Originally posted by: tia.o
<font size="3" color="#990066">Uhhh... I think you posted in the wrong post. This was not a post on man and woman. However, since you did, I agree with you. Just because you are a woman that doesn't mean you have to find a woman right every time just because she is a woman. Because Feminism means judging men and women on the same standard. After all Ishwari is a woman too and most of us don't think she is right.</font>
<font size="3" color="#990066">If you have followed my post and our comment we blamed Sona for her situation over and over. So no, we don't think she is blameless. But we do feel pity for her because most of the situation she finds herself in is not in her control.</font>
<font size="3" color="#990066">But Dev creates his situation. He is the cherished child, the adored prince. No one denies him anything, no one dares to go against his wishes, everyone's purpose in life is to make and keep him happy.</font>
<font size="3" color="#990066">Even at poverty, he worked hard but if his mother had money for one shirt, he got it. If his mother had time and attention for one child, he got it. If his mother had love for one child, he got it. Believe it or not, for some people that's quite a priviledged life, just ask Neha.</font>
<font size="3" color="#990066">But that exclusive love, attention and care made him an entitled and selfish person and a selfish person can't be a good life partner until they learn the concept of putting another person before themselves.</font>
<font size="3" color="#990066">The definition of marriage is based on sharing. Sharing life, sharing body, sharing family, sharing past, present and future, sharing love, sharing personal property and sharing hopes and dreams.</font>
<font size="3" color="#990066">A selfish person always puts them first as was proven last week. Their promises to others are worthless because their promise for happiness for self always comes first.</font>
<font size="3" color="#990066">Again was proven in the past week.</font>
<font size="3" color="#990066">They don't care who they hurt as long as the people who matter to them, the people to whom they have loyalty are satisfied. Ranveer found that out and soon Asha will find that out.</font>
<font size="3" color="#990066">So you can like Dev regardless what he does, who he hurts or how selfish he gets or how many false promises he makes, that's your personal choice and hence none of my business.</font>
<font size="3" color="#990066">But if you really think like a Feminist, then reverse the situation. Put Dev and Sona at Bijoy's house and put Sona in Dev's shoes and Dev in Sona's shoes and Bijoy in Ishwari's shoes and see if by reversing the gender makes what Dev did justifiable. Because Feminism is all about equality regardless of gender, not because of a certain gender...</font>