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Posted: 8 years ago
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Why was there no engagement?
Weren't Bose family throwing a big engagement party for Sona and Ritik then how come when it came to Dev and Sona there was no engagement? No courtship period where two families (specially in inter-cultural marriages) use this time to learn about each other's cultures, limits and gain understandings...why was all of this not shown at all?

Is this show finite show and they have limited number of episodes? Or because so much had happened between Sona and Dev that they thought getting them married in a hurry is the best way to go? We can clearly see how Bijoy needed time to adjust and respect Dev and his family again. Dev and Sona could have used some time for romancing each other openly.

And lets come to extremely rude, obnoxious, and annoying Dadi bua/Bua Saas. Hmm so when Ishwari was left alone after her husband's death with 4 kids where was this Bua saas? Why did she not give Ishwari a shelter and how come all of sudden here she comes and Ishwari is all Bua saas is best?

We had a negative/faltu drama creator already...GKB then why oh why was Dadi bua needed? So GKB gets company?? So there could be more negativity in the show?

And yes as some members have said, real life is not always so dramatic and so full of negativity...specially in a wedding or any celebration..people tend to enjoy these moments as everyone is looking for happiness. And even when people find things different or strange they don't say it out loud!! They whisper or keep it to talk about it later or use it for great gossip sessions but not right then and there interrupting the rituals. 😡

So why all this rush about getting them married without giving us happy/romantic moments? There was no engagement, no time in between, no proper phera sequence, no reception, and no fully fun filled ring game...and looks like there's more negativity lined up as Ishwari faints and all blame will be put on Sona and her family for food arrangements.

P.S. GKB has crossed limits...when she indirectly told her son to rape Elena. And all the things she is doing everyone knows that she is unnecessarily doing so but no one except mamaji says anything.

In all of this Thank God Mamaji found himself again, and has been the calming and understanding situations and taking care of things. 👏

Sorry I just couldn't understand why, so I had to write it all down here...Thank you for reading. 😳

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nice post...
Exactly what's the need to show everything in single episode. I feel olvs are better than original episode. They rushed with devakshi scenes & sona didn't have a single dialogue in 42 min episode.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: nai1311_ysp

Nice post...
Exactly what's the need to show everything in single episode. I feel olvs are better than original episode. They rushed with devakshi scenes & sona didn't have a single dialogue in 42 min episode.


Thanks for replying. 😳

Yeah that was very shocking that except of lead - Dev and Sonakshi everyone else had dialogues.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: KyunkiImafan

Why was there no engagement?

Weren't Bose family throwing a big engagement party for Sona and Ritik then how come when it came to Dev and Sona there was no engagement? No courtship period where two families (specially in inter-cultural marriages) use this time to learn about each other's cultures, limits and gain understandings...why was all of this not shown at all?

Is this show finite show and they have limited number of episodes? Or because so much had happened between Sona and Dev that they thought getting them married in a hurry is the best way to go? We can clearly see how Bijoy needed time to adjust and respect Dev and his family again. Dev and Sona could have used some time for romancing each other openly.

And lets come to extremely rude, obnoxious, and annoying Dadi bua/Bua Saas. Hmm so when Ishwari was left alone after her husband's death with 4 kids where was this Bua saas? Why did she not give Ishwari a shelter and how come all of sudden here she comes and Ishwari is all Bua saas is best?

We had a negative/faltu drama creator already...GKB then why oh why was Dadi bua needed? So GKB gets company?? So there could be more negativity in the show?

And yes as some members have said, real life is not always so dramatic and so full of negativity...specially in a wedding or any celebration..people tend to enjoy these moments as everyone is looking for happiness. And even when people find things different or strange they don't say it out loud!! They whisper or keep it to talk about it later or use it for great gossip sessions but not right then and there interrupting the rituals. 😡

So why all this rush about getting them married without giving us happy/romantic moments? There was no engagement, no time in between, no proper phera sequence, no reception, and no fully fun filled ring game...and looks like there's more negativity lined up as Ishwari faints and all blame will be put on Sona and her family for food arrangements.

P.S. GKB has crossed limits...when she indirectly told her son to rape Elena. And all the things she is doing everyone knows that she is unnecessarily doing so but no one except mamaji says anything.

In all of this Thank God Mamaji found himself again, and has been the calming and understanding situations and taking care of things. 👏

Sorry I just couldn't understand why, so I had to write it all down here...Thank you for reading. 😳


Wonderful post ...all of us are of the same opinion...I watch for Dev and Sona...I these days watch only their scenes and switch channels when the negative part comes...the rest of the story I read on line...😡 If they are going to bring down the screen space of our lead couple then I will stop watching and read post from our forum...😉

The answer to your question why they have moved away from the matured story I personally think it is for TRP
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Wonderful post ...all of us are of the same opinion...I watch for Dev and Sona...I these days watch only their scenes and switch channels when the negative part comes...the rest of the story I read on line...😡 If they are going to bring down the screen space of our lead couple then I will stop watching and read post from our forum...😉

The answer to your question why they have moved away from the matured story I personally think it is for TRP


Thank you for replying. 😊 Yup I do the same.

Hmm for TRP...you know what gets me is before there were shows that had somewhat of balance between showing positivity and negativity...but now it seems like shows show 8
70-90% negativity only. I can't watch shows for more than couple of months any more as they become overly negative. This makes me wonder do general public really enjoy so much negativity...do they not have enough in their lives..😕

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