Kuch Kuch hota hai, Sonakshi... Tum nahi samjhoge! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Jade0001

Kuch Kuch hota hai, Sonakshi... Tum nahi samjhoge!

Originally posted by: tia.o

Sonakshi's approach may be wrong, but we can't expect an independant woman to sit and follow Dixit's example of complaining about everything and doing nothing.

Originally posted by: dsr11

Hilarious on the surface but very meaningful post

No matter how considerate Sona is about Neha or how inconvenient she is because of Neha's life spilling into hers, I could neither comprehend nor compliment Sona for playing peace ambassador from the Dixit camp and going directly to Ranveer's house all by herself. The life that is right for her may not be right for someone else.

I have read a lot of personal stories here, but my own personal experience tells me that the way Dixits are handling the matters of past is stupid. My grandparents were poor, but they educated all their kids, my dad and his three sisters equally. Education is free in government schools! My dad's older sister became a teacher and my dad secured a government job. The older sister and my dad got married. One younger sister, who didn't do well in her academics, was married off, but my dad helped her husband get a government job. The other younger sister was also having trouble passing some exam so my father brought her to our home( by that time me and my brother were school going kids). He trained her to pass the exams and secure a government job for herself. My dad voluntarily took the responsibility upon himself, but was not burdened.

I don't buy Eeshwari's claim that she had to chose Dev over Neha to lift them out of poverty. Basic education is free in India. It's just her over ambitiousness that made her choose one kid over the other. Neha and Dev are byproducts of her over ambitiousness. Even if she had to make tough choices, it's about time they stop picking at the past wounds and think about future. But Eeshwari won't do that because she is a hero in the past. She is a single mother who made Dev. She would never let Dev forget that. But Neha always reminds her of her faults, so she is letting her hog some of her heroic glory as someone who also sacrificed for Dev. Basically, it's always about her image in people's eyes that Eeshwari cares.

Originally posted by: tia.o

Sona wants to be happy. But how can she be happy when everyone is walking around with hangdog expression? Not only that, Neha's unhappiness is making Dev unhappy.

A woman can mind her business until it reaches her husband, then it's her business.

Was her approach right? I don't think so.

I'd have made it clear that I will keep out of your problem if I don't have to hear about it. I don't want to hear you moaning, groaning, whining, pining or moping around nor I want my life disrupted in any way.

If someone (say my husband and mother-in-law) asked me to stay out of their problem because "Tum nehin samjhogi", my statement would be that if I won't understand, then don't expect any understanding from me for my honeymoon plan being cancelled.

If I won't understand the problem, why should I understand the aftermath? That's ridiculous. Either I understand nothing or I understand everything.

Yesterday Sona spoke in joke, but I saw her frustration when she said that she can never be part of Dev's family.

Nothing, in my opinion, is as painful as the feeling of being trapped or helpless to do anything to change the situation around you, yet having to put up with whatever consequences are forced on you.

There were comments on how Sona should give Dev's family time to accept her. True, it takes time to adjust to a new member. But isn't it funny that it doesn't take nearly as much time to insult someone as it takes to accept the same person?

No one expects new in-laws to love the new bride, but at least they can treat her with respect.

If someone is wrong, you can scold that person. But name calling is not only insulting to someone's respect but also dignity.

But everyone goes deaf when it's directed towards the new bride.

Sonakshi's approach may be wrong, but we can't expect an independant woman to sit and follow Dixit's example of complaining about everything and doing nothing.

Originally posted by: randomramblings

love this post.

i wish sona does a little introspection before speaking volumes about love and family support,what a family is all about and blah blah blah.

1. when dev got u terminated, did you discuss the issue with your family? why could you not sit together with your family and wade through it. Was it that you never treated ur family as a family, and that's why you kept things to yourself?

2. During the phase when Dev broke up with you, why is that neither your parents nor your siblings,try to reach out to Dev, ask him to re consider? wasn't that it was ur life here and yes as someone who loves and cares for you , weren't they supposed to chip in?

just like you wanted to know how ranveer's family might be interested in saving the relationship, shouldn't the members of your family try and see if there is any one in Dev's family who would have wanted your relationship to survive?

for all those who are bashing at Dixits saying they are no normal family, tell me are the Boses an ideal family?

1. Tell me which father humiliates his son to the extent that Bijoy treats saurav?

2. Asha no doubt is a great mother, but why does she not correct bijoy when he insults dada to the point that it breaks his self esteem?

3, Dadi may be super cute, but does she really behave her age. Does she ever correct bijoy , sona or even saurav and make them understand their mistakes using her experience?

4. Does elina ever respect the personal space ? she doesn't pay heed to any of saurav's constant cautions but will be always ready to give free gyan to every body else.

5. the most important one, why is sona not coming clean with Dev on the actual reason for resuming the job??? doesn't Dev deserve to know the financial crisis at boses family?

Dear Sona, if you need an orientation class before coming into Dixit family, so does anyone else who comes into a bose family. Just because you love your family and have been with them for ages, doesn't mean you can ridicule another family.

kisi aur ki life banane se phele apni life ko sudharo!!!

Originally posted by: fanktlk

Not justifying merely clarifying. Dev was sent to an expensive school so Ishwari needed money. She worked long hours and needed someone to take care of her younger 2 daughters. Thereby forcing Neha to become the surrogate .

I always wonder why Mami didn't take care of the 2 kids. If she had then Neha could have gone to school.

Originally posted by: DevakshiCrazy

kuch kuch nahi bohot kuch hota hai
Par kya karen cv's nahi samjhenge

Originally posted by: gmgi

PP loved this post. I understand that you are frustrated with Sona for digging her own grave. Ideally she should just play the trigger or set off the things in motion by making the players come out to the ground. But here I really can't fault with her for what she is doing. Her attempts are backfiring because of the difference in family dynamics and she will get there. I just don't want her to get burned in the process.

@ Tia agree with you completely. Beautifully written👏