No Sonakshi, it's not your fault

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Posted: 8 years ago
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You shouldn't be blamed at all for being nice every time...There's a harsh truth in life that I have personally experienced. "When you are kind and nice to everyone, people start to take undue advantage of your kindness"..

Should you change your attitude so that everyone takes you seriously? Well, probably yes.. But why should you change who and what you are... Being nice, forgiving and kind was always your attitude..I agree people may have to change themselves so that people do not take them for granted... But it's like coming under the influence of someone...

P.s- Sona, whether you made a mistake by marrying Dev or not, you will always remember the strongest and most sensible character in the show..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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She should not apologise for being nice and kind, no one should. Those are essential part of human virtues. But there's a difference between being nice and being stupid.
Let me give you an example.

Say someone asks you for a favour to help them out to complete a task because they are busy. Being the nice and generous person, you do their tasks for them.

Later you find out that they were never busy but were only taking advantage of your kindness.

How would you feel?

And what would you say to the person, who in spite of knowing that she is being taken advantage of over and over again continue to fall for the same excuse continuously.

Here's anyone would say to that person. Either put up or shut up. Don't complaint or cry and just continue to do the task silently without complaining or stop doing any more favour to the people who don't deserve them.

No one is blaming Sona for being nice and kind. We are blaming her for being a moron.


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