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Posted: 8 years ago
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His means are wrong but not intentions.

He is stuck in a very precarious situation. He loves Sonakshi more than nething else and now he cannot think his life without her. He has gine through the pain of seperation once, he knows he will not be able to take it again.

He had told Ishwari clearly that he is not thinking about child for nxt 5 years thinking till that time Ishwari will completely accept Sonakshi and will accept this reality of Sonakshi's infertility.

But this sudden confusion created by Ishwari took all Dev's plan for a six. He is totally confused. He knows one thing revelation about infertility at this point means Sonakshi leaving him forever and he knows he can live without a child but not without Sonakshi.

All his actions are act of desperation. He himself doesnt know what he is doin and wat will b its consequences. He just wants Sonakshi to stay in his life at any cost

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Posted: 8 years ago
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But simple was to tell sona is not expecting this time...and play the 5 years card again
Why take a challenge that he will get sona preggy in 15 days to keep his mom happy and make her love sona

Anyways he knows his mother doesnt like sona..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..natasha..

But simple was to tell sona is not expecting this time...and play the 5 years card again

Why take a challenge that he will get sona preggy in 15 days to keep his mom happy and make her love sona

Anyways he knows his mother doesnt like sona..



Isn't that typical of Mr Dev Dixit. He cannot think beyond near future. All his life he has done this only. He has taken actions just to avert the complication at that particular point.

Yes telling the truth was the most viable option but he got carried away with newly found bonding between Maa nad Sona.

He has still not figured out actually what Ishwari is
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Who has asked him to reveal infertility issue, he can simply say the truth of Sona not being pregnant and end of story for now. Ultimately he again made his Mother knows-it-all status intact. She said Sona is pregnant and the tests proved it, so Ishwari is again right, no wonder she claims to know all by her tajurba and love for her kids.

Dev's ability to lie about anything and everything is what is creating problems. He had been lying about everything for so long, that for him that seems like the easiest way out of all troubles. Worst thing he has stopped feeling guilty about lying to all the people he claims to love the most.

We have talked of when Ishwari's true face of "not being godly" will be revealed and realised by Dev and then both Sona and Dev will work together to make Ishwari understand and get her out of her insecure zone. But guess what he had always known about it and does not want to change anything. So the whole point of Devakshi working together to make Ishwari understand and grow has already been trashed.

I simply fail to understand what cv's are trying to show in the name of reality because whatever they are showing is far far away from any reality.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..natasha..

But simple was to tell sona is not expecting this time...and play the 5 years card again

Why take a challenge that he will get sona preggy in 15 days to keep his mom happy and make her love sona

Anyways he knows his mother doesnt like sona..


then how will they show drama😆😆😆... jokes apart you know only few of us is thinking that dev shouldn't have lied... my mother and my MIL are feeling bad for dev... they both are saying his wife and mother have put him in fix... i am shocked and i asked them how can you feel bad for dev???

there answer imagine yourself in this situation... he is going through so much...😆😆😆 and my MIL is nursing departmental head in AIIMS... irony you see


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Not read the other responses so I might be repeating myself
1. He should have told sonakshi within days of getting married if not as soon as he found out. They should have taken a 2nd opinion and made a plan on how to tell the families or to hide and take treatment
2. When he blabbered the 5 year plan he should have then told sonakshi
3. When he came home and found the jalsa was on he should have rushed to get a home testing kit
4. When he came home with negative to reports he should have simply said it's negative and then offline spoken to Sonakshi and confessed
5. He could have done nothing, waited for sonakshi's period to make an appearance and then they could have consulted a doctor
6. When he was nearly caught he should have come clean and made a plan to tackle the families

His goal is fine; his approach is wrong at so many levels
Edited by thedramaqueen - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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He has always been like that. Keep his loved ones happy and remove their worries even without knowing them. Whatever he is doing is wrong absolutely wrong and he should have told Sonakshi. But his intentions can be understood. Also we dunno what he is upto actually.

After watching yesterday's episode, one thing is clear, both Dev and Sonakshi will fall really bad. Sonakshi was tensed and hyper after listening about complications and now he will lie more. He has seen how much this baby is important for her, now he will not stop. And Sonakshi will go and tell every thing to Ishwari first the moment she knows the truth. Dev- Sonakshi solving this issue together seems to be a distant dream now.

Also, it looks like a case of selective hearing. We just listen "ma" in Dev's dialogues and ignore "sonakshi". Whatever he is doing is for both his wife and ma, not alone for his mommy dearest.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Everybody says they can understand his intentions, but i also can not relate to his intentions. If the 2 of them love each other that much, they first look at their lifes with just the 2 of them. Even if one of the two has a disire for a child, it doesnt mean if one of the 2 has a problem regarding pregnancy you just leave each other. If sona would leave dev, or dev would leave sona the two of them did not love each other that much as they are portraing.
There are so many other options for one, you can adopt, you can get treatment and go trough this tough journey together. Atleast you support each other even in less good times.

If dev realy loved sona, he should have told her the truth, and support her trough all this. Even if sona would think about leaving dev because she can not concieve, he could easily convince her that even without having a child he still cannot live without her. Dev has convinced sona in so many other issues, why does he think he cannot handle this?

And he is even making it worse by keep on telling lies. Why lie that she is pregnant?? It is only because his mom was happy and was pamparing sona like her own. This was totaly selfish of dev, to lie to sona that the test was positive. You know she has a problem regarding this and you keep on making her happy with something that is not there or maybe will never come. How could he?

I think what they are showing right now is realy farrr from.reality. And even if this is reality in India, why justify such reality, give an example to the people how to support your wife in such matters. Give a good message to the people who are dealing with this kind of problems. Give them examples of how to resolve infertility problems. Not by showing decieving doctors and desprate husbands.

Sorry but this is my pov on this matter. Do respect all the other pov's and opinions. But finding it hard to find any logic in the current track of krpkab.

Still i will keep watching and hope for a better story yo come.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: cscs

He has always been like that. Keep his loved ones happy and remove their worries even without knowing them. Whatever he is doing is wrong absolutely wrong and he should have told Sonakshi. But his intentions can be understood. Also we dunno what he is upto actually.


After watching yesterday's episode, one thing is clear, both Dev and Sonakshi will fall really bad. Sonakshi was tensed and hyper after listening about complications and now he will lie more. He has seen how much this baby is important for her, now he will not stop. And Sonakshi will go and tell every thing to Ishwari first the moment she knows the truth. Dev- Sonakshi solving this issue together seems to be a distant dream now.

Also, it looks like a case of selective hearing. We just listen "ma" in Dev's dialogues and ignore "sonakshi". Whatever he is doing is for both his wife and ma, not alone for his mommy dearest.


I cannot understand how he thinks he is making sonakshi happy by lying to her about her being pregnant? She is happy with something fake. If my husband would lie to me about being pregnant and on top of all he would not tell me about my infertility, i would be so dissapointed, and i think that the trust between husband and wife will be gone.

How cant he not think about how much it will hurt sona if she finds out she is not pregnant and maybe can never have a child. And dev knew about all this, but was faking all to give her temporary happiness?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: xxZaaraxx


I cannot understand how he thinks he is making sonakshi happy by lying to her about her being pregnant? She is happy with something fake. If my husband would lie to me about being pregnant and on top of all he would not tell me about my infertility, i would be so dissapointed, and i think that the trust between husband and wife will be gone.

How cant he not think about how much it will hurt sona if she finds out she is not pregnant and maybe can never have a child. And dev knew about all this, but was faking all to give her temporary happiness?

That's why he is wrong because he is not thinking of anything ATM you mentioned. He is only focusing on current happiness that sona is having and wants to keep it in tact. Sona will be disappointed and she has every right to be.
Right now he knows that Sona cannot be a mother and this false news of baby has mended his mom and wife's relationship and made both of them super happy, specially Sona. He wants to secure that relationship and i seriously dunno what is he upto and how is he thinking that Sona will get pregnant with the help of treatment even without her knowledge. He is gonna fall soon enough.

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