If only.. Ishu, if only....

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Push-pull

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Posted: 8 years ago

If only...

If only you have guided him to share love with loving ones...

If only you have not been biased in your own coccon...

If only you have been open minded about anything in world...

If only you have let him accept the changes that marriage brings in...

If only you have told how to take care of new relationships...

If only you have been confident in your own upbringing...

If only you have not been justifying your own limitations in your thought process...

If only you have been acknowledging your own shortcomings...

If only you have not been scared of your own way of thinking...

If only you have been as understanding as you claim yourself to be...

If only you have not been using emotional drama to get your ways...

If only you have not been living all your life in self-pity and playing the victim role all throughout...

If only you have really given deep thoughts about your own philosophy...

If only you stop hiding your bad behaviors behind a name "insecurity"...

If only you stop blaming the situations for all your innocent crimes...

If only you use your heart and brain to start thinking beyond YOU.. YOUR sacrifices... YOUR feelings... YOUR hurt...

If only it's not always about YOU!!!

If only... Ishu, if only... If only you stop "Being Ishwari"...

Sona..🤗 Please... please... pretty please... continue this mode and get your scripts solid 👏 To keep The Dixits' on their toes to really introspect their way of thinking, living and hurting others in the name of their undying special love...

Sona, You become a bad girl or bahu in the eyes of everyone, no problem.. Just go do it girl.. Change in a person is just a progress.. Change in many people is a revolution.. And our society really needs that revolution👏.. To stop such soap sagas around "saas-bahu fight for love of insecurity" and "bechara men being sandwiched between maa and wife" ...😆

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sona_naksh

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Posted: 8 years ago

Awesum post PP

Agree with u ...

My problem is not d fact dat dev dint call asha maa ...itw d fact dat he called her maa made her feel like maa and suddenly stopped coz ishwari cud nt tolerate it ...

Yeat when ishwari was telling sona ku dev shayad kisi aur ko maa na keh pa rha h ...she was lying to herself coz she saw it wid her own eyes so happily dev was having his tym wid asha ..

Biggest problem wid ishwari is she keeps lying to herself and to everyone and den feels like dat is d only truth ..although subconsciously she knows real facts n truths but is too absorbed in her ownself to acknowledge them

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Push-pull

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: sona_naksh
Awesum post PP
Agree with u ...
My problem is not d fact dat dev dint call asha maa ...itw d fact dat he called her maa made her feel like maa and suddenly stopped coz ishwari cud nt tolerate it ...
Yeat when ishwari was telling sona ku dev shayad kisi aur ko maa na keh pa rha h ...she was lying to herself coz she saw it wid her own eyes so happily dev was having his tym wid asha ..
Biggest problem wid ishwari is she keeps lying to herself and to everyone and den feels like dat is d only truth ..although subconsciously she knows real facts n truths but is too absorbed in her ownself to acknowledge them

Agree.. Not just that.. The Dixits' esp Ishwari, Dev and Neha are strong in their negative emotions... And they believe that whatever they do and see and say is just right because they have been through situations that nobody has gone through.. And they have every right to feel that way.. They strongly believe that the world out there has to adore them as is and they will not be bothered to even give a thought about the people in it and what it feels like to be in their shoes... They act as the victims as per their convenience and every other time they behave like they are the rulers ordering around or accusing others for their wrongdoings...

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Sharica

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Posted: 8 years ago

Nice post...

I would say if she would have applied atleast 20-30% of your points...the story would have been much much better...

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Sharica
Nice post...
I would say if she would have applied atleast 20-30% of your points...the story would have been much much better...

That Ishu was long gone.. The one now appears to be all victimized by the situations with no introspection of her inner conscience to even think that she's taking advantage of the situation.. In reality she's waiting to pull out a smoking stove drama if the situations are not in her favour. 😆

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Shaavi

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Posted: 8 years ago

Ishwari reminds me of the story of the frog in the well that thought nothing existed beyond that. For that frog the well was the only world...

Here comes Sona, a frog from a pond, tells the well frog, that there was more to the world than that well...

Ishwari believes what she wants to believe...

Just my pov

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Push-pull

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Shaavi
Ishwari reminds me of the story of the frog in the well that thought nothing existed beyond that. For that frog the well was the only world...

Here comes Sona, a frog from a pond, tells the well frog, that there was more to the world than that well...

Ishwari believes what she wants to believe...

Just my pov

Exactly.. And so bad for her Sona happened. 😆 But I am glad that Dr. Bose's strong personality is back in action... Else it would have been a struggling story of Mrs. Dixit.. 😆 Where Ishu would have an upper hand.. Hope Sona is not taken into a guilt trip for hurting a mother's sentiments and put her through a meltdown.. 🤪 Anyway keeping the hopes from the CVs low and waiting to see more of Dr. Bose.. 😳

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Samzz

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Posted: 8 years ago

Extension of Rudyard kipling's 'if' poem 😆

And of course the answer for Erica's twitter post only if..😆

On a serious note I presume this are the things that will br slowly addressed in the series..our voice being sonakshi..she did a comeback with her question on upbringing..way to go dr.bose👏

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Becca

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Posted: 8 years ago

Just my musings- Khatri ko le aavo aur Ishh , Ishh ko dur karo.😆😛

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Tia.0

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Posted: 8 years ago

#10

If only the society & media didn't promote hate/competition among women over a man/success/position of power (saas-bahu, friends/sisters fighting over the same guy).

If only women were not falling for it and dragging each other down.

If only we spent more time fighting to get our rights instead of taking away someone else's right or playing kitchen politics...

If only the world was an equal place for both men and women and every other sex.