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I know this is a funny title. This show has been a roller coaster ride for me and I can speak for a few of my friends here. It has given me great joy ( at least in the beginning and the confession scene one of my favorites) and deep lows. It has stirred my sarcastic streak to the peak and of course gave me the opportunity to find amazing friends and thinkers.
As I see it in Life we sometimes are stuck in What If's ? and the Should Have's. I.E What If I had scored a little more on my tests, what if I had chosen that dress..etc and the Should Have's example I should have taken that offer, should have said no etc and in essence if we get stuck on both we really get stuck in a rut . But if we come to terms with the what if's see it with a different perspective and temper our should have's we make peace .
So in this story
What if we misjudged the context of this show based on the promo that it was a happy one but in essence it was to show a hard hitting reality of Men like Dev existing in real life and girls like Sona believing in fairy tales that just need to wake up to reality.
As I see it (me included) the conflict is arising because some of us are so caught up in the should have's like Sona should have been strong, Dev should have stood up for Sona etc and maybe are misinterpreting the premise of the show..the What If.. Not sure yet of the what if of the show but decided to accept this as a what if for my sanity😉
To quote Bart
Right now I am stuck somewhere between what if, what might, what could have, and what never will and all I want to know is what actually is
So I for one am trying to make peace with myself albeit not successfully that the bottom line is this is a fiction show a dramatic one that I got attached to at a personal level and really does not have much relevance to my real life and maybe stop believing too strongly in the should have and the what if's of the show one episode at a time 😉
Udne Ki Aasha
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