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Posted: 8 years ago
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my question is wat is the message (if there is any) of this serial...do they want to show dev as loyal son, blind son, normal son or psychic son (any other term pls mention since my poor brain cant fathom)...y is he not confronting his mom...either show him as a loyal son and make him sit at home and sing devdas songs and touch his ma's feet day and night or else gv him strength enuf to confront his mom...he is old enuf to ask her the reason y she does not like sona...

and it makes no sense that dev does not admit that he has made a sacrifice...if he is a loyal and obedient son then y is he lying to her all the time...ishwari is telling him to forget sona and the next scene we can see he is stalking her on social media...ishwari is telling him to stop calling sona and the next scene we can see him waiting for her outside her house...wenever it is the question of y he broke the relationship his answer is that for old promises which i fail to understand...wat kind of promises did he make to his mom...did he promise never to get married or did he promise to always look after his family...if the latter then watz stopping him from marrying sona and if the former then why did he enter into a relationship with sona widout ma's permission...


and wats the problem with ishwari...y is everyone always tel maraofying her...y is mamaji not telling her that he has told dev in the hospital that she dislikes sona...just like sona and bijoy showed her the mirror by calling her a selfish and uncaring mother who doesnt care about his son's happiness y cant dev take a stand...he can tell her to gv one reason y sona is not gud for him otherwise he will marry sona with or without her permission...


and this ritwik track makes no sense...y r we not shown wat we were promised before the launch of this show...the pre-launch promos showed that they will be on friendly terms even after separation but here we r seeing that they r fighting like cats and dogs...on one hand sona is making all promises like she will get married by the end of this month (which month only they know since the promise was made in aug and now its sep)...and on the other hand dev is standing like lakshmanrekha all around her like as if if ritwik dares to step in then he will box his ears...


it makes no sense to drag sona-ritwik track on and on since it is clear their marriage is not part of this story (unless and until they want to kill and bury this show)...unnecessarily we r made to invest our time and energy on a relationship which has no future...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Many have variety of views regarding this track of separation. Many have views of how Sona is correct to move on and how Dev turning possessive and then obsessive and it continues. We all have till now seen many many things showed to us in realistic way by this daily soap. Their sudden turn towards 'melo' is not digestible or I would say has turned heavy for us to digest. Their sudden turn towards being dramtic is also due to introduction of Ritwick.
May be many think they r losing the grip, but the main plot was this itself. Due to the realistic approach at first we gripped it tight and I think without putting pressure of our expectation, let's wait and watch what actually they are delivering.
Let's breathe and sigh, smile, laugh with Dev and Sonakshi but I think we all need to stop judging.
To continue or stop watching should b personal view.
I like to distract maself, to look forward what will happen so I'M STILL IN LEAGUE.
If we can bear melo for ekta kapoor plots for these many years, this is nothing.
Strictly personal views.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Writers want to make viewers believe that Mom's do not care about their kids, they just expect.
This whole Track is wrong .
Initial promo indicates same but there seems mutual separate living arrangement.
But, if they planned Mother storyline like this, then this story wrong to serve even.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: adoremevirgo

my question is wat is the message (if there is any) of this serial...do they want to show dev as loyal son, blind son, normal son or psychic son (any other term pls mention since my poor brain cant fathom)...y is he not confronting his mom...either show him as a loyal son and make him sit at home and sing devdas songs and touch his ma's feet day and night or else gv him strength enuf to confront his mom...he is old enuf to ask her the reason y she does not like sona...

and it makes no sense that dev does not admit that he has made a sacrifice...if he is a loyal and obedient son then y is he lying to her all the time...ishwari is telling him to forget sona and the next scene we can see he is stalking her on social media...ishwari is telling him to stop calling sona and the next scene we can see him waiting for her outside her house...wenever it is the question of y he broke the relationship his answer is that for old promises which i fail to understand...wat kind of promises did he make to his mom...did he promise never to get married or did he promise to always look after his family...if the latter then watz stopping him from marrying sona and if the former then why did he enter into a relationship with sona widout ma's permission...


and wats the problem with ishwari...y is everyone always tel maraofying her...y is mamaji not telling her that he has told dev in the hospital that she dislikes sona...just like sona and bijoy showed her the mirror by calling her a selfish and uncaring mother who doesnt care about his son's happiness y cant dev take a stand...he can tell her to gv one reason y sona is not gud for him otherwise he will marry sona with or without her permission...


and this ritwik track makes no sense...y r we not shown wat we were promised before the launch of this show...the pre-launch promos showed that they will be on friendly terms even after separation but here we r seeing that they r fighting like cats and dogs...on one hand sona is making all promises like she will get married by the end of this month (which month only they know since the promise was made in aug and now its sep)...and on the other hand dev is standing like lakshmanrekha all around her like as if if ritwik dares to step in then he will box his ears...


it makes no sense to drag sona-ritwik track on and on since it is clear their marriage is not part of this story (unless and until they want to kill and bury this show)...unnecessarily we r made to invest our time and energy on a relationship which has no future...

This Ritwick track is just useless and is being used for drama quotient and why are the makers hell bent on showing why Sona or for that matter any girl not marry Dev,He is not standing up for her or letting her go.Its getting annoying 😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Aditi.. The answer is in your post...
The makers like THIS!!! These questions and doubts and confusions..

The annoyance of the audience which gives them a kick🤪.. Without intending to be, they got us hooked to a mystery which we want them to solve.. And they are just enjoying the rage amidst the audience.. 😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Orchid25

Writers want to make viewers believe that Mom's do not care about their kids, they just expect.
This whole Track is wrong .
Initial promo indicates same but there seems mutual separate living arrangement.
But, if they planned Mother storyline like this, then this story wrong to serve even.


That's what I meant dear. Atleast let them give us clear-cut idea. Basic story was of proud son's mother's process of being a Indian Mother-in-law. Simple as that.
Son and his to b half r present story line.
Mother and her process is yet to come
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Aditi dear calm down... But I know how you are feeling.

But yes, its really frustrating to watch the show now a days... losing interest slowly. Dev is being tortured beyond limit... can't stand it.

Nice post BTW.

Well, we too want answers for all these questions... CVs are the only people who can answer... Why don't you Post this in FB tagging them????


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Meera_Ka_Mohan

Aditi dear calm down... But I know how you are feeling.

But yes, its really frustrating to watch the show now a days... losing interest slowly. Dev is being tortured beyond limit... can't stand it.

Nice post BTW.

Well, we too want answers for all these questions... CVs are the only people who can answer... Why don't you Post this in FB tagging them????



i made this post in FB first but i did not tag them...but the admin of the grp deleted it widout informing me...i dont know we cant post as we feel...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manasi90

Many have variety of views regarding this track of separation. Many have views of how Sona is correct to move on and how Dev turning possessive and then obsessive and it continues. We all have till now seen many many things showed to us in realistic way by this daily soap. Their sudden turn towards 'melo' is not digestible or I would say has turned heavy for us to digest. Their sudden turn towards being dramtic is also due to introduction of Ritwick.

May be many think they r losing the grip, but the main plot was this itself. Due to the realistic approach at first we gripped it tight and I think without putting pressure of our expectation, let's wait and watch what actually they are delivering.
Let's breathe and sigh, smile, laugh with Dev and Sonakshi but I think we all need to stop judging.
To continue or stop watching should b personal view.
I like to distract maself, to look forward what will happen so I'M STILL IN LEAGUE.
If we can bear melo for ekta kapoor plots for these many years, this is nothing.
Strictly personal views.


was the main plot about dev stalking sona or sona about to get married to another man...if i wud hv known that i hv to endure stalkers and third angles then i wud never hv started watching this show...i thot this is one rare show which is touching a very real and sensitive topic...a possessive mom's extra hold on his son and the son's unshakeable faith that his mom can never do anything against his happiness...and how the bitter truth will open the son's eyes that his mom's love is robbing him of the independence and individuality that he deserves as an adult human being...

nywyz the pre-launch promos did not show that dev is stalker or sona moving on with another man...they r together as friends but dev indecisive how to progress...

that thing is maintained here i admit that dev cannot decide wat to do...he doesnt want to go against his mom but also cant let go of sona...
but the other thing that sona will be beside him to gv him emotional support is not being shown here...instead she is always sunaofying him for interfering in her life...

i am not against anything except that i dont like third angles...they cud show this separation in any other way except bringing in a new character...even neel cud do...he cud be a gud friend of sona and dev feeling jealous...y does moving on means getting married...y cant moving on mean making new friends and focusing on career...

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