To those who defends Ishwari jii...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Can u all justify the way Ish projects herself as if she's totally unaware of Dev calling asha maa auntyji ?? Infact bcoz of her, Dev started calling his MIL, aunty jii. But b4 that , Dev was calling his in laws as baba n maa by himself. Nobody forced him. He was very comfortable with his in laws. But the insecurities of Ish spoiled everything. Again how convincingly Ish said to sona that till date , Dev called ONLY her as maa but she very well knew that's nt the truth...( but i felt CVs cud've added one more dialogue as sona"s ... Maa , do din pehle tak, dev maa ko maa hi bulate dhe..ab achanak kya ?? On a second thought, it seems that Ish's transformation to a selfless MIL is a time consuming process )
I felt that funny as an insecured person like Ishwari ji found this " dev calling aunty ji " as 'a choti si baat or dev ke kehne me koi galti ya fir sona ki sun ne me galti " but sona's reply was to the point... galti toh ek hi baar hoti hai, bolne me aur sun ne me bhi !

How brilliantly the writers incorporate asha maa's thoughts in contrast with Ishwari ji's , as the words of sona. šŸ‘ wen ish said that dev didn wanted to giv his maa's place to anybody else , sona replied that she also believed the same . But after marriage, asha maa told her that she''s going to a new house ..will hav new relationships but the names will b the same ..like maa, behen, mama etc. But one need to embrace all these rishte of our partners wholeheartedly ( this is actually a genuine advice for all those young pretty girls n handsome boys for their future šŸ˜‰ )

Sona hit the bull's eye wen she directly asked Ish whether she didn teach Dev these lessons . Sona got the answer by seeing a pale dumbfounded Ishwari maa. Wen new relationships r born, it'll never get diminished , rather it'll further flourish . There shud n't b any old /new or your / mine kind of rishte ( ish maa uses this often as to take dev for that guilt ride ! ) Wen sona said these as her maa's advice to her , silence was the answer from ish 's part . But will that affect Ish maa ? She used to find blame on others like the way she said earlier it was all mamaji's fault & his duty to correct her as he's her elder brother.

will these b an eye opener for Ish maa ? Let's wait n watch

P.S. Cvs did a commendable job as some dialogues 're really mind blowing šŸ‘šŸ¼
I wud b glad if sona told Ish maa that the reason for her cool attittude , even though the cake was cut b4 her arrival , was only bcoz of the advice from her maa , then it wud've been another reality check for Ishwari jii.. But as the saying goes " do nt correct a fool, he/she 'll hate u ; correct a wise person, he/she'll appreciate u "







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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nice post. Ishu's whole life's Tapasya is at stake ek second me dikha diya that she is not only mahan in this world
It's not cake cutting but somebody's nose cutting ceremony has been done🤣. How skilfully she kept her views. Totally loved it.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sona's maa is a very intelligent lady & she can influence sona in every positive ways. This makes sona to forgiv & forget the mistakes done by others ...this goodness of sona increases Ish maa's insecurities .
@ Sargesh ...nose cutting ! šŸ˜† cake cutting .. i felt as a ticking time bomb which'll explode 12.03 past midnight ( the sight of sona looking from the door still leaves a sour taste!)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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"But as the saying goes " do nt correct a fool, he/she 'll hate u ; correct a wise person, he/she'll appreciate u " Very true.

Will Ishwari get affected by what Sona said, I don't think so, not for better any way. She would give a gyan to her robot beta and allow him to call Asha maa, that's my guess for now. And now that she knows the meaning of "Mumma's Boy" she would get angry at Sona for calling Dev this name, though we all know that's what she wants Dev to be and she tries to keep him that way. But its like she is allowed to do anything for she is the supreme power (in her mind) but no one can point out wrong in her.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mena_k

"But as the saying goes " do nt correct a fool, he/she 'll hate u ; correct a wise person, he/she'll appreciate u " Very true.

Will Ishwari get affected by what Sona said, I don't think so, not for better any way. She would give a gyan to her robot beta and allow him to call Asha maa, that's my guess for now. And now that she knows the meaning of "Mumma's Boy" she would get angry at Sona for calling Dev this name, though we all know that's what she wants Dev to be and she tries to keep him that way. But its like she is allowed to do anything for she is the supreme power (in her mind) but no one can point out wrong in her.


yeahh , changing Ishwari all of a sudden is nt a cake walk . She's that kind of a person who always thinks that only she can do everything perfectly .Yess she alone looked after their family after the sad demise of her husband which is commendable . But there r many many similar people who struggled the same way or even more . So "after me , the flood " attittude , especially towards her DIL is nt all appreciable n acceptable ( may b i'm feeling this way as i'm a dil too but luckily my MIL is nt like that of Ishwari ji 😃 )

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