I am absolutely loving the discussions in the forum today. I am trying to understand different points of view... To read all posts and comment. It will take time a bit.
So my two cents. I gave been trying to analyse dev's character. I hope you take the time to read.
See what I understood dev becomes a whole new person when his mom comes into the picture. It's like he actually has a dual personality. I know I won't be popular while saying this but I believe the words he said on Friday THEN at the time he really meant it. Now the problem is that here his mom came into the picture (by going missing) and that's it. He becomes blind. Here it's as if he can't understand that his actions (like his behavior with sona at door or in front if GKB or with bijoy) are contradicting what he has said. This is where the problem is. If you remember even in the suicide track. At that moment he had thought best option was to leave sona. Then sona's words fell on deaf ears. But if we recollect...he broke down realising what he had done once he was back home. Here I see same thing happening. If when he comes back sona confronts him or even she doesn't... He may realise his behavior and say sorry and MEAN it at that time. But he will behave same way again if mom does something drastic like this again. So I don't see another way than if at that moment someone points him in the eye that he is contradicting himself. That by being concerned for his mother is seeming at that point that he is not supporting his wife. Don't get me wrong.. Not supporting him... He IS not supporting his wife here. And this cycle of realising afterwards what he did was wrong, hurting one while taking care of the other always cant go on forever. Only he is not realising it. But iss mai bhi confusion hai ki who should be that person sona? Or is it that it's only for himself to realise. How to correct a person who doesn't know he is wrong?
Similarly we saw how he had defended sona in front of Vicky, neha, and obviously he would without a doubt if someone from office or just any person insults his wife. We also know that he has always known about his mom's behavior to sona...ao is it that he doesnt understand how to stand up to him mom without being rude, disrespectful (in his eyes not ours), or without his mom attempting suicide or leaving home, without her believing that his son is going away?...or is that he doesn't realise his mom's words is as much hurting or abusive as people say as anyone else's?. He doesnt realise that and him not standing for it is also WRONG?
I don't understand. Cant understand. Of course it is wrong we understood I do too. But as I said it can't go on like this right? But what will make him realise that also I don't know...
Because I believe divorce or separation is not an option here. What is without doubt is that they both love each other and will not stay happy if they stay apart. So neither this end nor that extreme
Toh kya kare... Where from here?
Specially having a mother like ishwari!
Really excited for this track...because mujhe toh kuch samajh nahi araha.
Edited by YASHO1997 - 8 years ago