@YYY.. Have seen your multiple views on forum.
While I can understand where you come from, I disagree.
the kind of regressive bullshit RR, IShwari and Neha spout, the kind of complete ignorance of Sona's plight by all except may be Mamaji in Dixit household, can and should result in pent up anger in Sona.
She and her family was called ugly names and Dev defended too little too late.. in the 5 cr fiasco. Knowing Ishwari's importance for Dev and knowing Money's importance for Ishwari, It was a right decision to return all money to her. She needs to see the money come back. But seeing it come back also makes Ishwari and her thoughts petty and public(hence it is insult). It is sad to see how Dev cannot tolerate Ishwari's tiniest disrespect, but choses to turn deaf when someone else insults Sona.
Ishwari is not married to Sona., Dev is and so instead of always applauding Sona's efforts in pacifying family etc, Dev should have cleared that I understand Ma does not like you. If she does not like her own daughters, how can she ever like you.. so stop trying. I feel if anything kept this marriage going it was Sona's efforts to keep peace and to continue being patient with Ishwari. If she had ignored Ishwari or had even given back a little to other people, marriage would have broken sooner.
And Sona has given a lot more to this marriage than Dev ever did. But all she got is insult, disrespect and it's very sad . Humiliating to watch.
I have not responded to your points, as they are so totally diff from my view !
Edited by JShukla - 8 years ago