Mujhe apne Dad se milna hain!!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Soha sounded pretty sure when she said that. And she followed it with -
"Aap sab ko mein achchi tarah se jaanti hoon. Mujhe papa ko bhi janna hain!"

Just wondering... did she really mean it?? Or was she jesting like she had later on revealed??

Did she get scared / concerned when her Dadu shouted / screamed and backtracked??

Like her Papa, does she want to avoid conflicts / issues by opting for the short-term peaceful solution?? I know her mom supported her despite her dadu opposing...but still...

Or am I over-analysing a six-year-old??


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey Suvika,
So nice to meet you here. This is the first posts of yours I am reading.

It's too early to decipher a six year olds conversation and tactics. Though Suhani is aware of certain truths, I admire Sonakshi for giving her the choice. The most poignant moment for me was when she said 'agar main aisi beti hoti toh!' The startled look on Sonakshi's face gave it all away. She still loves Dev. 😃 I am eagerly waiting for the scene where Dev meets Suhani and introduces himself and calls her Suhani while she retorts, 'I am Miss Bose for you!' 😃

This serial reminded me of 'Itna karo na Mujhe pyaar' wherein the divorced couple Ronit Roy and Pallavi Kulkarni meet after several years. They were an older couple with teenage kids. Here, the lead protagonists are younger.

Keep writing. Would love to read your posts.


-Rekha
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suvika.

Soha sounded pretty sure when she said that. And she followed it with -

"Aap sab ko mein achchi tarah se jaanti hoon. Mujhe papa ko bhi janna hain!"

Just wondering... did she really mean it?? Or was she jesting like she had later on revealed??

Did she get scared / concerned when her Dadu shouted / screamed and backtracked??

Like her Papa, does she want to avoid conflicts / issues by opting for the short-term peaceful solution?? I know her mom supported her despite her dadu opposing...but still...

Or am I over-analysing a six-year-old??



Even I felt that she was intimidated by Bijoy...I don't know whether you observed even Sona was visibily upset with Bijoy's snide comments on Dev...I hate it when he said soha is full of Sona and not Dev...this is Bijoy's mistake from the beginning...he expects others to behave in a situation how he would have behaved...that's quite irrational I would say...No doubt he scared out the child
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Danseuse


Hey Suvika,
So nice to meet you here. This is the first posts of yours I am reading.

Hi Rekha... great to see you after so long. How are you?? First post?? Oh boy!! Then maybe you can check out the OS I have written. If you have the time and inclination of course.

It's too early to decipher a six year olds conversation and tactics.

Or the tactics of the CVs for that matter. šŸ˜†

Though Suhani is aware of certain truths, I admire Sonakshi for giving her the choice. The most poignant moment for me was when she said 'agar main aisi beti hoti toh!' The startled look on Sonakshi's face gave it all away. She still loves Dev. 😃

Does she??šŸ¤” I don't know. Can't say at this point

I am eagerly waiting for the scene where Dev meets Suhani and introduces himself and calls her Suhani while she retorts, 'I am Miss Bose for you!' 😃

This serial reminded me of 'Itna karo na Mujhe pyaar' wherein the divorced couple Ronit Roy and Pallavi Kulkarni meet after several years. They were an older couple with teenage kids. Here, the lead protagonists are younger.

Keep writing. Would love to read your posts.

Thank you šŸ¤—


-Rekha

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Even I felt that she was intimidated by Bijoy...I don't know whether you observed even Sona was visibily upset with Bijoy's snide comments on Dev...I hate it when he said soha is full of Sona and not Dev...this is Bijoy's mistake from the beginning...he expects others to behave in a situation how he would have behaved...that's quite irrational I would say...No doubt he scared out the child



Yes. Sona was upset. Maybe not because Bijoy commented on Dev per se but because he badmouthed Soha's dad in front of Soha.

For Bijoy... there is no grey. Only black and white. And he has firmly painted the whole Dixit family as black and gave an extra black coat to Dev.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Devuda... We are all gone cases now.tšŸ¤—šŸ¤£
But you have a point Sujatha. I too felt she got scared of Bijoy's reaction.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suvika.



Yes. Sona was upset. Maybe not because Bijoy commented on Dev per se but because he badmouthed Soha's dad in front of Soha.

For Bijoy... there is no grey. Only black and white. And he has firmly painted the whole Dixit family as black and gave an extra black coat to Dev.


Isn't that wrong dear? This is the mistake many parents do...Bijoy cannot force his feelings on soha or sona ...he doesn't like Dev doesn't mean they should also hate him...love is a feeling its very subjective you can't try to find objectivity in it..that's why we say you can't give cardinal values to love...the problem btw them started when he expected Dev to behave how he would have behaved...which is quite irrational...Ohhh I can't stand that man...I dislike both Ish and Bijoy...kudos to the actors though
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Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Devuda... We are all gone cases now.tšŸ¤—šŸ¤£

šŸ˜† We have been gone cases for a long time now Lata šŸ¤— How have you been?? Good to see you after a long time


But you have a point Sujatha. I too felt she got scared of Bijoy's reaction.

Yeah. She had been genuinely curious about her dad. I watched that part online again. Maybe it is the CVs way of confusing us. God knows

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Originally posted by: Drcs




Yes. Sona was upset. Maybe not because Bijoy commented on Dev per se but because he badmouthed Soha's dad in front of Soha.

For Bijoy... there is no grey. Only black and white. And he has firmly painted the whole Dixit family as black and gave an extra black coat to Dev.



Isn't that wrong dear? This is the mistake many parents do...Bijoy cannot force his feelings on soha or sona ...he doesn't like Dev doesn't mean they should also hate him...love is a feeling its very subjective you can't try to find objectivity in it..that's why we say you can't give cardinal values to love...the problem btw them started when he expected Dev to behave how he would have behaved...which is quite irrational...Ohhh I can't stand that man...I dislike both Ish and Bijoy...kudos to the actors though

Please note that I am not supporting Bijoy here. Just trying to explain the thoughts behind his actions.

Bijoy, by nature, is not THIS irrational. But whenever Dev becomes irrational in HIS behaviour, it triggers this in Bijoy. Remember he was pretty cool and affectionate with Dev when Dev and Sona fought and Dev had spent the night with them. All he wants is for his daughter and his family to be treated right. First impression is the best impression and it lasts for a very long time. The first impression he had of Dixits when he had gone to meet them hadn't been a positive one. He didn't get over it. Plus Ishwari kept adding to that negative impression with her hurtful words and topped it up with the pre-nup. That prenup gave him a clear message that Dixits have NOT accepted Sona wholeheartedly.

He is sensitive about this issue and in a way I understand his attitude. He is not as rich as the Dixits. He can't get over that fact. It makes him extra sensitive. He is always on guard. Making sure his daughter is not looked down in the Dixit house because of this disparity. And whenever his daughter was looked down or talked down, his hackles rise up big time. There is a very thin line between "Abhimaan" and "Swabhimaan"Chithra. Bijoy keeps crossing that thin line because he is an overprotective father with a hypersensitive ego.

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