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Posted: 8 years ago
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It's getting on my nerves now ..
This jhoola !
Bringing the jhoola was totally fine .. But it's getting a little too much now
Decorating it with dupattas .. And now those bright lights on it
Sona likes such things that's okay
But shouldn't she keep in mind whether Dev likes it or not ..

It's their room right .. So it can't be exactly same as Sona's room before marriage .. She should consider Dev's preferences too while doing the room makeover !

To be honest, even I would get annoyed if somebody put dupattas & lights on a jhoola in my room .. So I didn't find Dev's reaction strange ..
That's pretty normal I guess !

But but.. Why can't dev just speak up .. What's wrong with him .. He can make her understand na .. Instead of those silly excuses.. He can actually talk to Sona that he's not enjoying this

Just my pov!!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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But he was angry and uncomfortable when it was kept just like that
Basically ishu and dev have problem with any change ...may it be jhoola with lights or no lights..😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..natasha..

But he was angry and uncomfortable when it was kept just like that

Basically ishu and dev have problem with any change ...may it be jhoola with lights or no lights..😆

Arey but that's okay
Sabko prob hoti hai to adjust to new things
But he can atleast speak up 😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Honestly this jhoola is getting on my nerves and everyday there is something or other related to it. Sona has already got a hint that Dev is not as much excited as her for this jhoola. Although i find that dim lights thought useful as jhoola will be visible at night and it can prevent accidents.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Same here make those many changes that too on jhoola...
It's understandable that that's her childhood dream but now she cant do like that.. as she has to keep in mind that even Dev stays in that room..and whole week on jhoola.. that's too much
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev could have openly talked it wid sona dear but he didn't he acted as if he was ok and ready to do change for sake of her heartily which i dont think so ,he was doing it forcefully.
When we do something heartily our patience never breaks when do it forcefully a point comes when our patience breaks down.which happened wid dev.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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it is symbolic... Sona is that Jhoola... when the jhoola came everyone thought that it is just furniture they will adjust and it is fine.. The moment the Jhoola actuallystarted gaining limelight and iits presence is actually becoming more and more evident --Ishwari and Dev are both affected by it... and now they are getting rid of it...

Just like they will get rid of sona one day...when she questions the mom-son duo... I think it is a very important track to show sona exactly where she stands -- she has two options - run as far as she can or put her foot down and make dixits pay for their behaviour

it is all in Sona's hands now
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dlavanya

it is symbolic... Sona is that Jhoola... when the jhoola came everyone thought that it is just furniture they will adjust and it is fine.. The moment the Jhoola actuallystarted gaining limelight and iits presence is actually becoming more and more evident --Ishwari and Dev are both affected by it... and now they are getting rid of it...

Just like they will get rid of sona one day...when she questions the mom-son duo... I think it is a very important track to show sona exactly where she stands -- she has two options - run as far as she can or put her foot down and make dixits pay for their behaviour

it is all in Sona's hands now

Dev never thought she was a furniture .. And he's just annoyed and confused as this is very new to him .. He has never adjusted to these things earlier because of his mom who never let him do anything
So it's normal to act like this ..
Sona will help him & everything will be fine .. Cz they both have to adjust afterall
And regarding Ishwari .. It's better not to say anything !
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sowiee

Same here make those many changes that too on jhoola...

It's understandable that that's her childhood dream but now she cant do like that.. as she has to keep in mind that even Dev stays in that room..and whole week on jhoola.. that's too much

Exactly !
It's dev's room too !
And who likes dupattas & lights in the room 🤢
Uufh ! Too much to handle
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Posted: 8 years ago
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We all r sympathising with sona but MISS.BOSS Y CAN'T BE ALWAYS RIGHT.
1. Jhoola is in appropriate place it's constantly hurting ur dear husband and u r not bother about its position or space in room.
2. Chores to be done by Dev- I think not being patriarchal but the things should be areanged by sona. Dev have no time nd idea to do these small things. Being a working woman if it's not to be handled by you what is the problem of taking help of ur MIL and moreover she is happy with it. In most households having working DIL it's the system only. If u don't like ur MIL's interference and u want to be independent and capable to do than take ur husband's responsibility too. Don't say me apna kaam karungi wo apna kaam karenge
3. Not telling about business venture especially to dev.

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