You are correct. After marriage everything belongs to husband and wife. So answer me these questions if you can.
1. According to your definition, the business is as much Sona's as Dev's. How dare he take decisions to give Vicky higher post without Sonakshi's decision? And if he can do it, then Sonakshi can also appoint her brother as Managing Director of Dev's company without talking to Dev after all after marriage everything belongs to husband and wife. Why just take the problem, she should take the benefits too.
2. If a husband and wife's relationship changes around family that relationship is neither honest nor strong. A husband and wife's love, support and care for each other should not even change before God, let alone humans. That is the meaning of being two body one soul which we call marriage.
Now tell me, in a regular life, who do we take decisions for without their consent?
Do we take decisions for our parents without their consent?
Do we take decisions for our adult siblings without their consent?
Do we take decisions for our friends without their consent?
No. We only take decisions for people we think are NOT our equal or the people we take for granted.
And when a husband and wife starts to take each other for granted, the relationship is no longer an equal relationship.
3. A partner, be it a business, be it team, or life, always take decisions jointly unless the other partner a. Is not present or b. Mentally unstable or c. under age. When one person takes all decisions on someone else's behalf in their presence and when they are mentally stable and an adult without discussing with them, then that person is boss or leader, not an equal partner.
Marriage means joining one's life with another, not giving up using one's brain or decision making capabilities.
Nothing gives anyone a right to make decisions on someone else's life without their permission, not even love.
Dev knew how excited Sonakshi was about their trip, yet he took a decision on his own to cancel that trip without discussing it with her and you are saying that he didn't hurt her purposely? What else would you call hurting with purpose if not doing something without their consent knowing that it will hurt them?
He could have discussed it with Sona. Maybe she'd come to the same conclusion. But he again took a decision without her consent and this is not the first time. When someone makes a mistake once, that's a mistake. But when the same mistake is repeated over and over, it becomes character flaw...
Originally posted by: sjain
Dev is no ruler okay..
and after marriage..everything belongs to a couple not just to husband or wife..so if Dev has a problem then they are equally Sonakshi's and if Sonakshi has then its equally Dev's..
their nothing like owner or anything dont use such absurd words..please
yes decisions are shared too and if one of the 2 takes decision on its own then that doesnt mean the other one is slave/naukar/gulam ..its part and parcel of life
decisions can be wrong or right ..that's different point..both have their limitations and they wont ever hurt each other purposely its when u have other people around, family around..you succumb to many thing many times and these are like tests of life..when situation gets difficult nd tough decisions hard compromises are made
They both wanted to go thry both were excited they both had plans fantasies dreams and also they both are not at fault
Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago
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