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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wasn't it? That was such a weird coincidence. No?

Originally posted by: Rithu0203

So true, its sad to say Woman are their worst enemies... Even now it exists no matter how much you are educated...


By the way, i thought i heard wrongly when the lady addresses her grand son as Dev... But saw ur comment.. what a coincidence.. 😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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its hilarious -a bit exaggerated but still so true 🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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🤣 Just a suggestion on the expiry date.
Made the facebook and snapchat - whatever aunty says is correct - Congrats ! 🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have one more which I have shared earlier too. Have a look there as well Tia 🤣
[YOUTUBE]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N353bcxbous[/YOUTUBE]

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Posted: 8 years ago
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That was brilliant!!! Thanks for sharing. 🤣

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

I have one more which I have shared earlier too. Have a look there as well Tia 🤣

[YOUTUBE]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N353bcxbous[/YOUTUBE]

😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Amazing video, this girl is superwoman...Thanx for sharing
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Where does this men & women thing come from when we talk in context of Dev & Sonakshi
It's about different point of views & thoughts .. Some of us find Dev totally wrong .. Some find both of them wrong in this situation & there may be some who think sona is at the fault here ..
If I find Dev wrong here, I find him wrong as a person .. And I'm thinking as another person .. That's it !
But just because I'm a woman .. I'm not supposed to support & favour Sona
I may find her wrong and yet be a feminist ..

It's everybody's personal judgement & views .. We can find anyone right & anyone wrong .. It's not about a man or a woman..

I hope you understand & respect my take on this !

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Uhhh... I think you posted in the wrong post. This was not a post on man and woman. However, since you did, I agree with you. Just because you are a woman that doesn't mean you have to find a woman right every time just because she is a woman. Because Feminism means judging men and women on the same standard. After all Ishwari is a woman too and most of us don't think she is right.

If you have followed my post and our comment we blamed Sona for her situation over and over. So no, we don't think she is blameless. But we do feel pity for her because most of the situation she finds herself in is not in her control.

But Dev creates his situation. He is the cherished child, the adored prince. No one denies him anything, no one dares to go against his wishes, everyone's purpose in life is to make and keep him happy.

Even at poverty, he worked hard but if his mother had money for one shirt, he got it. If his mother had time and attention for one child, he got it. If his mother had love for one child, he got it. Believe it or not, for some people that's quite a priviledged life, just ask Neha.

But that exclusive love, attention and care made him an entitled and selfish person and a selfish person can't be a good life partner until they learn the concept of putting another person before themselves.

The definition of marriage is based on sharing. Sharing life, sharing body, sharing family, sharing past, present and future, sharing love, sharing personal property and sharing hopes and dreams.

A selfish person always puts them first as was proven last week. Their promises to others are worthless because their promise for happiness for self always comes first.

Again was proven in the past week.

They don't care who they hurt as long as the people who matter to them, the people to whom they have loyalty are satisfied. Ranveer found that out and soon Asha will find that out.

So you can like Dev regardless what he does, who he hurts or how selfish he gets or how many false promises he makes, that's your personal choice and hence none of my business.

But if you really think like a Feminist, then reverse the situation. Put Dev and Sona at Bijoy's house and put Sona in Dev's shoes and Dev in Sona's shoes and Bijoy in Ishwari's shoes and see if by reversing the gender makes what Dev did justifiable. Because Feminism is all about equality regardless of gender, not because of a certain gender...

Originally posted by: NN07

Where does this men & women thing come from when we talk in context of Dev & Sonakshi

It's about different point of views & thoughts .. Some of us find Dev totally wrong .. Some find both of them wrong in this situation & there may be some who think sona is at the fault here ..
If I find Dev wrong here, I find him wrong as a person .. And I'm thinking as another person .. That's it !
But just because I'm a woman .. I'm not supposed to support & favour Sona
I may find her wrong and yet be a feminist ..

It's everybody's personal judgement & views .. We can find anyone right & anyone wrong .. It's not about a man or a woman..

I hope you understand & respect my take on this !

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

<font size="3" color="#990066">Uhhh... I think you posted in the wrong post. This was not a post on man and woman. However, since you did, I agree with you. Just because you are a woman that doesn't mean you have to find a woman right every time just because she is a woman. Because Feminism means judging men and women on the same standard. After all Ishwari is a woman too and most of us don't think she is right.</font>

<font size="3" color="#990066">If you have followed my post and our comment we blamed Sona for her situation over and over. So no, we don't think she is blameless. But we do feel pity for her because most of the situation she finds herself in is not in her control.</font>

<font size="3" color="#990066">But Dev creates his situation. He is the cherished child, the adored prince. No one denies him anything, no one dares to go against his wishes, everyone's purpose in life is to make and keep him happy.</font>

<font size="3" color="#990066">Even at poverty, he worked hard but if his mother had money for one shirt, he got it. If his mother had time and attention for one child, he got it. If his mother had love for one child, he got it. Believe it or not, for some people that's quite a priviledged life, just ask Neha.</font>

<font size="3" color="#990066">But that exclusive love, attention and care made him an entitled and selfish person and a selfish person can't be a good life partner until they learn the concept of putting another person before themselves.</font>

<font size="3" color="#990066">The definition of marriage is based on sharing. Sharing life, sharing body, sharing family, sharing past, present and future, sharing love, sharing personal property and sharing hopes and dreams.</font>

<font size="3" color="#990066">A selfish person always puts them first as was proven last week. Their promises to others are worthless because their promise for happiness for self always comes first.</font>

<font size="3" color="#990066">Again was proven in the past week.</font>

<font size="3" color="#990066">They don't care who they hurt as long as the people who matter to them, the people to whom they have loyalty are satisfied. Ranveer found that out and soon Asha will find that out.</font>

<font size="3" color="#990066">So you can like Dev regardless what he does, who he hurts or how selfish he gets or how many false promises he makes, that's your personal choice and hence none of my business.</font>

<font size="3" color="#990066">But if you really think like a Feminist, then reverse the situation. Put Dev and Sona at Bijoy's house and put Sona in Dev's shoes and Dev in Sona's shoes and Bijoy in Ishwari's shoes and see if by reversing the gender makes what Dev did justifiable. Because Feminism is all about equality regardless of gender, not because of a certain gender...</font>




Tia- I have a treadmill smack in the middle of my living room, curtesy, my husband who makes me do my exercise while watching TV , working on my laptop , and my other favorite pastime like nagging him... secondly he does his exercise while watching cricket, working on his laptop, etc...
I was dead against the idea and I would keep hurting my foot. for about a week.

Now, I am used to it and someday if he were to remove it from its spot, I might feel good, but will feel bad about being so vocal of my displeasure and making him remove it...

there. I reversed role. sounds same in all gender.

The need for feminism is because it was mostly expected for women to adjust...
BTW, I do not find Sona right for putting her respect on a back burner and insulting all women kind 🤢
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Precisely!!! Thanks for the proof. It made my point. The point was not the swing, the point was simply making extravagant claims and never fulfilling them which has become Dev's trademark.

He makes big claims like Sonakshi's family is his family, she can turn his room into a jungle and he will be happy in her happiness, she doesn't need to keep asking him if he has issues with the swing as long as she is happy yada yada...

He has proved with his actions what his words are worth.

And as you proved that the moment situation is reversed, Dev's behaviour is obviously selfish.

So yes, that's exactly we need Feminists. Thanks.

Originally posted by: JShukla



Tia- I have a treadmill smack in the middle of my living room, curtesy, my husband who makes me do my exercise while watching TV , working on my laptop , and my other favorite pastime like nagging him... secondly he does his exercise while watching cricket, working on his laptop, etc...
I was dead against the idea and I would keep hurting my foot. for about a week.

Now, I am used to it and someday if he were to remove it from its spot, I might feel good, but will feel bad about being so vocal of my displeasure and making him remove it...

there. I reversed role. sounds same in all gender.

The need for feminism is because it was mostly expected for women to adjust...
BTW, I do not find Sona right for putting her respect on a back burner and insulting all women kind 🤢

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