Ishwari and her daughters

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randommusings

@randommusings

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Posted: 8 years ago

Since the show began, Ishwari was always concerned about Dev and gave him all her love n time often neglecting her daughters. Neha is the one who has suffered the most...n we have evn seen that Nicki n Riya are often scolded by Ish if they are disturbing Dev or eating food prepared for Dev or when Ish is busy worrying abt Dev or when they appreciate Sona.

There was a scene in the beginning when Asha calls Sona n phone is on speaker and hearing Mother Daughter conversation Ishwari gets emotional bcoz hers and Neha's relationship has always been so strained.

Another scene when Natasha called Ish to just do general chit-chat with her future MIL and Ish regrets that Neha doesn't share anything with her and Nicki Riya share everything with Neha only.

I so wanted to see a track where Ish wud realise her mistakes of ignoring her daughters and make amends specially with Neha. I was expecting after Dev n Sona's marriage, Sona wud help Ish in this realisation and Ish's daughters wud get their due love n concern coz first Ish has to become a good mother then a good MIL. When Neha left Ranveer's house, ideally Ish shud hv thought abt Neha's future..but she was trying to make amends for their past and hence never tried to reconcile Neha and Ranveeer.

With the prenup, it shows that Ishwari wants to secure the future of her daughters...so financially they will be covered for life. But there is just no attempt to connect with them emotionally.

But with the leap and absence of the sisters in the last week, it feels like this track wud never happen.

Edited by randommusings - 8 years ago

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Shaun

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Posted: 8 years ago

Neha like Dev had to forego their childhood

she had always thrown tantrums around that Ishwari only cared about Dev and at first I too felt its just tantrums but later I realized Neha needed her mothers love and warmth she needed her mother's advice and guidance

Neha became selfish not because she was a jealous type of a person no she never got anything selflessly then how would she become selfless .

I had thought now that Dev is away from Ishwari she would maybe think about her daughters but I'm not sure why the neglect when it comes to the girls

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vayu_prachi

@vayu_prachi

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Posted: 8 years ago

Ishwari has always ignored her daughters and the problem is she never realised it as her mistake.
Even if something would trigger such thoughts she would conviently blame everything on their conditions back then and play the victim card...attention again diverted!!

I so wanted her to make amends wrt her relation with her daughters. Also this could have led us to see the siblings enjoying like actual siblings.

Remember the cake fight scene during dev's birthday in his room...Ishwari's expressions when she saw that and how everyone tried to cover up that they were having fun!!

She can't even let her children enjoy and have fun amongst themselves...that was so disturbing!!

But post leap toh Dixit sisters ka hi pata Nahi...so I really doubt we are going to get a beautiful track between Ishwari and her daughters

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

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Posted: 8 years ago

What? Ishwari? And care for her daughters? No. They are there only for her convenient use. She NEVER does anything for herself, it's all for her family. All her crimes and misdeeds are justified using the same reason.

When she wants to cancel Dev's honeymoon, she uses them. But when she wants a grandchild and sends them at a location of her choice orchestrated by her, they obviously don't care or feel bad then.

When she wants to prepare a way to keep Sonakshi outside her family circle, she tells people not to share information with her. But she fully expects Sonakshi to give a daily report of her activities and gets offended if she does not tell her something.

She prepares pre-nup to make sure in case Dev has a divorce, he doesn't by chance share his wealth with his ex-wife or his own children. But she loves her own children so much that even when her daughter is starving for attention, her biggest concern is if Dev spent too much time with his in-laws or start caring for them.

Dev comes to visit twice a week and spends time with her. He is not rude with her nor hates her (at least doesn't show that way). She is still sad. Why? He is no longer under her control. That's the cause of her misery.

So I don't expect Ishwari to ever bother with her daughters' happiness. All her happiness is tied to her son and his money under her control.

Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago