Should Sona re unite with Dev - Page 7

Originally posted by: preethik

I think you meant infidelity.

Dev seems to have an agenda regarding Sona. I will hold judgement till I see the actual episode.

Originally posted by: charminggenie

@Bold- +10000000000

This right there where the show and general society seem to turn blind. A woman , who doesn't owe him anything was disrespected infront of the world. His constant butting in, throwing shade at her , interfering in her life and specifically in a professional front where he uses the gender card to put her down is where the show and writers have gone wrong.

Intent doesn't matter but that he CHOSE this route is where he becomes a poor man and a poorer character.

Again, I don't care what he does with his piece even if I smirk at his schoolboy attempts at grappling for attention and playing the ultimate dick card but it's insulting and more so sad , that women choose to overlook the insult he just dissed to a woman which is far degrading than what he could do . He became the Ishweri or Radha Rani and made the world the Dixit house while dissing the taunt.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

😆 this is what Dev's one act does...see how many comments we got on this post...honestly I want both of them to be sincere to each other...yes I love Dev and Sona...just cant see them this way...again getting too emotional...need to control...or like last season will start feeling miserable...Thank you @rahulvats12 for the warning ...rofl

Originally posted by: .annihilation.

Sorry for butting in.

But I'd like to clear something. I can't be sure but I think most of the people who find Dev's actions disgusting as of now is not based on his choice to have a relationship with another woman, get intimate with them or altogether fall in love with someone else. Dev and Sona are divorced and they can lead their lives as they please. I personally, am not questioning their character, moral values or choices at this point.

What most of us and I, specifically have an objection to is Dev's unnecessary involvement in Sona's life and her matters. ESPECIALLY considering the fact that these two are now divorced. He had no right, no right at all to degrade Sona and her achievements at the award function like that and he absolutely did not need to make a 'show' of his intimate affairs infront of Sona irrespective of whether he actually intends to do the act or is just vying for her attention and hurt her in doing so.

What all he's doing now irrespective of whether his masked intentions are noble or not just reflects a poor character of a man. It's definitely not about accepting him the way he is.

Originally posted by: sjain

ok fair enough..but he came as guest to award function when Sonakshi credited him he replied back..yes he isnt old dev anymore..so he goes his rude harsh way to reply..coz he isnt bothered about image media or anything else..and he goes extreme way to reply back..he isnt subtle Dev ..yes he has no right ..but the hurt he is keeping inside comes out like this..he goes ruthless to show it..I dont support his act but its purely because of his anger..he blames her for leaving him and now this is his time to show his changed life to her..

Correction : Dev first provoked her when the media ran to know his views. Sona's reply came after his provocative words. Had he just kept it to himself instead of subtly mocking her than she would have accepted the award without giving him any attention. Yeah, he's bitter, understood but then like you said yourself too, he has no right to spew his bitterness on Sona and more so when she's not initiating it.

and about showing his flings and all..thats for just to prove her that he isnt alone or weak he has found his way..they share connection..of hurt regret bitterness pain...and all this comes out in some way or the other

Like I have said, I know he's probably not actually into it but is only doing to get back at Sona in one of his childish attempts. It does, yeah, it shouldn't just come out on Sona alone. Pura ka pura pariwaar bhara pada hai un pe nikal le apna zehr. 😆

Also Soankshi isnt weak anymore..she is confident strong lady..and knows how to react in this situation she replied well to media..saying she is strong enough to take everything and is not bothered about what Dev did..

She's grown more mature and strong, no doubt. But she's still vulnerable when it comes to Dev and tends to get affected by him even if she's not publicly showing it.

7 years isnt short span of time..things change alot..

And about his poor character or not.then I would again say he is the way he is ..and no one in thie world in flawless so what is so difficult in accepting it ..he isnt perfect he isnt ideal but he has his positives and negatives..and thats how human beings are..Expecting ideal perfect behavior from him..why

You're completely missing the point, Mah. Of course, everyone is flawed in their own ways and every one has imperfections but when Sona can learn, grown and work towards becoming a better person even when she wasn't required to, why can't Dev? The point is Dev doesn't accept his own imperfections, doesn't own up to his faults and doesn't want to work towards betterment. That's not expecting 'ideal' standards from him, it's just expecting him to grow and change for the better, not for the worse.