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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am absolutely loving the discussions in the forum today. I am trying to understand different points of view... To read all posts and comment. It will take time a bit.
So my two cents. I gave been trying to analyse dev's character. I hope you take the time to read.
See what I understood dev becomes a whole new person when his mom comes into the picture. It's like he actually has a dual personality. I know I won't be popular while saying this but I believe the words he said on Friday THEN at the time he really meant it. Now the problem is that here his mom came into the picture (by going missing) and that's it. He becomes blind. Here it's as if he can't understand that his actions (like his behavior with sona at door or in front if GKB or with bijoy) are contradicting what he has said. This is where the problem is. If you remember even in the suicide track. At that moment he had thought best option was to leave sona. Then sona's words fell on deaf ears. But if we recollect...he broke down realising what he had done once he was back home. Here I see same thing happening. If when he comes back sona confronts him or even she doesn't... He may realise his behavior and say sorry and MEAN it at that time. But he will behave same way again if mom does something drastic like this again. So I don't see another way than if at that moment someone points him in the eye that he is contradicting himself. That by being concerned for his mother is seeming at that point that he is not supporting his wife. Don't get me wrong.. Not supporting him... He IS not supporting his wife here. And this cycle of realising afterwards what he did was wrong, hurting one while taking care of the other always cant go on forever. Only he is not realising it. But iss mai bhi confusion hai ki who should be that person sona? Or is it that it's only for himself to realise. How to correct a person who doesn't know he is wrong?
Similarly we saw how he had defended sona in front of Vicky, neha, and obviously he would without a doubt if someone from office or just any person insults his wife. We also know that he has always known about his mom's behavior to sona...ao is it that he doesnt understand how to stand up to him mom without being rude, disrespectful (in his eyes not ours), or without his mom attempting suicide or leaving home, without her believing that his son is going away?...or is that he doesn't realise his mom's words is as much hurting or abusive as people say as anyone else's?. He doesnt realise that and him not standing for it is also WRONG?
I don't understand. Cant understand. Of course it is wrong we understood I do too. But as I said it can't go on like this right? But what will make him realise that also I don't know...
Because I believe divorce or separation is not an option here. What is without doubt is that they both love each other and will not stay happy if they stay apart. So neither this end nor that extreme
Toh kya kare... Where from here?
Specially having a mother like ishwari!
Really excited for this track...because mujhe toh kuch samajh nahi araha.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Loved how u described dev's character. He loves both sona & his mom. But he becomes blind when something happens to his mom...let's see what happens next
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't know what will make him realise or he already realises the situation. Oh yes he do. He love his mom with all her flaws. What he needs to do is to do something about it. I don't doubt his love for Sona and when the time comes he will not let her go.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wonderful post di👏👏
Liked ur 2 cents!
Thanx 4 sharing ur thoughts with us😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Great post! There is no doubt that Dev loves Sonakshi a lot but when it comes to his mother he loses all senses and brains! He always makes the wrong decision and the victim always seems to be Sona whether that is the suicide track or the infertility track. He loves Sona but he never puts her feelings above his mother's. That is the sad truth and I don't think he will change.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I can understand your 2 cents...
Nobody has any doubts on Dev's love for Sona...they both love each other unconditionally...

But when Ishwari comes into picture Dev forgets that others have a heart too and that other person is none other than his wife...he always fails to balance things...He very well knows his mom's behaviour with Sona and always keeps mum...but here I think Sona is equally at fault, because she lets them to take her for granted and hurt her...

And now Ishwari will be at its worst...
As now Devakshi are going to Shimla and Ishwari will get to knw abt Dev's generousity of gving 5 cr. to sourabh will again point fingers towards boses including Sona...

My point is despite of Dev accepting his mistakes , let it be hiding pregnancy reports, infertility, or helping sona and sorabh, Ishwari and family will think ki Sona ki wajah se Dev is saying all this...And Sona is money minded who is brain- washing Dev...

Dev has to be firm and had to support Sona and give back Ishwari this time.. And when we say giving back to ishwari, we don't want him to disrespect his mom but make things crystal clear and that can be done once Ish's dual personality is out in front of him.

Though I have very minimal hopes in Dev now...But somewhere I still want to be proved wrong.

Don't want any seperation and Devakshi should together fight all odds...its high time now...I hope story is moving towards the main track now...lets wait and watch...

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