'Aakhir khud ki zindagi ka faisla khud karenge'..

Originally posted by: tia.o

Hey, long time no see. hope you are having fun in your vacation.

I think Elena is all empty air but useless just like Vicky. By all means take decisions about your own life. But also take responsibility for it. You can't marry against your cousin's wishes and then expect to live under her roof while your husband takes money from her husband's company. If you want to take your decision, you can leave Dixit mansion and stand on your own two feet.

But these two seems to think that they have right to take their own decisions while accessing family bank for their lifestyle.

Originally posted by: randomramblings

hi Tia,

sorry but i disagree on this part. To me vicky working in Dev's company should not have an influence on the relationship that vicky and elena share. Its just like any other job and we don't get indebted to our employer to decide our life for us. Sona as a cousin might have asked elena to stay away, but ultimately she cannot decide what is best for Elena. Elena has every right to make the decisions of her life. And her being not remorseful yesterday is show casing the fact that she does not consider it wrong in marrying vicky. I am not discussing here on whether she is right in accepting some one who tried to molest her in the first place blah... blah .. blah.

I am not defending Elena and vicky here, but let's draw a parallel. If Dev could stalk sona, gatecrash her date with Ritwick, cause harm to ritwick financially all in the name of love and yet Bose's are all forgiving and accepting him as their SIL and love of their daugther's life then what is wrong in Vicky? after all he too he is a human being and anyone can fall in love with him

haaan but elena falling in love in spite of knowing his nature is just those girls who fall for someone knowing that person is a casanova. what matters is not how he "WAS " but what he is "now" .

If elena feels that Vicky is a changed man,then let her suit herself.

to me Vicky not respecting sona does not hold so much importance, he had always been like that. he doesn't feel the need to show any respect towards her and most importantly he gets away with it. Dev raising his voice has no meaning, after all sona is his wife and he will be cross or rather he has to be cross. But if Ishwari, neha or even RR objected to the way he was talking to sona, telling him that he needs to have a basic decorum when speaking to a lady ... yup then it makes some sense.

Originally posted by: tia.o

I am not saying that Dev as Vicky's employer should have any influence on Vicky's decision to marry nor Sonakshi can tell whom Elena should or shouldn't marry. But Elena got married as per wishes and came to live in the cousin's house (Dixit mansion is not Vicky's house) whom she lied to. All I wanted to say is that if she has enough independence to get married out of her own will, then she should have enough self-respect to live somewhere else but under Sona's husband's roof. just because vicky and elena married, they are going to go away from their parents right. As long as his parents stay there, elena will continue to stay with his family. It is not for dev or even ishwari to object, but RR and mamaji who need to object.

Coming to independence part, i would prefer if both Vicky and Elena start to pay their expenses for staying in Dixit mansion. like vicky said, if he starts to return the money that he emblezzed, i will appreciate him no matter whatever be his character.

It's like if a landlord objects a tenant to have a pet, the tenant says that the landlord has no right to tell him whether to have a pet or not and gets a pet. But expects to continue to stay at the same place instead of finding alternative accommodation.

That's my point. Take your decision where the roof is owned by you and you earn your own way. You can't take your own decisions under someone else's roof. To me landlord needs to put in the condition even before renting out, if the tenant already has a pet then it will become his choice if wants to rent the place or not. in case if the landlord is imposing this condition after the tenant moved in and later decides to have a pet, then yes i will say the landlord cannot dictate the terms . He might own the place but does not own the people staying in the place nor their choices.

Regarding Vicky, yes, Elena can fall in love with him. But I can't justify hurting and betraying people who loved her for much longer for a love she knew for much less time. I did not justify Dev's behaviour either. If you recall I blamed both Dev and Sonakshi at that time. if you can recollect while celebrating dev's birthday bijoy did remark that he will never have any further relations with the dixits. so i dont see any way where anyone in The bose's family would have accepted if she confessed.

Elena could have talked to at least her own parents who had never met Vicky and hence weren't prejudiced against him. But she kept them in the dark as well. It was betrayal, pure and simple. her parents might not have met vicky but still they would value asha and bijoy's opinion and for sure will turn against the alliance. To me, I would say Sona was not wise for once, I dont say her trusting Elena is wrong, but her not trying to find the depth of the feeling is surely wrong. if you can see elena is a very bubbly girl and since sona advised the breakup, she was somewhat aloof with her. this should have ring some bell and atleast sona should have open up to DADA.

Now as an employer Dev may not have any say in Vicky's life but 1. He can fire/demote him for embezzling money and b. Fire him for insulting his wife. That Dev can do. The reason Vicky does not feel the need to respect Sona is the reason no one in Dixit house feels the need to show respect to Sona. Because 1. there is no negative consequences and 2. Dev most of the time remains silent. The way he reacted today had he reacted every time someone disrespects his wife whoever that person may be, no one would have the guts to insult Sona.

fire him for insulting his wife, sorry i dont agree profession and personal life should be different. but yes fire for money embezzlement, bring it on.Yup, the dixits behave with sona that way only because neither Dev nor even Sona take a stand for themselves. Dev needs to draw the line, but at the same time, sona should stop accepting to be a punch bag. People only value you if you value yourself.

I am glad that Dev is slowing coming out of the shell and trying to reason out with both Neha and RR atleast on few incidents, but yeah he has a looong way to go.

Originally posted by: JShukla

Honestly if this turns out to be a clichd track of Vicky planning a revenge on Elina... then aywn..puke.. from me.

But if it's to show how a man must support his wife irrespective of his social position, I am all for it. Lets face it, no one respects Vicky, but he will make sure everyone respects Elina. Common Vicky don't fail me... 🤣