Ishwari: A thoughtful caring mother or a shrewd woman?

Heya guys!

I am totally confused by this prenup agreement...

On one hand, I don't think that a prenup agreement is needed between Devakshi... Because a lady like Sonakshi is an independent girl... She is of that kind of a girl, who gives two hoots for the guy and his money if all she wants is to separate... She had never loved Dev for his money... But for the man's values...

But how is a mother in law going to know and understand all this right from the start... She will eventually learn all this about her daughter in law as and when the time tests her...

Ishwari's concerns for her daughters is also valid... I agree, all her children should be given equal rights. I also will agree, that the company belongs to all her four children... I agree it all...

What I don't agree to are:

1. Even if circumstances of divorce arise, why would Sonakshi not get a single penny? (I am not saying she will ask for it... No, she's a very self respecting person, she has simply no interest in his money. she is very well capable of earning on her own) But I just talking in the sense of husband - wife rights... Why would she be restrained from the rights of her husband's property...

2. I am super affronted by the trick by which Ishwari has got Dev's signature... This is trickery, betrayal, shrewdness, and simply not what a mother does to her child...
I can imagine what will be Dev's condition when he comes to know that his signatures are there on the prenup Agreement... He will stand as a fraud before his in laws, and especially before Sonakshi and Bijoy...
That guy is going to shatter like never before seeing his own mother's betrayal...

Somewhere at the back of my mind the scene from the Pakistani series Humsafar, its mother son confrontation scene is coming before my eyes...
The lead guy, Asher says to his mother - Biwi dhokha de sakti hai, par maa toh dhokha nahi deti na? Phir kyu kiya aapne aisa?

Someday, Ishwari will have to face the same wrath from her son... And it is sad for any mother to see such a day from her devoted son... But Ishwari is collecting a wall of bricks to be thrown in her court... Nobody else is responsible...

WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN DONE INSTEAD :

I understand, what Ishwari was wanting was for the best of interest for all her children...
But what she could have asked for is, Division of Property among all her children right from the start... Batwaara...
Sectioned the company among all her four children and let Dev continue running his company as he was doing earlier...
Now it is completely Dev's decision to have a prenup agreement or not, give half of his share of property in case of divorce or not... None of Ishwari's concerns...

But no, this lady has just learnt trickery... A complete and best company to Radha Rani... both suit each other...

I am sorry Ishwari, you lost the charm for me... From here on, even if you support Sonakshi during her hard stages of infertility, nothing, absolutely nothing will melt my heart for you...
if Dev ever stands again all broken, shattered, alone and felt cheated, I swear Ishwari, I will alone stand and bash you...
I am so sad with what you just did today...

When Ishwari spoke about all her four kids getting equal rights...I felt she was lying to herself.
"Mere charon bachhon ko sabkuch barabar milega.Pyar bhi aur haq bhi."
Really Ishwari??Wasn't she the one who took away the right of education from Neha?Fine I agree that she had to take that decisions due to financial constraints but if she would have really given equal love and rights to all her kids then Neha would have never had accused Ishwari of being partial.And suddenly she remembers that she has 3 daughrers who have equal rights as Dev.
I understand why a prenup might be important and for a minute im ready to consider that Ishwari wouldn'y kmow that Sona is not interested in Dev's money.Even after all the time she spent with Sona..knowing her,understanding her,appreciating her she might have this seed of doubt that Sona is just interested in money.
I also agree that Dev shouldn't be responsible for Sonakshi in any way if the divorce takes place.I personally have never understood the concept of alimony.Its a different case when kids are involved but why should an ex-husband be responsible for his ex-wife?Agar rishta hi nahin raha toh haq kis baat ka??
But inspite of all this she didn't have any right totrick Dev into signing this paper.Did she think of the consequences?What will she do when Dev comes to know about it?How will she justify her actions?She shouldn't push Dev to the point where he starts to hate himself for worshiping her.

Originally posted by: KaranSG_01

When Ishwari spoke about all her four kids getting equal rights...I felt she was lying to herself.
"Mere charon bachhon ko sabkuch barabar milega.Pyar bhi aur haq bhi."
Really Ishwari??Wasn't she the one who took away the right of education from Neha?Fine I agree that she had to take that decisions due to financial constraints but if she would have really given equal love and rights to all her kids then Neha would have never had accused Ishwari of being partial.And suddenly she remembers that she has 3 daughrers who have equal rights as Dev.
I understand why a prenup might be important and for a minute im ready to consider that Ishwari wouldn'y kmow that Soan is not interested in Dev's money.Even after all the time she spent with Sona..knowing her,understanding her,appreciating her she might have this seed of doubt that Sona is just interested in money.
I also agree that Sonakshi Dev shouldn't be responsible for Sonakshi in any way if the divorce takes place.I personally have never understood the concept of alimony.Its a different case when kida are involved but why should an ex-husband be responsible for his ex-wife?Agar rishta hi nahin raha toh haq kis baat ka??
But inspite of all this she didn't have any right totrick Dev into signing this paper.Did she think of the consequences?What will she do when Dev comes to know about it?How will she justify her actions?She shouldn't push Dev to the point where he start to hate himself for worshiping her.

I am mad right now...
Will just say - I hate you Ishwari...
I had other emotions until you were a mother or a mother in law...
I hold just lothe, disgust and hatred for frauds...
No God, she's not even a proper human being...
I hate u Ishwari...

If there is anyone who thinks she is good mom.. sadly mistaken. CVs want us to sympathize with each characyer.. not possible after how she got Dev to sign the papers 😡

She is purely money minded!

There are many issues to be addressed as part of the track. ..

If she was just caring and preventive she should convince Dev to get papers signed.. getting papers signed so cunningly just shows her shrewdness nothing confusing there ... 😡

Originally posted by: yyy

There are many issues to be addressed as part of the track. ..

1.Does siblings have any right on the property which was earned by Dev alone .I feel it's totally unfair to his kids and his wife if he has to divide the property into 4 equal halves .It should be Dev's decision whether he wants to share his property with his sisters .His isters except Neha wereally given equal opportunity to study well ..they have to earn for themselves

2. Does ex wife have right on ex husband ''s property: Keeping Dev Sonakshi aside. I feel spouse (wife/husband)should be provided alimony only if she/he is not capable of supporting themselves.If she is financially independent then why should their spouse provide alimony .If kids are involved then it's a different issue as both the parents are responsible for bringing up their kids .

I feel it's totally unfair if one has to give 50% of their hard earned money during divorce unless it's a joint property .

3. Nothing wrong in signing a prenup if both are comfortable with the idea.It's a practical thing and one should keep your emotions aside whole doing so .Here both Dev and Sonakshi didn't want to so what Ishwari did was not acceptable

Ishwari ''s concerns were valid as she is fianacially dependent on her son.She could have asked him to transfer something in her name for security reasons before his marriage .That would have made sense but making him sign without his knowledge is a criminal offence.

I completely agree with your points.
Even I feel that Dev's sisters have no right on his property.It would have been a different thing if this company was his father's but this is his company.It not fair to divide it in 4 equal parts.I agree his siblings are his responsibility but only till a point.
And even I don't agree with the concept of alimony.its a difere t thing when kids are involved but in no way should an ex-husband be responsible for his ex-wife.

I so agree with you!
I cannot understand this lady in any angle
But I know such people exist too
Mere hypocrites!
Brahmins my 🤬

Great topic
I was so annoyed by ishwari today

I toh lost my faith in her a long back.. whenever she goes all sanskari maa n does mera mera beta i just roll my eyes.