Ishwari was plain rude with Sona today!

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baijubavra

@baijubavra

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Posted: 8 years ago

I didn't understandwhy she was so nasty with Sona after the Kachori incidence. Her son specifically ordered her to sit down, gave some emotional speech about maa beta relationship then clearly ordered Sona to fry the Kachoris. Mamajee heard everything but as soon as Dev left, she started abusing Sona. Till now when she yelled at her during Tulsi puja and all, one could still understand her POV and dadi bua's presence but this time she was downright insulting! How can one take this much insult?

And why didn't mamajee point out that Dev ordered Sona to fry Kachories !

What do you guys think?

Edited : she was very nasty with her during the fever also but one could still give her the benefit of doubt that she was panicking to see her son in fever.

Edited by baijubavra - 8 years ago

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Pehchaan.Kaun

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Posted: 8 years ago

The catch here is - she says all these whenever Dev is not around. Such a schemebaaj aurat she is 😆.

Mamaji is really good for nothing. He should have scolded and stopped Ishwari in this scene from talking trash. The last sentence was really awful and aggressive - No one can stop me from doing things for my son, not even his wife 👎🏼. It's time for her to go to pilgrimage or tirth yatra and retire forever. She has become obsessive. I want some doctor to recomend bedrest for the rest of her life now.

I dont know how Sona keeps her calm in such occasions.

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sona_naksh

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Posted: 8 years ago

Ishwari has been downright insulting to sona since d day sona entered Ishwari Niwas as dil ...and nth and noone can stop it unless until dev orders her to ...n i dunno it ll ever happen or not ...

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Tia.0

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Posted: 8 years ago

If you compare Ishwari's behaviour and resentment towards Sonakshi just continuously have worsened since marriage. Remember I said that if a man ties his respect, honour and dignity with his wife's, then no one would dare to insult her even his own family. But Dev hasn't done that. By keeping silent he has been constantly encouraging this behaviour to continue from Ishwari, Radha and now Neha. That's why I say, the person who does wrong and the person tolerates the wrong are equally guilty.

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JShukla

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Posted: 8 years ago

Arrey.. empathise with her na... she is from a generation who had it so tough..

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Gayatri

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Posted: 8 years ago

When is she not rude with her
She is basically jealous of her own dil for reasons best known to her

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baijubavra

@baijubavra

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: DevakshiCrazy
When is she not rude with her
She is basically jealous of her own dil for reasons best known to her

Actually ! She has been yelling at her since day one but everytime she had an execuse. Also, no one else was present to witness anything. This time, Dev clearly ordered unlike Sona's enthusiasm in Tulsi puja and Ishwari's pre warning for the same but this time she was saying such nasty things that did not even make any sense. Also, mamajee could have said that Dev ordered her to make kachories so how can she take your privilege? He did not even stop mamijee this time.

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pkbdas61

@pkbdas61

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Posted: 8 years ago

I blame Dev entirely for it. Before anyone jumps on me, here is why i think it so.

Sona bears the insults because she truly loves Dev and wants her marriage into the Dixit family to succeed. she is giving it her best shot like how all DIL's should. if there comes a time for you to draw the line, i would use Dev's dialogue that he spoke to Sona about Neha... Being divorced is not the end of the world.. Every working girl should remember that. it is better to live with dignity and with your head held high than to be a person who is made to feel small day in and day out.

Sona knows about Dev and his special affinity for his mother.. and his family. She knows that when it comes to them, she just cannot talk to Dev.. remember all the scenes that we have gone through. So even if she broaches the subject, Dev will only eat her up and not even want to listen to her. We saw it even in yesterday's episode.. when Sona was complaining about Iswari to Dev.. his reply.. what is it that Ma does not listen? he said it in a very frustrated tone...

Dev wants Sona to adjust to the Dixit house, come what may.. he is just not bothered about her emotions, state of mind, the tauntings, the blackmails, everything, some of which is spoken in front of him and most behind him.

The problem is he ties his respect with Sona and expects Sona to be so. For his family, he does not consider respect an issue.. and so wants Sona to be the same. With outsiders he is a lion.. remember when Ranveer said something to Sona, how Dev yelled at him?

so in a nutshell, he is a door mat at home and unconsciously wants Sona to be the doormat too.

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aarcha

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Posted: 8 years ago

Yes, Ish maa was really rude to sona... Dev blurted out that had sona didn inform him, he wudn hav known his maa doing works in kitchen despite being wounded her leg. So obviously ish maa got a feeling that deliberately sona informed Dev . Infact, sona jst casually said that to dev. So ish maa is already prejudiced towards sona & all hell broke loose.

Practically only thing sona can do is allow maa to do wat she is already doing for Dev...meanwhile sona can include her stuffs too...like her clothes 😉 ..If maa is happy doing all things for dev, let her do it. ( personally i had some experiences with my mil, though she's nt an ishwari.. Since v r living away from in laws, during vacation times, wen my mil is very much excited to make coffee for her son( my husband ), i"ll say...maa , if u r making coffee, make that for 2..so that i needn't make one for myself ) 😆 v can't change them all of a sudden , esp insecured people. it'll surely take time.