Am I the only one who felt bad for Ishwari today? - Page 5

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Posted: 8 years ago
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in this scenario i feel absolutely nothing for ishwari..this is the consequence of her selfish and insecure act..she has gone beyond limits to hurt sona and keep her away from her husband without even a thought about the girl or her feelings...and i am happy her own daughter suggested this...and true if truth was told she would have fainted right at the door as soon as dev and sona were all set to go just like the honeymoon scenario making dev so so guilty of wanting to be happy with sona...so no not even a bit of pity or sadness i feel for her at present...

and as someone said i could do without her ho ho ho music for a few episodes...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: cool2605

I know Dev didn't lie to Ishwari but show started with unspoken understanding between mother and son...its hard for a Mom to accept that his son lie...but Sonakshi did lie today to Ishwari. She could have confided in her and then gone out...Ishwari has all rights to feel deceived.












Ishwari has been manipulating Dev-Sona for so long,just to keep them away,Is it fair? No, they are married and they have all the rights to spend time together. I am sure if they had said the truth,she would have definitely stopped them to go outside by emotionally manipulating them.😕
No, I am not feeling bad for her but yes I felt bad that Sona lied that to saying about Mamaji who doesn't' even exist, Ishwari will find another reason to make Dev-Sona feel guilty about it and may give lecture to them about naya/purane rishte. 🥱
Still,I am happy that Sona took the initiative and it was so necessary as after their wedding either they were following the rituals/fast or fighting because of family issues!I loved the way how Sona arranged a special night to surprise Dev,who has always been a giver and this gesture from his wife gave him extreme happiness! 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sorry I didn't feel bad at all. I'm actually glad they lied cause ishwari is so Jealous and they are newly married and can't even spend time together.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#44
After all her tactics to keep Dev-Sona apart , i have zilch sympathy for her . 👎🏼
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: cool2605

I know Dev didn't lie to Ishwari but show started with unspoken understanding between mother and son...its hard for a Mom to accept that his son lie...but Sonakshi did lie today to Ishwari. She could have confided in her and then gone out...Ishwari has all rights to feel deceived.


Did Sona have a choice no she had none does Ishwari give her son and DIL alone time no she does not so its clear that Sona had to lie just to spend alone time with her husband
had Ishwari known the truth do you think she would allow her son some happiness never
you think Ishwari feels deceived is she as a mother not deceiving her son on a constant basis
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Devakshilover


and what about when Ishwari lied to dev about the prenup and she hid the fact that sona was waiting for dev and it was she who sent sona upstairs

Iswari is a habitual liar. Dev also lies. But Sona is against lie by principle.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am copying & pasting my response from Push-pull post. I did not feel bad for Ishwari at all. As a parent she needs to understand that when she restricts her children ( Sona included) with too many house rules then out of suffocation they will resort to lies. She is a role model, a mother figure for Sona, and she was the one who set an example of lying to Dadi bua about her cooking on the 2nd day of wedding. If she thinks it was a white lie and it did not harm anyone then what Sona told her yesterday was also the same - a lie which was a surprise getaway for her husband, and it should not be hurting anyone's feelings. It's up to Ishwari to decide if she wants to make it a big issue and create a drama or let it go. We know what she is going to do.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ok yes i did feel bad for ishwari's condition.. I could understand what she must be going through and it is very tough for her. I pity her that she found herself in this situation.her situation is only due to her inability to find happiness in anything that does not involve DEV.

From childhood both dev and ishwari had his exclusive deep bonding that they didnt have with anyone else.. They both have nourished it over their lifetime but since dev is young he could easily find another person who he could love as much as his mom..and his time and priorities have split between the two now. But ishwari is way beyond that age where she can easily establish deep bonds and find other means to spend her time when dev is with his wife..also everytime dev tries to spend time exclusively with his wife, ishwari drags him down so that she doesnt lose the time she has been entitled to her whole life.

This is where she would need intervention and only dev and sona can help her . They need to introduce new bonds to ishwari - bonding with the sisters and sona. Until this happens we will find ishwari in this very pitiable situation several times.

Hope that is what this show will give to viewers..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes you are minority.Not at all . She has three other daughters who she doesn't care much . She is not alone in the house . For god sake go and talk to you daughters and spend time with them and leave the newlyweds alone.poor neha has been left alone . Why so possessive with dev and always wanting to spend time . Sona also wishes to spend time . It doesn't matter to the mahan ish .in short no empathy for her
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Posted: 8 years ago
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She feeling cheated is fair enough ..but some things are learned in a tough way ..and this might be the beggning for her..she needs to come out of the cage she is confined in it..then only she will be able to face the truth real world..As long as she will stay in her shell its gonna be much more difficult to come out of it..
Lieing is bad ..Ideally they shoulnt have or rather Sona shouldn't have done that but probably she too is unaware of the problem of Ishwari nd probably thought like how her parents wont mind a small lie , she too wont but the gravity of situation is much diffrent nd difgicult then she can think so yeah this will be a lesson for Sona too nd will make her one step closer in knowing Ishwari's emotions and issues
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