Why only Dev should be blamed? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Cutiepie.sona

Sonakshi asked abt her reports from dev and the doctor repeatedly but they said that the reports are gone to the Specialist for further study...

Remember sona's prego test, it's results and then dev saying that the reposrts have been sent to specialist ...this all happened in ONE DAY...

It's just the very next day of her prego test .. that she got to know from kaki maa that she's not prego...if reports have been sersly gone to specialist then it might have taken 2-3 days to reach to her doctor...

Maybe after 2-3 days sona would herself ask dev abt her reports ... had kaki maa would not have come...

I hope u understand my POV😊😊

I believe every hospital will have the patient information along with their reports . Even if they sent the report to specialists they will be in a position to provide the original reports through email . Fact is Sonakshi did not bother to check her own reports. I repeat it is her negligence that found her in her present awkward position without her reports in her hand. Asa doctor she should have done the test herself and got the reports herself. Even normal women are doing it by themselves.

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Blamed for what? This poor couple needs space - literally and metamorphically.

There are usually no absolute right or wrong and this fact (in my opinion) applies to the current situation. The whole lot needs to calm down a bit.

It's day 3 of the fake pregnancy drama. Yes the drama shouldn't have proceeded more than 3 minutes and for that I will blame Dev. He really should have stopped sonakshi in the tracks that very moment when she told him she hasn't tested. They should have done a pee-on-stick test. But that's all. When that moment passed, the whole thing just snowballed. Look at how crazy these people around them both are

1. Day 1, both the khandaans are having dinner and dhol. Again, Ishwari's prediction may have been correct. Her experience may have been of importance just like kakima. But either run some tests or take caution and wait and watch for a week to see if the girl is indeed pregnant. You don't start partying. She may have indeed been pregnant and loose the baby in a very very early miscarriage at 5 weeks.

2. Day 2, by God. Longest day in the history of television I think. Aayan drama aside, what did people around the couple do? Never leave them alone. And eventually after dinner when they are alone in their room, dev had the opportunity and he didn't tell Sona. Sona has asked him a few times now that something is not right. Now he should have told her. However again, the day was full on drama. This one thing I would say is just circumstances. Sona didnt ask for reports (but what will the reports show? That hormone - what is it- HCG? Is high) and Dev didn't tell her the truth. He had just hours ago done Aayan and was probably nervous

3. Day 3 - more dramatic. Within hours of the morning starting, Asha has called this lady to their house and Ishwari has made 4 plates of laddoos. And packed lunch for Sonakshi. And brought 2 phal walas. Guys, give the couple some time.

I have time and again felt, dev is a very private person and only when he is either thrown in the deep end or led by sonakshi he opens up. No one is to blame. Dev lied. No two ways about it. But Ishwari and sonakshi started it and dev as usual fell in the trap and took the stupidly to the next level

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Blamed for what? This poor couple needs space - literally and metamorphically.

There are usually no absolute right or wrong and this fact (in my opinion) applies to the current situation. The whole lot needs to calm down a bit.

It's day 3 of the fake pregnancy drama. Yes the drama shouldn't have proceeded more than 3 minutes and for that I will blame Dev. He really should have stopped sonakshi in the tracks that very moment when she told him she hasn't tested. They should have done a pee-on-stick test. But that's all. When that moment passed, the whole thing just snowballed. Look at how crazy these people around them both are

1. Day 1, both the khandaans are having dinner and dhol. Again, Ishwari's prediction may have been correct. Her experience may have been of importance just like kakima. But either run some tests or take caution and wait and watch for a week to see if the girl is indeed pregnant. You don't start partying. She may have indeed been pregnant and loose the baby in a very very early miscarriage at 5 weeks.

2. Day 2, by God. Longest day in the history of television I think. Aayan drama aside, what did people around the couple do? Never leave them alone. And eventually after dinner when they are alone in their room, dev had the opportunity and he didn't tell Sona. Sona has asked him a few times now that something is not right. Now he should have told her. However again, the day was full on drama. This one thing I would say is just circumstances. Sona didnt ask for reports (but what will the reports show? That hormone - what is it- HCG? Is high) and Dev didn't tell her the truth. He had just hours ago done Aayan and was probably nervous

3. Day 3 - more dramatic. Within hours of the morning starting, Asha has called this lady to their house and Ishwari has made 4 plates of laddoos. And packed lunch for Sonakshi. And brought 2 phal walas. Guys, give the couple some time.

I have time and again felt, dev is a very private person and only when he is either thrown in the deep end or led by sonakshi he opens up. No one is to blame. Dev lied. No two ways about it. But Ishwari and sonakshi started it and dev as usual fell in the trap and took the stupidly to the next level

Why are you blaming Iswari or Asha? Who told Sona not to do pregnancy test at home? Will it take that much time? Why did she leave with Neha and Iswari without staying back when they first went for conformation? Shouldn't she feel she should collect her own reports then? That is why I said she gave opportunity to Dev to lie continuously. It is OK if you don't want to blame Sonakshi but I will. Dev did not start this drama. For sure.

Originally posted by: cscs

Both are wrong and right at their places and has done stupid and serious mistakes.

The main point is that everyone should take responsibility of their own actions and should not blame others.

Agree with you.

Originally posted by: ifuser

U r right sona always remain statue when her loved ones are insulted in front of her
When ishwari went to Bose house first time to ask for pardon and begged for Sona .. this was before sona's marriage then Bijoy insulted and kicked ishwari out of his home and banged the door over her but sona remained silent not said one word is that the way an educated n sensible man behave with widow women?
Another time I noticed when Bijoy was accusing Dev for letting sona fast right after their marriage ... Dev never insisted sona to fast but still sona remained silent ... every time Bijoy insult Dev I never seen sona supporting Dev ...atleast Dev defended sona many times ...
It's good that sona respect ishwari regardless what ishwari intentions are because one day ishwari will realize sona's good nature ... hope all young girls learn the way sona carrying herself ... patience and respecting the family is the key factor
Also Dev respects Bose family specially the gesture he showed by sending gifts to all Bose family during Diwali was awesome

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Why are you blaming Iswari or Asha? Who told Sona not to do pregnancy test at home? Will it take that much time? Why did she leave with Neha and Iswari without staying back when they first went for conformation? Shouldn't she feel she should collect her own reports then? That is why I said she gave opportunity to Dev to lie continuously. It is OK if you don't want to blame Sonakshi but I will. Dev did not start this drama. For sure.

Yes Sonakshi shud be blamed as well...why shud she blindly believe everything that her husband says. She shud cross check everything watever Dev tells her. Everytime she asked abt her reports, Dev assured her all was okay n she was indeed pregnant. Yes Sonakshi shud be blamed for trusting Dev's words n not checking d medical reports herself when she knows how many times Dev has fallen short of his words.

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

I am in fact not blaming anyone. Because such is life. They are a family and we trust our family and don't always cross check. Or may be some of us don't. For example I don't check my bank statements. My husband deals with that. He doesn't check the grocery status and I do that. Stereotypical roles. But I use that only as an example

Well even I won't check bank statements and other things. But I am particular about my first pregnancy report and collected it personally. I make it a point to see periodical medical check up reports of my family members. I don't agree that it is anything to do with the trust I have in my husband.

Sona is to be squarely blamed. She should have been pro active to check her medical reports herself.

In the current scenario the share of blame is only towards Dev. Sona personifies every girl irrespective of whether she is a dr or not. Who is just under marital hue, married to her lover, honeymoon period starts getting nausea ,dizziness. Courtesy to innumerable Hindi movies and added by her MIL insistence feels she is pregnant. Marriage with lots of unprotected Sex leads to pregnancy normally. So she dose not have to doubt Dev about the test results. Cause y would not u trust ur husband with test results. Cause no hubby can or will lie about it. She rose to know her condition yet so for her there is no reason to doubt.