Is it fair to not think about your family and prospective groom?

I know Sona doesn't love Ritvik as she still loves dev forget this move on stuff

Originally posted by: nuckts

I know Sona doesn't love Ritvik as she still loves dev forget this move on stuff

But yesterday I kind of really liked the scene where Sona's baba saved money given by her and that hard saved money by this middle class man was not even considered by Sona when she ran for that love of hers

I mean seriously yesterday's episode showed love is not just blind but also dumb and makes you highly selfish

I am not saying that she should not love dev, it will still remain but the fact is

It was her family who supported her during the tough time when this same love left her for his mother

And here she easily forgot about their reputation and just went towards Dev

What respect she holds for her family?

And not just her but also Ritvik 's family who supported her inspite of her public humiliation (newspaper incident)

Their understanding nature is not worthy just because they are not leads or leads's family?

Highly immature behavior of Sona

I want to know your opinion whether is it fair to consider own family and in such case groom and his family's reputation just for the love who threw out the person from his life?

I know hardcore devakshi fans will blast on this topic but before blasting think about it wasn't Sona unfair to her family and Ritvik's family?

Interesting opinion!

In real world, if the bride's ex faints dramatically in her engagement what could possibly happen? Okay, she might not run but wouldn't the function be interrupted? Wouldn't insaniyath mean, people gather to help. Wouldn't she be expected to shed a tear or two atleast?

Ofcourse in this show, it was creative license, a bit of drama for impact. would have ideally liked Ritwick to run along, being a doctor! Why don't we question that? The fact that all those educated people stood around and waited for Sonakshi to call out instructions? Shouldn't someone else take hold of the situation?

2 things here(!!!) 1) Sonakshis reaction was just that a reaction not a calculated move. 2) However close to reality this is just a show not real life.

Agree with you. All of them tried to take decision of heart with their mind and ended up getting overpowered by their emotions. Dev nullified their love as if it was something easy to throw away when he chose to. Sona tried to burry and run away from her emotions by agreeing to marry Ritwik. Ishwari tried to belittle the love Dev n Sona had so as to get her hold back on her son. It takes time for the heart to heal and all three forced this by giving the bleeding hearts no time to heal. We can analyse who is more at fault and their percentages. But fact remains all of them have their own share and have to live with it.

Sona is Bijoys pride and joy. She broke his trust. But is he not at fault too. Ritwik and his family doesn't deserve this. But was he not aware of how much Sona was still in love with Dev. They may not have equal shares of fault but all have contributed to this mess.

Originally posted by: Manasi90

Really???? I mean serial hai. kya kya expect karoge bicharon se? DevAkshi bhi chahiye, dev redemption track bhi chahiye, Sona supergirl bhi chahiye, Ishwari of liye sabak bhi chahiye, family problems handle bhi hone chahiye. They r normal ppl not God!!!

Sorry for being rude.

I now just these r ur thoughts... nothing personal... par itna sab logic hum routine mein bhi use nahi karte and u expect a daily soap to show u soo much practicalities.

Enjoy their performances is all I would say.

Again don't take it to heart.

Agreed to the point that Sona shudnt have run like that...

Sona did what she did.. She is a human and not a saint and is completely allowed to make mistakes or think ahout herself only once in a while...

As long as CVs dont glorify her act of hurtibg rithik and his family... As ling as she come back and asks everyone for forgiveness.. I am totally cool with what ever she did.. What ever cvs are doing is fine by me...

To err is human.. Pls dont tell me you never think about yourself only and always find ways to sacrifice and do only right things..

I said same thing when dev was stalking.. Cvs clearly did nit want to glorify it.. They added atleast 3 scenes calling it a crime , ghatiya aur giri hui harkat... I am fine with it as long as they say they ate not supporting it

It was her love & respect for her family that she was ready to get married despite of being unable to move on !

Originally posted by: Soumya23

Agreed to the point that Sona shudnt have run like that...

But r v missing something here...

Everybody was blind or rather acting to be blind to say Sonakshi bohot khush hai except for her mother...

Keeping aside Love n drama,when a person falls down in a function,dont the people who knew hin run to him first?I do t understand being a doc why Ritwick didnt?

And above all these Sona knows that Dev's pain is for her...didnt she say Im scared for you????

It was a reaction not a thought about process...

Definitely they will show Sona repenting her actions...that maybe one of the points she thinks when she rejects Dev's proposal...