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I just want put out the lessons learned from season 1.
Even though i was a bit upset and sad that devakshi separated not becuase of lack of trust but because of lack of trust and respect. They both give third person more power to break them apart as they lacked proper communication right from the beginning...
To all youngsters out there... the show may seem a bit ott because they tried to showcase most important problems a married couple would encounter during their married life... but not all these cases will happen to a single couple .. but yes even a single case shown in the show could lead to separation and divorce if the couple dorsnt have love , respect , trust and communication..
I have personally witnessed atleast 2-3 divorces in my close friends and relatives which were be uase the couple lacked the above... love is important but not at the expense of sacrificing ones respect and trust...
Dev and sona could have easily pulled thru if they had
1. Properly communicated the issues they are facing.. like the outburst sona had in shimla .. but it was too late.. they should have similar conversations right from the beginning. Discuss that each of them did today and what issues thay faced and take ur partners suggestion even if u think u are more than capable of handling everything urself... this is what bonds two people
2. Trust the partner and never lie - dont ever lie to ur spouse even if u think it is in the best interest... when the lie comes out and creates mess instead of a positive outcome, the intention would not matter anymore.. your partner will start losing trust.. this is what dev did - he constantly lied to protect sona but none of his good intentions could actually save the marriage as in the end sona had lost all the trust in him and didn't want to be with him anymore..
3. Respect - this is another aspect that is important in a relationship.. you should not lash out at your partner when they try to express their pov or discuss the problems they are facing with your side of relatives. Always keep an open mind when your partner approaches you with concerns and ask right questions to get to the root and then comeup with a solution together. Also never let any of ur relatives demean your spouse infront of you. You should always project that you and your spouse are a team in front of others.. this will further enhanced trust and respect.. if u feel ur spouse is misunderstanding then talk to him/her privately and explain.. doing this will not give an opportunity to a third person to create differences between you two.
Basically in this show they showed all the real life problems and showed in the end if all these problems exist in ur life and you dont act on them then it can only lead to separation or depression of the partner who is emotionally abused in the relationship
I think overall it is a wonderful show and i dont have any complaints.. it brought so much awareness so that all youngsters can identify the problem immediately once they evalute their own relationships and address them before it is too late...
I always took the season 1 as a fiction even though i have invested a lot of time and dint regret it. It gave an excellent platform to understand such characters and assess and discuss the rights and wrongs ... instead of other shows where the leads are always subjected to woes by proper villians plots.. that was not the case in this show... what ever happened is only because of the incomplete relationships - where love was thought to be enough but it failed as relationship lacked trust and respect...
I am super excited for season 2 .. hope you are all too... i hope they continue to give us more character complexities that could force us into analyzing them more and more..
Happy sankranti everyone 🤗
Ps: you know why a tragedy remains on our mind forever where as a happy story is easily forgotten.
These lessons taught in this season 1 will always remain with us as it is like an incomplete story and anytime u see similar thing happening you wil remember the show
Even though i was a bit upset and sad that devakshi separated not becuase of lack of trust but because of lack of trust and respect. They both give third person more power to break them apart as they lacked proper communication right from the beginning...
To all youngsters out there... the show may seem a bit ott because they tried to showcase most important problems a married couple would encounter during their married life... but not all these cases will happen to a single couple .. but yes even a single case shown in the show could lead to separation and divorce if the couple dorsnt have love , respect , trust and communication..
I have personally witnessed atleast 2-3 divorces in my close friends and relatives which were be uase the couple lacked the above... love is important but not at the expense of sacrificing ones respect and trust...
Dev and sona could have easily pulled thru if they had
1. Properly communicated the issues they are facing.. like the outburst sona had in shimla .. but it was too late.. they should have similar conversations right from the beginning. Discuss that each of them did today and what issues thay faced and take ur partners suggestion even if u think u are more than capable of handling everything urself... this is what bonds two people
2. Trust the partner and never lie - dont ever lie to ur spouse even if u think it is in the best interest... when the lie comes out and creates mess instead of a positive outcome, the intention would not matter anymore.. your partner will start losing trust.. this is what dev did - he constantly lied to protect sona but none of his good intentions could actually save the marriage as in the end sona had lost all the trust in him and didn't want to be with him anymore..
3. Respect - this is another aspect that is important in a relationship.. you should not lash out at your partner when they try to express their pov or discuss the problems they are facing with your side of relatives. Always keep an open mind when your partner approaches you with concerns and ask right questions to get to the root and then comeup with a solution together. Also never let any of ur relatives demean your spouse infront of you. You should always project that you and your spouse are a team in front of others.. this will further enhanced trust and respect.. if u feel ur spouse is misunderstanding then talk to him/her privately and explain.. doing this will not give an opportunity to a third person to create differences between you two.
Basically in this show they showed all the real life problems and showed in the end if all these problems exist in ur life and you dont act on them then it can only lead to separation or depression of the partner who is emotionally abused in the relationship
I think overall it is a wonderful show and i dont have any complaints.. it brought so much awareness so that all youngsters can identify the problem immediately once they evalute their own relationships and address them before it is too late...
I always took the season 1 as a fiction even though i have invested a lot of time and dint regret it. It gave an excellent platform to understand such characters and assess and discuss the rights and wrongs ... instead of other shows where the leads are always subjected to woes by proper villians plots.. that was not the case in this show... what ever happened is only because of the incomplete relationships - where love was thought to be enough but it failed as relationship lacked trust and respect...
I am super excited for season 2 .. hope you are all too... i hope they continue to give us more character complexities that could force us into analyzing them more and more..
Happy sankranti everyone 🤗
Ps: you know why a tragedy remains on our mind forever where as a happy story is easily forgotten.
These lessons taught in this season 1 will always remain with us as it is like an incomplete story and anytime u see similar thing happening you wil remember the show
Geet - Hui Sabse Parayee
Advocate Anjali Awasthi
