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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have read all the view of the IFians and feel all are having different views, but I feel the speech of Ishwari was more sensible.
I felt that speech was necessary for every woman who come into the husband house, no women should think that they have sold their son/or given to their wife. A woman is coming into the family and she should not snatch away their son.

Even I have seen when a man gets married, he will not try share his feelings to his mother, he will give most of the time to his wife which will create insecurity feelings towards a mother especially a single mother.

And also Ishwari told that being in the house it will be like Vanavass, yet it is right, when you are not included in the family discussions or anything else, the feeling of unwanted arise.


These are all the problems faced by the old parents, you have to consider the sentiments of old people

And calling Mama's body by Sona was not right that too often, even I was irked by that statement.


Shaheer really cried - I agree, if you take the words of Ishwari into heart everyone can feel the same.



Sorry for this post, if has hurt others, but it was a mirror to the feeling of a mother and I AGREE.

Even I am a mother of two sons, I also feel the same, putting myself into into Ishwari's shoes even I cried not only Shaheer even Suma




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Posted: 8 years ago
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I cannot get that may be I am mother of a daughter n she is so small too...
But as my MIL told me that when I came their house after marriage...Please take all responsibilities of my son...I have done lots...But as working woman...I cannot manage all...but me n my husband distributed the tasks and managing the things nicely...Same thing...Sona is trying to do ...As all sensible saas ...say to Daughet in law like that only...

But Ishu is different case...that is the issue in speech because of her weird n cunning dialogues...that was weird.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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but in dixit house it is not ishwari facing vanwaas but it is sonakshi facing as an outsider or left out member
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: varshu_018

but in dixit house it is not ishwari facing vanwaas but it is sonakshi facing as an outsider or left out member


True..Sona doesn't allow to keep one swing in room...how can Ishu talk about vanvas n all...ridiculous speech fully
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Its not about sons behaviour change after marriage. Dev is an exception to have stuck at the age of 8. Kids (sons and daughters both) do grow up and their interest change with widened horizon. After teenage most of the kids (though not kids) start having distance from parents and its natural for their development.
The parents who also change and treat their children as friends get the closeness but in the show ish and dev are just stuck 20 yrs back.

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