Sona - First Love vs First Scar.. - Page 2

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Posted: 8 years ago
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This is where I am disconnected with the show. I cannot just understand forgiving such immense pain. The woman who thought that man everything, brutely hurt her. On the top of that man not even 1% improved, still he is selfish and self centred. He thinks only about his pain. I really don't understand how can she forgive him so easily. If this is her nature, why did she left 7 years before? She could stayed back easily begging him. Makers lost their mind and so dishing us clap.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I just hope this time sona doesn't accept dev as husband with out a proper realization and redemption. She can accept him as the father of her child but should not give him any more rights on her at a personal level...

She should just be that angoor that dev cant have unyil redemption. Its ok if he hates the angoor or call her names -- all just becuase he cant have her
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well @ TM -
Good to know about your views, but... Yes there is always a but
From the very first promo of this show I was aware that the ML will do break up with the FL that too for his mom. So it was never a shocking thing for me - first break up of DevAkshi was destined to happen and even we all were very well aware in advance of the reason as well.


Now coming to Sonakshi forgiving Dev - I don't understand from where did you got the idea that she forgave Dev . She was just feeling nostalgic and there is nothing bad in that . Irrespective of whether our views matched on Dev or not but I liked the fact that the CVs showed, people do remember their good and beautiful moments. I have witnessed real people talking about their ex and sharing even some good stories related to the ex as well . If XYZ have divorced with PWY that doesn't mean they have not spent good time with each other ever . No one only remembers bad memories most of time people would like to remember good memories in life as well. Its only good memories that keeps us running in life . We can't lead life with hatred. If she would have forgiven him , both of them would not fight with each other and rather we would have get to witness some goodie- goodie scenes.

My best example is - Ranbir and Deepika , Ranveer and Anushka -
Akshay Kumar and Shilpa Shetty had ugly break ups but today all of them have cordial relationships.

So I do believe we do forget and forgive .

Reality and close to reality are two different things . End of the day this is a serial and CVs need to show drama. On a lighter note - we are EK tortured viewers - we have watched worst ML - marrying three times or more whereas FL marry and sleeping with ex just to save a baby . A dead man miraculously shown alive, plastic surgeries , loss of memory and what not - compared to all nonsense we have watched till date I liked this drama reasonably good so I am liking it .

P. S. Just different point of view . # respect each other's Povs


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Edited by mayu1982 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hiii,

I respect ur POV, but I feel, ya first love cannot be forgotten and first scar leaves a mark, but does that mean we stop living. Forgetting and Forgiving are 2 different things. I don't think the showed that Sona has forgiven Dev. This serial is a modern day realistic show and like in real life we stay friends even after break up. I know of couples who are happy in a friendly relationship after divorce. I happens, one doesn't always have to hate the person after a breakup, neither does one need to plot a revenge plan against someone.

Just my POV.

Edited by luvflicksgirl - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@mayu and luvflicksgirl

Check the original post date .. she made it when sona agreed to marry dev.. of ourse sona did forgive him at that time with out any realization or redemption from devs side..

This thread has just been bumped up as we feel or are scared that it will happen again
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Posted: 8 years ago
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No girl of today's generation will go back to a guy like Dev. The concept of one true love is over rated people fall in and out of love it's very normal.If two individuals have survived without each other for 7 years then they can surely live without each other for the rest of their lives. A proper end to the show will be they both forgiving each other and getting a closure.Sona finally moving on in her life and Dev realizing his mistakes but Sona refusing to reconcile with him.

Ps: This is an Indian show so such expectations will never be fulfilled but I would be more than happy for a proper ending than forced reconciliation 😊

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