Originally posted by: sona_naksh
U know what aazeen ..i m highly disappointed in bijoy ...not because he is wrong ...but because his way is entirely wrong ...
He is a educated man ...he does not have to stoop to d level of RR or Ishwari ...
It is alwaz said nafrat bahut soch samajh ke karni chahiye ...coz aksar hum wahi ban jaate h jinse hum nafrat karte h ...
By saying dis m not saying by any means ki dev is right in slapping his fil either accidentally or intentionally whatever ...but dev RR or Ishwari being wrong does not make bijoy right
Bijoy is constantly badmouthing ishwari in front of dev ...knowing very well where she stands in dev's life
I am myself a daughter, and will never want my parents to totally cut off from me once I am married...
But there's a certain level of interference a girl's family should do in the daughter's family. Suggesting her good and bad is fine, but literally barging into her in law's place and screaming and hurling hurtful words are never a sign of a good relationship that is built a few months ago on shaky grounds...
I am constantly saying since yesterday that Bijoy is not showing any signs of being an educated and humble man... He was such a balanced lovely character during the starting days... After Sona's breakup itself, Bijoy has started showing signs of such a downcast man who has no manners to talk to women... He has many a times screamed so loudly on Ishwari, are they manners? Who would say he is the father and husband of two extremely polite and intelligent ladies viz Sonakshi and Asha...
PS: My mother says that the parents / brother / sister of a girl who interferes way too much into her marital life, ensures single handedly that their daughter's / sister's marriage and home shall be broken... We have seen this in Neha's case, reasons are GKB, ishwari and Dev ( the girl herself never tried to mend her relationship... rishta toh tootna hi tha)
Sonakshi's marriage is in making of this home breaking... Bijoy is single handedly destroying her marital life... Let's see if Sona is smart enough to save her sinking ship of marriage or not..
PPS: Dev unintentionally slapping Bijoy... I told you na, I am a living version of Dev... Trust me, things happen this way... There came a situation when just in my hyperactivity, my hand landed right on my elder sister's cheek. I can't tell you how offended she was and how ashamed I was... All I did was sitting on my knees apologizing profusely, and when matters didn't solve, I began crying... Only until then my sister forgave and told me to control myself...
Jab mere saath meri badi behen, Jo 4 saal badi hai, uske saath itna offence ho gaya tha, toh Bijoy toh Dev ke papa ki umar ke hain... Maafi bhi maangni padegi aur sasur ji ko manana bhi padega...
Par even after this I can say, I understand Dev's situation...
PPPS: Bijoy himself has called insult to himself... Asha told him right, apni izzat apne haath hoti hai... Kahin pe bhi zarurat se zyada jaane se bhi izzat ghat ti hai... Apni beti ke liye chinta karna theek hai... Par Unke ghar walo ke liye kuch bhi bolna theek nahi hai...
Aur ye baat Bijoy jitna jaldi samajh le, behtar hoga... Coz Dev Sonakshi ka rishta khatam ho na ho, Bijoy and Dev ke relationship mein bohot khataas aa jaayegi, and unfortunately usko Sonakshi bhi theek nahi kar sakegi..