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Posted: 8 years ago
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I feel really sad for dev, a man who loves his family, mother and can do anything for them even sacrifice his personal happiness and love of his life and nobody cares for him. Everyone is after his money, jealous of his happiness and are possessive oh him. The only person who loves him selflessly is his wife and he is not able to stand by her for their happiness. The pain you and your wife are going through is in some way self inflected by you. I fail to understand you sometimes, that either you know what your mother feels about you and what she is doing to you or you chose to not realise it and suffer. What a life dev dixit, I feel very sorry for you but nobody can help you but yourself. I hope you need to reach a break point and hope you will to realise what you are putting yourself and you wife in to stand for yourself. Sorry guys for my rant, I am currently feeling mesirable thinking if there going to be a separation of my favourite couple. I can't bear to see them separated.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Separation is going to happen again.
I feel bad ,sad for Dev but I feel the same for Sona too.
Both are sacrificing their happiness for ishwari.
Hope dev ko jaldi hi ishwari ka true face dikhana jaye. Abhi tak woh shayad uski face value ko hi value Deta aaya hai tabhi Ishwari that baat usse emotional blackmail karne mein successful ho jate hai.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hope he get to know that everybody in house is after his money including his mother too. He even can't give money to her in.laws. Who on earth think like that do they belong to village or what
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Posted: 8 years ago
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As Sona said...dev's main problem is that he always find temporary solution for her mother and wife's happiness.
He should find a permanent solution
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Posted: 8 years ago
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self inflicted pain...
well i like to rephrase it as... "dangerous upbringing.."

Dev is a result of many negative people around always as so called well-wishers (like we see wrong company- sangath ka asar) and horrible upbringing and a victim of a bad incident which snatched away normal childhood and always on toe...as he had no other way than being successful...and his strength that he calls his mother...as God... well she is not his strength but weakness.. and there he is to realise... the damage when he slaps his elder and FIL...and sona's hero.."Baba"

Sona is there... but it will take time to remove that negativity and damaged wrong thought process...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sajinifaby

self inflicted pain...

well i like to rephrase it as... "dangerous upbringing.."

Dev is a result of many negative people around always as so called well-wishers (like we see wrong company- sangath ka asar) and horrible upbringing and a victim of a bad incident which snatched away normal childhood and always on toe...as he had no other way than being successful...and his strength that he calls his mother...as God... well she is not his strength but weakness.. and there he is to realise... the damage when he slaps his elder and FIL...and sona's hero.."Baba"

Sona is there... but it will take time to remove that negativity and damaged wrong thought process...

Very well said bad up bringing. my heart goes out to both of them.






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