Dev..u r indeed a difficult man to deal with

I'm nt happy with Dev today ..y ? Firstly...nt bocz he cut her calls , nt bcoz he again fought with her but he slept in the hall leaving his sad wife in his bed room. He broke that night rule & gave opportunity for others to taunt sona unnecessarily. Watever happens between a husband & wife shud b kept with in the 4 walls of the bedroom but never let it go outside, no matter wat. ( i'm happily ...[is it ?? ha ha yes but with arguments, fights, patch ups , confussions, lovey dowey moments everything ] married for the last 16 yrs & the only thing i demanded to my husband that watever happens between us will stay with us only..no involvement of 3rd parties..touchwood ..so far so good )

completely agree. There are some unsaid rules in a marriage and one of them is never to involve a third person in their relationship and never to give any impression that there is discord between them to a third person. it is difficult, but one of the fundamentals that i would teach any newly married couple to diligently follow.

the whole episode was about dev's insensitivities, at least to me. He never, even for a moment, realised that Sona would not sleep without him. Just as he has told Sona that he is a difficult man to deal with, he must also realise that Sona too is not an easy woman to deal with. He has seen her intimately over time and how she has turned so caring for him with time. Today, she cares only about him and what will impact him and his well being. But he does not see it that way. To him, somewhere in his mind, she is still the "outsider" because his mother has drilled it into him. The day he wakes up to this new reality that She is him and He is her, better wisdom will prevail. Till then i guess we have to enjoy ( or put up with) these sequences.

Originally posted by: pkbdas61

completely agree. There are some unsaid rules in a marriage and one of them is never to involve a third person in their relationship and never to give any impression that there is discord between them to a third person. it is difficult, but one of the fundamentals that i would teach any newly married couple to diligently follow.

the whole episode was about dev's insensitivities, at least to me. He never, even for a moment, realised that Sona would not sleep without him. Just as he has told Sona that he is a difficult man to deal with, he must also realise that Sona too is not an easy woman to deal with. He has seen her intimately over time and how she has turned so caring for him with time. Today, she cares only about him and what will impact him and his well being. But he does not see it that way. To him, somewhere in his mind, she is still the "outsider" because his mother has drilled it into him. The day he wakes up to this new reality that She is him and He is her, better wisdom will prevail. Till then i guess we have to enjoy ( or put up with) these sequences.