What Would YOU do, if YOU Were Dev? - Page 3

Originally posted by: spacenoxx

Won't go against the mother is one thing but won't even discuss with mother is another thing altogether.

Also if he isn't going to talk to his mother, he is better off not marrying at all than get anothet slave for his mother.

😊 Agreed

Interesting Topic😆

Step 1: Try and convince . Tell your parents how much you love her and that she makes you happy.
( your parents not happy , angry , irritated ..mom's tears...heavy crying ...emotional scenes )
Step 2: Maintain status quo..give time ...ask them to think abt it...play it cool.
Step 3 : Parents start emotional black mail..be calm...listen to every thing they say ...but stay put in your decision.
( Never loose control and get angry on ur part or start crying... your love should give you strength keep calm )
Step 4: If nothing works then you come with a decision..tell them - I am educated , I have a job, financially independent , I can elope with her and start my life away from you all..but I didnt do because I love you all very much and I wanted you all to be happy and be a part of a decision which brought a sense of happiness and completeness in me. And also I felt you cant be happy by running away from people you love.

Looks like you are not happy because you are scared of what society is going to say because we are from different community, diff eating habits , spoke different language etc. For me it doesnt matter as society didnt bring me up , You all did hence...I decided to take a decision...

I will not marry her against your wishes because to start a new relationship as husband and wife I dont want to break an old one. At the same time I cant stop loving her too...and that is another truth of my life which you all have to accept..so dont ask me to marry anyone else and stop talking to her or meeting her etc...as I cant love one person and marry another.

I cant break her trust just the way I cant break urs.

Eventually they will agree and come around...It works not only for Dev , even for Sona ...it is tested and tried and have worked too😉.

PS : Not sure if it will work with parents like Ishwari , she is one of a kind😆

first my mom is no where near Ishwari, she herself keeps asking me to find someone my self😆

Originally posted by: piyu008

first my mom is no where near Ishwari, she herself keeps asking me to find someone my self😆

BUT let's imagine.. if i was DEv then i would have tried to convience her, to know her reasons and i would made ishwari to question her self.

All i know is, love doesn't make someone or relationship weak. Well, even in mother - son case, you are suppose to make each other better- as human, as mother,as a son. Personally i have done it, my mom have done it.. n it continues.

In Dev's case, the biggest mistake by Dev is he considers Ishwari as god, n on the other hand Ishwari doesn't even try to rectify that mistake. Infact her being selfish, self- obsessed : she is happy about the fact. Here, the problem lies, Dev doesn't want to accept that Ishwari is mere human being who is bond to make mistakes, he is not even ready to question her on her judgements! that's just pathetic.

I just don't understand their so called understanding and love🤢 here, which instead on making them better human being , is making them worst characters.

Sorry went little of topic, but i don't think i would be anywhere near Dev, who would idolize anyone blinding.

PS: Even Lord krishna stated in Gita that don't just follow my words, understand it question it and then if you feel it for good then do it oherwise dont'.

If I were Dev, well let me think...'Mummy se pooch kar batata hoon'😆