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Posted: 8 years ago
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I finally caught up with the post leap episodes. A lot of things ran through my mind but let's come to the point. One thing which has been constant through all the post leap episodes is Sonakshi's Love.
Her love for Dev. She was, she is and will probably always be truly, madly and irrevocably in love with Dev. He might be the wrong person to fall in love with, he definitely doesn't deserve a woman like Sonakshi, he has let her down in every aspect of their relationship but she still loves him. She loves him inspite of all his shortcomings, inspite of all his flaws. This is love.

She left him for her self respect, it was one of the greatest decision she took but she never stopped loving him. She remembers him almost every minute. Good or bad, his memories are etched into her brain. This is love.

She blamed him for not trying to bridge the gap between his mother and her, she had a valid point. But she never blamed him for anything in front of their daughter. She allowed her to make a choice. This is love.



Some people say and believe that Dev loves/loved Sonakshi. I believed it too but then he resorted to stalking and spying. My belief shook a little. He restored my belief by marrying her and supporting her in front of few guests. But he totally shattered my belief by referring to Asha as Aunty. That was the day I realised that Dev doesn't really love Sonakshi. He probably thinks that he does but he doesn't.

He never took a stand for her against his mami (who is not his god). That is not love.

He never took a stand for her family when his father in-law was called a thief, a gold digger and what not! This is not love.

He hasn't thought or recalled Sonakshi after the leap. He seems to quite happy with his life. Also, seven years were not enough for this dumb head to realise that his mother was the only person responsible for the unfortunate happenings in his life, not Sonakshi. This is NOT love.

Lastly, publicly humiliating a person you love is not love. It's immature and stupid.




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Posted: 8 years ago
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The extent of Sona's love we saw when she continued to tolerate insults, yet kept on trying to make relationships with Dev's family so that Dev doesn't have to choose between her and his family.
We have seen the extent of Dev's life when he saw everything Sonakshi went through and stayed silent so that he doesn't have to choose between his family and her.

What Sonakshi showed today is honour and dignity. She is honourable enough not to resort to blame game and who's at fault in front of her daughter and dignified enough that the award Dev snatched could not take away her achievements. Dev's act today just made him look like a douchebag.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

The extent of Sona's love we saw when she continued to tolerate insults, yet kept on trying to make relationships with Dev's family so that Dev doesn't have to choose between her and his family.

We have seen the extent of Dev's life when he saw everything Sonakshi went through and stayed silent so that he doesn't have to choose between his family and her.

What Sonakshi showed today is honour and dignity. She is honourable enough not to resort to blame game and who's at fault in front of her daughter and dignified enough that the award Dev snatched could not take away her achievements. Dev's act today just made him look like a douchebag.


He has proved that he's an A class douchebag. No arguments there. He was the one claiming to respect women, look at the mockery he made of Sonakshi's achievements. Such respect, much wow.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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And People still says he lou her selflessly 🤢Dev never loved her.She is just "obsession" for him And still is.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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He is a grade-A A-hole for pulling that shit in public ..that right there is the final nail in the coffin. It doesn't matter if he had nobler "intent" but the action was all wrong. His intent to be involved in her life like that and at that moment is why they are never right and will never be.
Agree , they both can love each other but then thats different from "being in love".

Love is an emotion that never lasts it needs bigger and more tangible tropes like respect, communication, communication and honesty, which again will falter but then thats why you always need to work in a relationship.

Sona and Dev love each other beyond these tropes which is why they will never last in "real world' and why they keep on repeating the pattern and why this show keeps getting stale. There is never a , point A to point b to point c ..progression in their love story which is annoying.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: charminggenie

He is a grade-A A-hole for pulling that shit in public ..that right there is the final nail in the coffin. It doesn't matter if he had nobler "intent" but the action was all wrong. His intent to be involved in her life like that and at that moment is why they are never right and will never be.

Agree , they both can love each other but then thats different from "being in love".

Love is an emotion that never lasts it needs bigger and more tangible tropes like respect, communication, communication and honesty, which again will falter but then thats why you always need to work in a relationship.

Sona and Dev love each other beyond these tropes which is why they will never last in "real world' and why they keep on repeating the pattern and why this show keeps getting stale. There is never a , point A to point b to point c ..progression in their love story which is annoying.


Exactly! There's no progress. They've been on the same page since they fell in love. Sonakshi has always been blindly invested in the relationship and Dev has always been a pacifier in the bedroom. I thought we were going to see a story of Dev's transition from a loving son to a loving husband and how he maintains a balance between the two. Was I expecting too much?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev was never in love with Sona in the first place; He was always in love with himself and a perfect mother-worshipper; Sona was a toy for him who was needed to satisfy himself and at times she was his obsession; all he had for Sona was either lust or obsession but definitely not love!!! Love is when you take a stand for your beloved but he failed miserably in this department; never for once he defended Sona after all the abuses and insult she faced from the Dixit; especially Mami; Neha!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Even when his FIL was abused and called a thief he took it casually; and told Bijoy not to create issue for such small things; and people term it as Selfless Love 🤢 i doubt it's Selfish Lust of Dev!!!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Doctor🤗
I was laughing throughout. What he thought, to show her who's the boss? Sona was looking mad, what she should've done is point at him and laugh with whole media, like poeple laugh at crazy people or circus act. Inhuman, sure, but he deserves that type of treatment only. And noticed his gloating? As if he did big service by showing up, giving speech, those taunts and lastly getting inside a hotel room for ons😆 only one thing good, the fb where he ache se dhobi pachar mummy ji. And still he got it wrong, Sona didn't make him chose, mom did. All she wanted was to share, to be part of. He was good son, good nephew, good brother, just forgot to be a good husband and let others treat her like shit. And he expected sons to be his side when he conquered the world and be good to all but to her. He told her nothing, she found out of her own and still she needed to understand him??? You kidding me? The son mom duo really stays high 24/7🤪 and Ishwari also same, blaming all but herself. Still not seeing where she was wrong. Apple don't fall far from tree 😆

Hilarious episode. Tomorrow would be another if Sona gets inside her room without another glance at him. 🤣

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