How do we NOT feel bad for Dev?

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saumiee

@saumiee

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Posted: 8 years ago

Someone please let me know if they could find a way to not feel bad for Dev?

To not feel gloomy when he suffers inspite of him being wrong?

I thought I will like him being punished for his lies but I ended up feeling so bad for him

Yes, he lied.

Yes, he was selfish.

Yes, he took Sonakshi's emotions lightly.

Yes, he could not think rationally.

But still my heart went out to him every time Bijoy asked him to stay away, every time Sonakshi cried and he felt himself choking because of her.

His ways were bad, but his intentions weren't.

He could have easily said it to sona and her parents that it was Sonakshi he was trying to keep happy. That she can never be a mother. That could have quietened sona and Bijoy. but he did not do that, because he wants to see her happy. It was his only motive. To see her and his mom happy.

But such is the justice by destiny, you have to bear the consequences of your wrongdoings some day or the other.

Dev, this day was brought about by you and sadly, there is no point blaming God for it. If he is watching you (which he definitely is) he must be smiling silently at the thinking of us mortals. If anything good happens, it is because of our will and if something goes out of control, it is God's wish.

Na, this post is not only about Dev. Obviously all our hearts broke for Sonakshi💔

She is the one who will suffer the most. More than anyone else.

To dream of carrying a life inside, to finally see it happen and then know it was just a dream! To be so emotionally involved and protective for something you cannot see...and know that it was all unreal. .the one for whom you were so possessive didn't even exist. To see your entire family being rejoiced, to see yourself being the cause of tuat happiness and then becoming that cause of taking the happiness away!

How painful it must be for Sonakshi, only she can know.

So relieved to see Dev understanding in this episode that Sonakshi needs him. His support. That made him hug her even when she didn't want to. Can I just echo all your beautiful posts saying how beautiful the hug was. So painful!💔

Dev not wanting to let go of her, from his embrace... Sonakshi not wanting to get close to him but with every second she is breaking down even more, she is becoming weak. Still, she wants the answer of her questions.

I wish they keep the focus on Devakshi only, lesser on Ishwari. I know this development highlighted the change in dynamics between Ish and Sona and this new twist will again bring in changes. That has to be shown. Still, I don't want everything to be revolving around that solely.

Just a wish as a viewer, because DevAkshi make even the most painful episodes a treat to watch.😊

Edited by saumiee - 8 years ago

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sjain

@sjain

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Posted: 8 years ago

I will be putting my views properly tomorrow evening may be

But one thing I cant stop myself from saying is that Sonalshi is stuck in same situation as Dev was..very clever cvs..That's how Dev was feeling how difficult it was for Dev to break 2 hearts

Sonakshi is lucky she has to break one..

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Adiba Bano

@.kashishbano.

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Posted: 8 years ago

Amazing Post dear.

I too don't find any way that can escape me from feeling bad for Dev.

And beautifully penned down.Agree with you.

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Adiba Bano

@.kashishbano.

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: sjain
I will be putting my views properly tomorrow evening may be
But one thing I cant stop myself from saying is that Sonalshi is stuck in same situation as Dev was..very clever cvs..That's how Dev was feeling how difficult it was for Dev to break 2 hearts
Sonakshi is lucky she has to break one..

Exactly now sona is in same situation where Dev was.

But luckily Sona can take out the anger and frustration on Dev but poor soul Dev can't even so that.😭

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saumiee

@saumiee

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: sjain
I will be putting my views properly tomorrow evening may be
But one thing I cant stop myself from saying is that Sonalshi is stuck in same situation as Dev was..very clever cvs..That's how Dev was feeling how difficult it was for Dev to break 2 hearts
Sonakshi is lucky she has to break one..

Will be waiting for your views mahua..

I don't think it is a good idea to compare sonakshi and dev's condition here...both are in painz of different sorts. One is bearing the pain of being betrayed and one of being the cause of Sonakshi's pain, inspite of wanting to be the cause of her happiness.

It will be so unfair to say who is lucky and who is not dear.

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sona_naksh

@sona_naksh

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Posted: 8 years ago

I dont know either it is d way dwv's chatr is written or is shaheer's acting ...i alwaz find myself feeling bad for him ...even at d tym of breakup however right sona was ..how mich ever dev was wrong i felt really bad for him

..same was today ...i know wat dev did was wrong on so many levels n he deserves all this but den also i felt bad for him

Sona broke today ...she felt cheated by d man she has trusted more dan herself ...i m waiting for dev n sona to talk abt it now ...

I really wosh lile u in dis track dey gove importance to dev n sona's emotions ...it shud nt b only abt ishwari

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pkbdas61

@pkbdas61

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Dev is a person who creates problems for himself.. his intent has seldom been wrong, but his methods are always.. at least initially.. but when sense gets into his head, he does the right thing.. he knows that he has messed up or even thinking that GOD caused him to mess up!!! 😭😭

i am sure his next steps are always going to be right.. i really wish he tells Sonakshi about her inhospitable uterus now.. i liked her conversation with Dev in his office.. where she says that she is a doctor by still went by trust on his words.. these should be a wake up call for Dev. He must tell her the whole story... and believe that she is indeed a stronger person than himself. He cannot hold on to relationship in fear of losing her, for whatever the reason.. Only the truth can keep him with Sona.. the sooner he realises it the better for him.

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Sonali Mahajan

@Cutiepie.sona

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Posted: 8 years ago

This was the question I was asking myself after seeing posts bashing Dev...why oh why I'm feeling bad for this man...?? I think this episode was the answer to that question...This man has committed the grave mistake that evryone can see but the real intentions , his pain, his grief was understood by few...I know Sonakshi is deeply hurt by this but dev is no less on the receiving end of this...

He too wanted to have a child still he kept aside his wishes and desires and beared the burden of pain alone to keep his luved ones happy...

Him constantly telling sona I did it coz I luv u reflected his deep and selfless love that didn't allow him to tell the truth...he knew they'll be hurt and annoyed with him but all he wanted is to see ishu and sona accepting each other whole heartedly even if he gets sidelined in their relationship

The hug was symbolic of his fear of loosing Sona once again...he can't let her go this tym coz he know he'll be devastated again...her trying to push him away showed her anger and the feeling of betrayal from him...

The bubble has now bursted and dreams are already broken...waiting 4 the tym when dev will tell the truth completely to her ...making her understand why he did what he did...

Sharica were absolutely brilliant thruout the episode...they deserve a standing ovation for this👏👏

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cscs

@cscs

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Posted: 8 years ago

Brilliant post just like the episode. Today i felt for each and every character (even GKB -_- can you imagine) . All my emotional chords were touched and i was feeling sorry for everyone.

Dev committed a serious mistake. He was stuck in such a bad situation and still he is not able to come out of it. Somebody has to pull him out of this swamp. Sonakshi was heartbroken bcz Dev broke her trust and shattered the dream she was living. Dev could have actually completely shatter her by teling her the complete truth but all he saying was I love you.

And that hug was so powerful. It conveyed a lot. Just like confession where he wrapped his arms around her protectively. He was happy, contended and on top of the world that time. And today he was scared of losing her again and wanted to tell that he love her. The way he was just not letting her go was so impactful. He wanted to hold her close and remove all the bad things that can happen to him and them. He wanted to be assured but Sona didn't hugged back. She was deeply hurt by the man she loved. It was her trust and love that has fallen. She wanted to go away from her husband and he was not letting her go. Both Shaheer and Erica emoted that scene beautifully.

Ishwari is in her own bubble and when it will be burst she will return back to her usual self. Now whole blame will be on sonakshi. By being a partner in Dev's crime she did a serious mistake. I was scared of this only. Dev will get away but she will not. This will be the reason for Ishwari's returning back to her own insecurities. You are right in saying that Sona will suffer the most.

Bijoy and Asha's anger, pain, tears i can understand all. I am sure there will be some people who will bash Bijoy for his behaviour towards Dev. But he doesn't know the whole truth. Any protective father would have behaved like that only. He is aggressive and protective towards his daughter, May be he would have less physical, but i can understand him.

This track was supposedly Dev's redemption and now i seriously dunno what's gonna happen. What i wish is to get emotional Devakshi performances.