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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev's expression during Sangeet is not a happy one. To the best of my understanding it was his decision of not telling Sonakshi abt this. And I understand such news takes time to be accepted . But when he has decided not to tell her, his sad face will bring in doubt if he is regretting his decision of marrying her. Hence want to know from each one of you ...what would be the exact reason why Dev is so sad...kindly choose your options and do comment. Would love to hear from all of you .

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think because this may disturb sonakshi and She will not enjoy the best day of her life. 😭
But seeing Dev sad face sona may doubt.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rukiaa

I think because this may disturb sonakshi and She will not enjoy the best day of her life. 😭
But seeing Dev sad face sona may doubt.



Exactly the point ...its going to create more tension in her seeing him sad. Any women in her position would think "is he regretting this marriage "...😭
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Exactly the point ...its going to create more tension in her seeing him sad. Any women in her position would think "is he regretting this marriage "...😭


Hope they not take MU way. Just show Dev making Sona feel beautiful And supporting her. 😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Voted for 4th option.

Taking dev character into consideration, he is the man who never thinks first about himself. So for me 2nd option can't goes.
Sona is his life and he will npt regret for falling in love with her.


Now he is sad as he knew that sona will one day come to know and it will break her.
More than his, he is thinking of sona 's state
As he said they will share everything with each other and he is unable to share this news with her because he don't want her happiness to get ruined.
Just for her smile he is baring all the pain alone.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think, he doesn't want to spoil the extra special days of Sonakshi's life by telling her about her reports...

Like who never wants kids... Everybody wants... But when it will be time to tell her this, he will. Until then he will endure everything alone...

Dev is that kind of man, what his mother says him to be the "Dhaal" of the family.
Dhaal is the weapon used in the war to save oneself from every single attack.
Dev does the same thing, he takes all the attacks and pain to himself so that his family can keep on smiling. Since Sona is almost his family now, he is taking her medical condition and it's sadness just to himself, so that Sona can keep on being happy..

Dev is not sad that he is stuck with a woman who cannot become a mother. He is not of that kind...

He is just not sad for himself, he is sadder for Sonakshi... Childlessness hurts a father too, but it hits the most to the mother when she feels is the reason for their state.

The sense of that desperation to, what to do to our body so that it can give her a baby...

It is not at all easy...

And he is saddest for Sonakshi...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aazeen02

I think, he doesn't want to spoil the extra special days of Sonakshi's life by telling her about her reports...

Like who never wants kids... Everybody wants... But when it will be time to tell her this, he will. Until then he will endure everything alone...

Dev is that kind of man, what his mother says him to be the "Dhaal" of the family.
Dhaal is the weapon used in the war to save oneself from every single attack.
Dev does the same thing, he takes all the attacks and pain to himself so that his family can keep on smiling. Since Sona is almost his family now, he is taking her medical condition and it's sadness just to himself, so that Sona can keep on being happy..

Dev is not sad that he is stuck with a woman who cannot become a mother. He is not of that kind...

He is just not sad for himself, he is sadder for Sonakshi... Childlessness hurts a father too, but it hits the most to the mother when she feels is the reason for their state.

The sense of that desperation to, what to do to our body so that it can give her a baby...

It is not at all easy...

And he is saddest for Sonakshi...



True...but one day he will have to and then she is going to feel miserable...I felt he could have told her now ...slowly helped her to accept it...than hiding it from her...this not sharing the trouble attitude is only going to worsen the issues...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kashishbano

Voted for 4th option.

Taking dev character into consideration, he is the man who never thinks first about himself. So for me 2nd option can't goes.
Sona is his life and he will npt regret for falling in love with her.


Now he is sad as he knew that sona will one day come to know and it will break her.
More than his, he is thinking of sona 's state
As he said they will share everything with each other and he is unable to share this news with her because he don't want her happiness to get ruined.
Just for her smile he is baring all the pain alone.



Even I did vote for 4th one...but I feel he should have told her instead of hiding from her. His sad face is so noticeable and I am sure it wont take Sona to understand something is wrong ...she might think he is regretting his decision...not sure why they had to bring it such tracks...😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kashishbano

Voted for 4th option.

Taking dev character into consideration, he is the man who never thinks first about himself. So for me 2nd option can't goes.
Sona is his life and he will npt regret for falling in love with her.


Now he is sad as he knew that sona will one day come to know and it will break her.
More than his, he is thinking of sona 's state
As he said they will share everything with each other and he is unable to share this news with her because he don't want her happiness to get ruined.
Just for her smile he is baring all the pain alone.



True...but I wanted his to tell her the situation before their marriage after all she deserve to know ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I can not support Dev's decision to hide the matter from Sona. They both are not teenagers. Both are mature in age and are successful professionals.Dev should have revealed the reports to her. It is her right to know not later. but right now.
He should have assured her come what may they will together deal with the situation and find a solution. At this moment treatment is important not marriage celebrations.

Sona definitely needs medical help without delay as callousness in such cases may lead to grave danger. If they don't want to let their families know immediately they can take their time and inform them later but the family also have the right to know it.
In my opinion Dev and Sona together should cancel the marriage on the pretext of some business trip for Dev or something else. Bijoy preferred marriage after six months. So they can convince him easily.

So if they want to avoid unnecessary tension in the families Dev and Sona can hide the issue for six months and concentrate on getting Sona treated.I feel Asha can be taken into confidence because to undergo treatment Sona needs her support.

Any way I don't support Dev's decision to hide it from Sons. It will complicate the matters further.
I have no complaints on his inability to show a happy face in Sangeet. It is not easy to pretend in such situation. Dev is human after all.I can understand.

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