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A very good post...
But isnt it the sad reality in most parts of India? For any marital problem, the advice that the elders give is have a baby, that will sort out the things...like really? how is a baby suppose to solve the miscommunications, misunderstanding, a loveless marriage, some cases infidelity, financial problems, issues with in-law...HOW?Arent the couple responsible to solve the issues before they bring in a baby? Baby is not a magic tool who can fix up everything wrong that is going on in your life...But CVs you are doing a bad job...every time I think there is no low to go, you surprise me with your new twisted logics and plotsYou are wasting such an amazing talents
So very true... personal experience ...couple of months into marriage one of close relatives asked why no plans of pregnancy...and said that a child cements the relationship betwn a man and woman...more than in laws and parents ...its the other crowd who are interested...even now ppl ask why ONLY 1 kid and compares me with sis who has two...initially used to feel bad and try to justify abt health concerns...then people would say why not go for treatment..etc...what they dont understand is that not every persons health will be ok to undergo the treatment...so...now have learnt to ignore...because we dont have to justify our decisions to the entire world ...Just be happy with the life and blessings that god has given us ...and live on...
