it the same Sona who would tell him sorry even when she was not wrong , who did not complain when she was left standing at the hotel late night and he was celebrating his birthday with his family...


Dev started it ...and Sona ended ...but in all this ...people will have enough to talk about them.

My question is ...how did this happen...is it because they don't love each other anymore?? What ever it is as a DevAkshian I felt bad...I guess love is just not enough ... 😭

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Posted: 8 years ago
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love is just not enuf ...
dey have a lot to vent out ...dey need to talk shout or even thrash each other left right n center but dey just dont want to admit it ...n dats y wen nt controlled deir emotions come out like dis in public which is further complicating already complicated matters
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I dunno if i will make sense or not, but this venting out (yes the way is very wrong indeed) is very very important for both of them. They need to let everything out. Its like venom bottled up inside them and it should be out by spitting anger. Bcz when they will bite each other they will be venom less. Their taunts and fights are very symbolic. It has everything which they wanted to say to each other during their marriage but never did. If only they could have sit and discussed all this in their room, there was no need of all this public tamasha.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

I know today a lot of you will say Sona was too much or Dev was too much ...but I feel both are making a fool of themselves and also giving public enough to munch. They need to understand they are public figures and what ever indifference they have ...they should fight it out in private

Dev : If he knew that false partition was against the building rules , he could have told it. But how did he find out that it was against the rule...he didn't like the name plate there ...seeing her name with out his was hurting him...and so he had to find a way to get that out of there...and that's when he figured this out...

But what did he say...he insulted her in front of her staff , acted as if he was a better boss caring for employee safety where as she had no clue abt these basics of running an office...belittled her saying that just by winning an award for running a small business ...no one becomes a business women...taunted her of being a nutritionist ...and asked her to take that board from there as it didn't fit there...

Note : While he made fun of her as a nutritionist...I was thinking , was it the same Dev who did everything possible including the fact that he got her kicked out of the hospital so that she works as his mom's nutritionist ?? Was it the same Dev who was so proud of Sona before and after marriage??

Sona : She kept her calm...when she was told that she was wrong , she apologized to her employees in front of all ...and she agreed to pay penalty if she was proved guilty in court . Dev didn't expect this ...And finally when he asked her to take the name plate home...Sona was smart enough to understand what made him so angry...she knew where to hit him hard that...so that it will hurt him the most ...and yes it worked ...because he was guilty ...no court order was required to prove that ...his own conscience was pricking him hard...and he couldn't deny the fact that he did behave in a spineless manner many times .

Note : Dev, your ex wife is Bijoy's and Asha's daughter not Ishwari's ...cant blame you ...you have only seen , mami, ur mom and ur sisters... If she has the calmness of Asha then on the other hand she is equally dangerous when cornered. When sona taunted him , I was thinking is it the same Sona who would tell him sorry even when she was not wrong , who did not complain when she was left standing at the hotel late night and he was celebrating his birthday with his family...


Dev started it ...and Sona ended ...but in all this ...people will have enough to talk about them.

My question is ...how did this happen...is it because they don't love each other anymore?? What ever it is as a DevAkshian I felt bad...I guess love is just not enough ... 😭



ashwathy, your guess is as good as mine.. forget about love not being enough.. the question i am asking myself is - where is love?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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when love is tested insulted and neglected wihtout nurturing beyond certain limit it puts on a black viel called hate ... It takes time for the black night to clear for the white sun to shine with sense and feel...
They incompleteness without each other, with those bitter words and insults 7 years back is calm like volcano all these years but now it has errupted... let the lava come out and do the damage and let the worst come out ... there comes the way for redemption ...

nothing is beyond repair in a relation ... to my knowledge... a relation goes with leaving ego's , compassion, compromise, acknowledging each others value, warmth and love ..which is no wayy seen in their relation today... but it turns up and emerges strongly between these two again...

Till then we have to see tu tu main main dishum dishum... ishwari's manipulations rada rani's filthy games, vicks boy dirty stunts, bijoys possessive rants.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Am just copying my reply to another similar post here...

.I think they both crossed the line multiple times.It is unbelievable that they run big businesses.The example that they are setting to their staff is deplorable.


I think Dev's fault was in making a mountain out a of a molehill,that too in public and unnecessarily pushing and provoking Sona..His actions today are completely unjustifiable.He did what he did to massage his ego and assert his(supposed)male superiority.It was in awful taste..Sona calls him spineless,but his current actions seem more brainless than spineless.

Sona,for her part,held her calm and her nerves commendably,but finally she snapped.And when she snapped she broke free venturing down the same dirty lane where Dev already was.Her outrage and outburst was completely justified .Her fault was that when she retaliated she got too personal,hitting below the belt one time too many .Dev also had a personal motivation in all his actions,but he didn't say it as much in words.



Basically both Dev and Sona have to a take a long hard look at the mirror and ask what they are doing to themselves.The venomous force and the dripping sarcasm in their words show that both of them are engulfed and tormented by their past.It would do them a lot of good to just meet and talk things out or to stay away from each other...
.Unfortunately,our story doesn't progress if they stay away..so they will stay together and fight like cat and mice😉😉...I think the serial needs to be retitled as Tom and Jerry version 2😆😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sona_naksh

love is just not enuf ...
dey have a lot to vent out ...dey need to talk shout or even thrash each other left right n center but dey just dont want to admit it ...n dats y wen nt controlled deir emotions come out like dis in public which is further complicating already complicated matters



Yes , agreed they have a lot to vent out ...but not in public...and considering Dev's ruthlessness I feel Sona has to be careful because she has Soha with her...Her image in the society is very important for her daughter...no one till now knows that Soha is Dev's daughter...so he can live and fool around however he wants...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld



My question is ...how did this happen...is it because they don't love each other anymore?? What ever it is as a DevAkshian I felt bad...I guess love is just not enough ... 😭


Sad but true..Love alone is never enough.Communication,respect,honesty,trust,space,empathy and a lot of other things have to go hand in hand with love...In fact ,if all these things exist love automatically blooms...and without these love fades away.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rock&roll

Am just copying my reply to another similar post here...

.I think they both crossed the line multiple times.It is unbelievable that they run big businesses.The example that they are setting to their staff is deplorable.


<font color="#333333" face="Roboto, sans-serif">I think Dev's fault was in making a mountain out a of a molehill,that too in public and unnecessarily pushing and provoking Sona.</font>.His actions today are completely unjustifiable.He did what he did to massage his ego and assert his(supposed)male superiority.It was in awful taste..Sona calls him spineless,but his current actions seem more brainless than spineless.

Sona,for her part,held her calm and her nerves commendably,but finally she snapped.And when she snapped she broke free venturing down the same dirty lane where Dev already was.Her outrage and outburst was completely justified .Herfault was that when she retaliated she got too personal,hitting below the belt one time too many .Dev also had a personal motivation in all his actions,but he didn't say it as much in words.



Basically both Dev and Sona have to a take a long hard look at the mirror and ask what they are doing to themselves.The venomous force and the dripping sarcasm in their words show that both of them are engulfed and tormented by their past.It would do them a lot of good to just meet and talk things out or to stay away from each other...
.Unfortunately,our story doesn't progress if they stay away..<font color="#0000ff">so they will stay together and fight like cat and mice😉😉...I think the serial needs to be retitled as Tom and Jerry version 2</font>😆😆



Agreed with your statement that "both Dev and Sona have to a take a long hard look at the mirror and ask what they are doing to themselves"

Introspection is required ...but am wondering what would be that one incident that the will make them to do it??
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: pkbdas61



ashwathy, your guess is as good as mine.. forget about love not being enough.. the question i am asking myself is - where is love?


I think these are all bottled up emotions. Pent up emotions. In today's time, aggression takes over love within seconds. Patience is lacking. Devakshi kept avoiding the fights. We grow out of love because of constant bickering, unpleasantness and quarrels.
They both separated in a matter of few hours on that fateful night. I'd this was real, then it would be impossible for them to stay separate for seven long years, because of just 1 night of ugly things that happened. But it's fiction,so...
This current public tamasha is bound to happen - Dev started and Sona ended.
Love is in the debris, it will appear once this aggression, ego and blame game gets over. Popcorn time until the tashan lasts


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