My view on Sona's role in Neha's mess

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Don't bash me for this. But it is my POV. I think Sonakshi is pushing herself too much into Neha's mess. I think it is too easy for us to say that Sonakshi is part of the family and she should be allowed to but it does not happen like that in real life too. I think it's a human tendency, you don't like anybody in husband's family or vice vera (MIL, brother-law or sis-in-law) even after so many years of marriage telling you what is right or wrong even if they are genuinely correct. It's like who are they to tell me. If the same thing comes from mom, dad, sis or brother is more acceptable, its ego which comes out unintentionally even though you are a good person, good at heart. I think Sona is so new to this family and it's normal for Neha to think who is she to tell me what is right or wrong. In this case Neha is not listening to anybody but Neha might not feel offended or sad if the same thing comes from her mom, sisters or brother. People like Neha will listen and speak up their feelings to only an outsider who is not related with current situation in life.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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very well said. Even if there are issues, its only Neha and Ranveer who can sort it out.
Also, we have tendency to listen to someone whom we regard really high in respect and value their opinion

Here Neha doesnt think Sona that way (atleast now). so all of her advise and options will be down the drain.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes Sona is interfering little more .If she want to interfere then she should take Dev in her confidence.As a married lady , this is my take on this situation.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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very apt. No matter how much the issue affects Sona's personal life with Dev she has no right what so ever to poke her nose in Neha's matter. Its Neha and Ranveer and only them who have a right to decide their choices. ITS THEIR LIFE and they have a right to live as per their choices.

if neha's issue is bothering both Dev and Sona, then they need to ensure that it does not encroach their personal space. In this regard, the garden scene where Dev is shown romancing with Sona shows that Dev is conscious as well as cautious to not let Neha affect his bonding with Sona. Even after the deathly glares from neha , he resumes what he is doing and there is NO REMORSE what so ever in his expression. same applies to Sona, she should not be guilty of being happy in her married life.
the HM might have been cancelled but it was not due to Neha, it was more on Ishwari getting affected by the issue and expecting DEV to resolve it. As Dev already said, Ishwari is the FIRST MOST IMPORTANT woman in his life and Sona is the SECOND.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: jlch

Don't bash me for this. But it is my POV. I think Sonakshi
is pushing herself too much into Neha's mess. I think it is too easy for us to
say that Sonakshi is part of the family and she should be allowed to but it
does not happen like that in real life too. I think it's a human tendency, you don't
like anybody in husband's family or vice vera (MIL, brother-law or sis-in-law)
even after so many years of marriage telling you what is right or wrong even if
they are genuinely correct. It's like
who are they to tell me. If the same
thing comes from mom, dad, sis or brother is more acceptable, its ego which
comes out unintentionally even though you are a good person, good at heart. I
think Sona is so new to this family and it's normal for Neha to think who is
she to tell me what is right or wrong. In
this case Neha is not listening to anybody but Neha might not feel offended or
sad if the same thing comes from her mom, sisters or brother. People like Neha
will listen and speak up their feelings to only an outsider who is not related with
current situation in life.





Yes! Agree with you... she's pushing herself above the limit to patch up...
I think first sona should understand neha little more or her relationship with ranveer before taking any mice

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