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Yesterday's episode of Kuch Rang Pyar Ke Aise Bhi might not have been a very good watch for many. While Dev continues to get bashed even on his birthday episodes, I keep my hope high this time because somewhere down the lane this time he knows that he has wronged Sonakshi. Yes, he is at fault, but he simply could not get out of the situation. Ignoring the precap about cutting the cake before Sonakshi is back, which is yet to play out in the show, I am a bit content this time with the hope that something very good is going to happen as the consequence of this one bad incident.

But regardless, as a viewer we tend to lose the connection with each passing episode that we used to have before with this show. Will talk about those connections today.

Dev And Ishwari - The Bond That No Longer Connects With You

The first thing I loved about the show was Dev and Ishwari's bond. Yes, it's no normal mother-son's love, they are special and they had a very struggling past together. Ishwari bonded in a very different way with Dev since he was the only eldest child of hers who understood her during the difficult times. Neha had too many complains and Riya and Nikki were too small to realise what was happening with them. Hence, Dev was the only one left who understood, realised, perceived and empathized with her. We loved that fact and we still appreciate what Dev is to Ishwari and what Ishwari is to Dev.

For once, today I will accept the fact that I connected to Dev in a very personal level. The writers of the show initially showed some mother-son scenes that might have happened in real with any of us who are really close to their mother. Let me confess, even I don't go out of the house without my mother's blessings. Had a very stupid kind of illusion since childhood that no God's blessings can help me score marks during exams but my mother's blessings would get me 100/100. I still do the same with regards to work at present. My mom still has kept my old notebooks, books and cycles in an old cupboard. I do not sleep at night without having my last talks with her about the day.I do have some favourite specific dishes made by her and am absolutely possessive about those. These are Dev's routine that simply matched with my life's routine and somehow I loved Dev and Ishwari. But is my mother like Ishwari? No. Am I like Dev? No ways! I very well get into any sort of argument with my mother if I don't agree with her. I have a mouth, a voice and a tongue and she has taught me to use them when it is required (even against her). Something that Ishwari failed to do.

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And now even if a beautiful scene between the duo comes up on screen, I do not feel the connection anymore. I am no more empathetic towards Ishwari. Yesterday when Ishwari was all joyous about Dev's birthday especially when she recited the poem to Dev, it was a beautiful scene but could I enjoy watching it as I would have enjoyed it a few months ago? No.

Dev and Ishwari's scenes have become cringe worthy now because they appear to always come at the cost of someone's tears. Their scenes are real but always they come up when Sonakshi is left alone. It's just that the timing of the scenes leave a very negative feeling in the viewers' mind. And Dev and Ishwari both really deserve to have some happy moments that would not make Sonakshi sad.

If the writers are trying to make a point that Ishwari's love for Dev is exclusive, fine. But what's the harm in giving them some scenes without making people feel more sorry for Sonakshi? Once in a while even that can be done. Because otherwise, Ishwari's struggles, her goodness will all become meaningless to people if her happiness continuously turn out to come out of Sona's tears. Just let her be happy even when Sona is happy once in a while.

Dev And Sonakshi - Their Romance No Longer Appeals To You

Coming to think of it. Your husband says the most romantic things to you that flatter you to no end right after telling his mom that he would no longer address your mother as mom.

You husband asks you to paint the room maroon, call him Mr. Sonakshi Bose and even grow a plantation in your bedroom if that pleases you, but then can't even adjust with a swing in the room.

Back to back, without a break when you keep on showing how bad of a husband Dev is, people just simply forget how good he used to be. They forget that he is really very proud of Sonakshi, her professional achievements, have understood her at times when she needed, went against his own family's religious sentiments to give the dream wedding to the Bose's, lied to his mother also for Sonakshi more than once. And still he is desperately trying to hide the truth about Sonakshi's medical reports. It is arguable whether he is right or wrong, but his intentions aren't really bad and one has to accept that. All of this good traits drowned in the ocean with the continuous negative stunts of Dev of lying unnecessarily to Sona, going to mommy dearest to get help in doing his own work, creating huge issue out of a swing, cutting birthday cake without her.

Yes, Dev is weak, but he isn't bad. He is spineless, but not heartless. I guess that's what the CVs are trying to show. But, since the issues that have been built in the past two weeks aren't resolved, the Devakshi scenes appear meaningless. Their understanding appear fake as you tend to feel that with each passing day Dev is making a fool out of Sonakshi. Even hard core Devakshi fans, would find the romance irrelevant and would just feel disconnected. Dev's sweet words and Sona's forever understanding nature doesn't help the audience in being understanding towards their romance.

This makes me wonder, how closer are we slowly getting towards another separation? Because issues are simply piling up in their life without getting resolved at all.

The Dixit Family - What Were They Exactly Celebrating?

The Dixit family, they are a very unusual breed and we must accept it. Everyone in that house claim to have their right on Dev and are always vocal about how much they love him. But no matter how much Dev is worried, even if he is dying with tension and you can see it on his face, they will never conveniently be able to see, observe or understand it.

In the separation track, just how Dev's devastating state also never let them see how broken he was from inside, yesterday too, quite weirdly, no one observed how tensed he was, how he wasn't really enjoying the selfie session with his sisters and was constantly having a worried face. But when you start wondering about why they aren't observing his gloomy mood, you get the dialogue from Maami, "Look Neha, how happy our Dev is with his family without the bangalan?". And Dev's laadli sister even smiles and nods and you tend to come to the conclusion that Dev is the most misunderstood when it comes to Sonakshi and his attachment with her is the most underestimated by his own family.They just cant accept that their son's personal happiness lies with his wife too.

Of course, he is the only one to be blamed for this. But whether he is happy with his family without her or not is a question that would be answered to Neha and Maami quite soon. Very soon in fact. But probably it will be too late by then.

Moral Of The Story -

We all should be like the Bose family. In fact whoever watches this show should anyhow try to implement some elements of the Bose Orientation Programme in our own household. They are the people who probably have the least right on Dev, Dev was never supposed to come at their place too, no body was there to cut a cake but still they celebrated his birthday in the most jovial way possible. Unlike the Dixits, who didn't even think once where their daughter in law is, didn't use their common sense that as it's Dev's 1st birthday, he might have some plans with his wife and lastly, who always have a habit of expressing right over Dev without really caring about his own wishes, Bose house members don't need him to celebrate his happiness. They are that cool!

At the end, I feel sad for you Dev. Sad that the family which so selflessly is celebrating your birthday even in your absence, you addressed one of the heads of that family as Aunty'.

Cake cutting by sona's family was seriously heart touching