Dev...a manipulative fake person - Page 2

Really ?Doesnt this apply to Sonakshi as well ?Adjustment has to happen from both the side not just from one person .

What do you call a person who controls her husband 'as life so much that he is not allowed to buy anything nor is allowed to take other help for managing his clothes .Imagine if Dev had done this to sonakshi would you support him ?

Dev has accepted Sonakshi the way she is ..she doesn't expect her to cook clean and manage the home .

Why are we overlooking the mistakes of Sonakshi ,she is hiding everything from him Saurabh issue ,Vicky issue and her new business venture .Does she consider him as her family then why should he ?

If Sonakshi deserves better than so does Dev.

P.S Sorry if I sounded rude

Originally posted by: yyy

Really ?Doesnt this apply to Sonakshi as well ?Adjustment has to happen from both the side not just from one person .

What do you call a person who controls her husband 'as life so much that he is not allowed to buy anything nor is allowed to take other help for managing his clothes .Imagine if Dev had done this to sonakshi would you support him ?

Dev has accepted Sonakshi the way she is ..she doesn't expect her to cook clean and manage the home .

Why are we overlooking the mistakes of Sonakshi ,she is hiding everything from him Saurabh issue ,Vicky issue and her new business venture .Does she consider him as her family then why should he ?

If Sonakshi deserves better than so does Dev.

P.S Sorry if I sounded rude

I would say Sona is teaching Dev "How to communicate"... with this jhoola thing or asking him to sort out the wardrobe...

Sona is more than perfect and Dev doesnt deserve her even if she is half good as she is... that being said. i would say sona also married dev out of her own stupidity and dreaming abt fairytale love story etc..
This is the first time , Dev is making any adjustments for sona... until now Sona was the only one trying and adjusting...

Sona doesnt want ishwari to invade their private space in the name of straightening Dev's clothes... please understand, I am sure all the clothes would have already ironed, folded and kept in place by kichu bhaiyya after laundry... But the problem here is Dev doesnt even know how to find a shirt with out emptying the whole wardrobe... So his mom needs to constantly straighten it for him..
First Dev needs to know where each of item is kept in the cupboard, and that he will know only if He keeps it there himself...

The clothes he gave to Ishwari to fold are not something that came out of laundry, ,, they came out of his closet in that way as he kept throwing them out trying to find something... so he needs to learn how to fold them... it is a very important thing and every husband and boy needs to learn...

Sona is actually acting like his mother and teaching him how to be independent - unlike ishwari who failed to do that.

PS: until sonakshi feels like dixits and Dev have accepted her as their own, there is no need for her to share any Bose family problems... it is very clear from last 3 episodes, that it is not only Dixits have not accepted Sona,,, even Dev has not accepted Sona and her family as his own.. so the question of demanding that sona did not share the info is just not a big deal anymore as it doesnt impact Dev or his family.

Originally posted by: dlavanya

I would say Sona is teaching Dev "How to communicate"... with this jhoola thing or asking him to sort out the wardrobe...

Sona is more than perfect and Dev doesnt deserve her even if she is half good as she is... that being said. i would say sona also married dev out of her own stupidity and dreaming abt fairytale love story etc..
This is the first time , Dev is making any adjustments for sona... until now Sona was the only one trying and adjusting...

Sona doesnt want ishwari to invade their private space in the name of straightening Dev's clothes... please understand, I am sure all the clothes would have already ironed, folded and kept in place by kichu bhaiyya after laundry... But the problem here is Dev doesnt even know how to find a shirt with out emptying the whole wardrobe... So his mom needs to constantly straighten it for him..
First Dev needs to know where each of item is kept in the cupboard, and that he will know only if He keeps it there himself...

The clothes he gave to Ishwari to fold are not something that came out of laundry, ,, they came out of his closet in that way as he kept throwing them out trying to find something... so he needs to learn how to fold them... it is a very important thing and every husband and boy needs to learn...

Sona is actually acting like his mother and teaching him how to be independent - unlike ishwari who failed to do that.

PS: until sonakshi feels like dixits and Dev have accepted her as their own, there is no need for her to share any Bose family problems... it is very clear from last 3 episodes, that it is not only Dixits have not accepted Sona,,, even Dev has not accepted Sona and her family as his own.. so the question of demanding that sona did not share the info is just not a big deal anymore as it doesnt impact Dev or his family.

I respect your PoV but disagree that Sonakshi is perfect and Dev is not worthy of her .I have seen her commit same mistakes as Dev and if she thinks she is better than Dev then she should just divorce him .I am sure there are many girls who are better than her and would be happy to marry Dev.

Regarding hiding then the same argument holds good for him too unless he feels she has accepted him whole heartedly and is capable of understanding him he can keep her way from his family problems .So she feels as an outsider so she keeps him away from Bose family problem but she expects him to share everything even after making him feel like an outsider .Its double standards

If Sonakshi is right in hiding things from him then I guess him going to his mom for everything is right too

Originally posted by: yyy

I respect your PoV but disagree that Sonakshi is perfect and Dev is not worthy of her .I have seen her commit same mistakes as Dev and if she thinks she is better than Dev then she should just divorce him .I am sure there are many girls who are better than her and would be happy to marry Dev.

Regarding hiding then the same argument holds good for him too unless he feels she has accepted him whole heartedly and is capable of understanding him he can keep her way from his family problems .So she feels as an outsider so she keeps him away from Bose family problem but she expects him to share everything even after making him feel like an outsider .Its double standards

If Sonakshi is right in hiding things from him then I guess him going to his mom for everything is right too

good... sonas mistakes are mistakes...these happen in a relationships.and can be resolved by communication... But what Dev is doing are blunders .He knows he is wrong and still doing them and lying about it... atleast sona is not lying...these cant be easily forgiven... if Dev thinks Sona doesnt deserve him (for what ever reasons god knows.. i cant think of one)... then he can let her go...

Originally posted by: dlavanya

good... sonas mistakes are mistakes...these happen in a relationships.and can be resolved by communication... But what Dev is doing are blunders .He knows he is wrong and still doing them and lying about it... atleast sona is not lying...these cant be easily forgiven... if Dev thinks Sona doesnt deserve him (for what ever reasons god knows.. i cant think of one)... then he can let her go...

She was at her home today but when asked she said she got late or came home directly from work isn't this lying .Its more than communication issue she is clearly hiding things from him .If we can be considerate to understand Sona real reason behind her mistakes then Dev deserves the same treatment too .Not liking a swing or not wanting to take care of his clothes or liking a simple decor doesn't look like a blunder to me .Its personal choice .If you are referring to calling Aunty then it's a different issue and that cannot be used to justify Sona's mistake or flaws .Two wrongs never make a right

If we had seen Ishwari encouraging DEv to train Sonakshi so that she can learn DIxit family tradition then I would not have supported that thought similarly I won't support her idea of training him to suit his needs .

I supported when she wanted a swing in her room but expected her to keep his liking in mind too .i will support her when Ishwari will throw the swing out without talking to Dev or Sona but will not support her when she will forces her opinion on Dev and pressurize him to follow her advise on how to lead a life .

The day Sona will stop eating food cooked by kichu or Ishwari and will stop using maid's help for cleaning her room or washing her clothes then I will agree that she is practicing what she preaches .The real issue is not being independent or not but its something else.

He is gr8 manipulative while working at his home he observed that she is the only one who cares for his ma nd don't speak back to RR. Seedhi Saadi ladki.He is not fool that he lives in society he must have seen that how DIL treat with MIL. Remember his shadi nhi karunga fb of 8 yrs old. He is assured that she would treat his mom like queen.not like natasha who have millionaire father would not give ounce of respect to ishwari if she do whatever she is doing to sona. He assured that she can bear his mother's insecurities. So he married her

Originally posted by: Mona4u

After watching today's episode, I so wish Sona never got married to Dev. He doesn't deserve her in fact he doesn't deserve any girl. Dev is coming out to be selfish person who just needs Sona for himself as a thing - whom he can play with or make love to. He doesn't want her to become a part of his life or his family. Just play with her when he wants and see her as a piece of furniture with no emotions.

He does not want any changes in life nor he wants to adept to any changes Sona is making for their betterment. Marriage is all about compromise and adjustments but this Maa-Beta duo feels as if they are some unique kind of people and so proud of their so called suffocating love. They think that they are meant for each other and no one can understand their love. Initially I felt it was an unhealthy relationship from only Ishwari's side but no it is from both sides.

Dev's character is turning out to be as a spineless false person. He manipulates Sona's emotions the way he feels like. He just wants her in his life and when he sees Sona is unhappy or going away from her, he conveniently lies and makes false promises as a temporary solution but never sticks to them. Once the problem is over, he is back to square one to his old ways with 0% change in his behavior.

I so wish Sona leaves him and doesn't get back to Dev unless CV's show a proper real redemption of his character.